Gemma Chang

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Everything posted by Gemma Chang

  1. Provider diatribe against this site

    Where are the BP girls posting now that the "adult jobs" section was shut down?
  2. On rate haggling.....

    LuluLemon* I spell checked that 3x and still missed that, goddamn.
  3. On rate haggling.....

    Totally irrelevant to the posted topic, I know.. But CAC is full of suburban yoga moms with their tits stuck in the air, who drive their BMW X5's 10 mph below the speed limit to the athletic club where they model their LuleLemon or Fabletics and don't sweat.
  4. Horror stories

    There really are hardly any Asian providers in the state. I've combed through ads on different sites to scope out the "competition" and I've not come across much. Of course there are those ads on BP with the unbelievably gorgeous, doll-like, big titted Japanese girls that scream B&S. Now we know what's really behind them.
  5. Fall in love with client♀️

    The hot wife experience (HWE), however, is a different story!! I don't think the concept has hit Colorado yet, though..
  6. Deposits

    I believe JoDoe is correct in that Venmo doesn't ask many questions. I think Square Cash and all of those similar apps are pretty everyone friendly, and you don't have to reveal anything about your identity to those you're corresponding with. I definitely empathize with on the volume of flakes, though. I've had several calls/ appointments in the past where I would show up right on time, and nobody was home and nobody was picking up the phone. It's very disheartening. Couldn't even give me the time of day and give me a "never mind," before I drove all the way out there and wasted my fuel.
  7. Deposits

    Wait, my website is built from Squarespace.. Am I going to get some notice that I need to shut that shit down?
  8. Does the Hotel Matter…

    Hmm, I wonder why I'm pulling up rates for 105 on Google. Unless you've been looking at specific rooms..
  9. Does the Hotel Matter…

    Seriously?! When I looked it up, it was around 95-105. That's insane. That's like Hyatt level rip-offery.
  10. Fresh Face!

    Hellloooo, my name is Gemma. I appears it's customary to post an initial greeting to all when joining, so here we are. I look forward to corresponding with the lot of you!
  11. Running into girls outside of this...

    Professionalism seems to be the nature of most TOB members. Perhaps I've found the wrong clients in the past who just weren't under the same understanding of the hobby as myself. I have had a couple of regulars that I unfortunately had to let go due to their emotional attachment to me, who thought the more we saw each other, the more often they could suggest "hanging out" off the clock. That's unfortunately not how this works.
  12. Running into girls outside of this...

    I've never bumped into any clients outside of the hobby. Personally a little wary of that because, while there are those who know how to keep the relationship professional, I also have those clients who want our lives to be much more entwined than they should be. 😅 I guess that can come with being a GFE companion. I like handing out my card when I go to adult entertainment stores. I once met a man who said his fetish was cross dressing. 😜🙊👠 Never did get a call, though. 🤔
  13. TER perplexes me a bit. If I've read correctly, in order for an account to become a provider account so you can set up a profile, menu of services, etc., someone must write you a review first , and only then can you set all of that up. So how do I know if someone has already written a review and I can connect it to my account? Does anyone else see this operation as working backwards?
  14. It seems Eros is not as live in Colorado, or even just Denver for that matter, as it is in larger more "city" cities, if that makes sense.. I'm talking Chicago, New York, LA, you see the pattern. Seems it would only be useful if I were to be touring. Anyone know from personal experience who's able to confirm or deny my conclusive findings?
  15. Does the Hotel Matter…

    I'm rather particular with hotels. 😅 Whether I'm booking them myself or visiting. Even anywhere owned by Hyatt I find really basic and not really worth the price tag. However, I'm a big fan of Marriott! They're well decorated, clean, with flattering lighting, and they're not that much more than a La Quinta. I'll admit, maybe it's the child in me who see's staying at a hotel like a vacation in itself..
  16. Obtaining a provider account via TER?

    Thanks for all the welcomes! I did pop into Eccie for a bit, but there were so many banners and a pop up or two. It made me forget what I was looking for!! Figured I'd stick to familiarizing myself with one site for now. Do I agree with you on the ease of navigation on this site, though! Mmm ice cream. 😍🍦
  17. Obtaining a provider account via TER?

    Dually noted. That is an interesting point made, however aren't the 4,000 or so moving each month mostly milennials who are likely providers themselves or completely unaware of the business? That was just my assumption. I've been seeing a lot of Texas and California plates. I can't imagine people are moving here to retire, haha.
  18. Choosing to see a provider without reviews?

    Thanks for the warning!! I'm not absolutely pining for reviews or anything, at least not in a way that's enough to change my policies. I'm just curious as to the significance of a provider having reviews to potential clients, how much of a difference it truly makes to the client, and how frequently it may repel potential dates who would otherwise consider seeing me.
  19. Obtaining a provider account via TER?

    Ah, I was under the impression that TER was the place to be seen, the be all end all, where most clients in general wanted to leave reviews or read reviews. It appears I was mislead! Also, I believe I have to jump through a few hoops to get a P411 account as well. Again, need reviews to obtain official account status. However, I will look into Eccie.
  20. Obtaining a provider account via TER?

    Thanks so much for the clarification, darling! It's a tricky business..
  21. Choosing to see a provider without reviews?

    I'm open to seeing clients who review and those who don't. It's just that I have a limited online presence and zero reviews, to my knowledge, due to the fact that I simply have not been advertising online for the past couple of years. I was curious as to whether or not there were clients with empathy for a provider with no reviews who is seeking to become reviewed.
  22. Choosing to see a provider without reviews?

    Thank you very much for the kind words and encouraging advice! Yes, of course I plan on adding more photos haha. All of the professional photos of myself are paid for by my previous agency and I obviously would like to present myself as solely independent from now on. I'm having a new shoot done this week.