Love Strange

Twice I have had a provider (actually think it may have been the same provider both times) respond to a text message or reach out to me hours and even the next day after I had sent an initial text inquiring about appointment information. The first time my phone was sitting next to someone that I most definitely don’t want to know of my hobby. This last time I get an out of the blue response when I’m at dinner with the same person I don’t want to know of my hobby. Both times the provider referred to me as “Babe” in the text. What is the common etiquette of providers and response times of getting back to messages or reaching out to clients.