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Please excuse any typos. I’m trying to get ready and I let Siri dictate and she doesn’t always get it right: PSA I don’t know what the heck is going on lately, but it seems like over the past year. Clients are angrier and angrier. Some of them act like you went to their home, dragged them from their bed, and forced them to come to see you. I love connecting with people from all different walks of life, I love sharing, great memories and making them, and I love a great connection. What I do not love is people who text in our entitled. There is no need to send me 6 to 10 text messages within five minutes. If you read my bio, it clearly states that this is a side gig for me and that I am a working professional. I have a slew of animals, I am a parent, and I live my life. I work my appointment, I will take short notice when I’m able, but there is never a time that I will just be ready in five minutes. I know every lady is different and some do this full-time so perhaps some clients just expect that. But when it’s clearly written somewhere that that’s not the reality for me it blows me away when they get pissy. I just had the displeasure of dealing with a (phone number removed) who has messaged me in the past and been incredibly rude to the point I stopped answering. Today he starts out seeming nice enough, but I saved my contacts so that I know when it’s someone who was rude to me, didn’t show up, didn’t follow rules, or that I really liked, Connected well with, etc.… So he was already saved as probably won’t see Rude. Being Easter Sunday I decided to hope that he had a better attitude. It started instantly. He went from high. How are you doing to sending about 10 text messages within two minutes. I let him know. I was on the road, dropping off some food to family and then I was answering several clients while safe to do so and that once I was home, I would be able to more consistently respond. Keep in mind there wasn’t one gap of more than 4 to 6 minutes. He lost his mind and told me why don’t I go ahead and take my other “Clints.” I let him know that’s exactly what I would do and that I don’t care to spend my time with somebody that’s like that. If you’re being a nightmare when texting, imagine how it’s gonna go when you get here. He proceeds to send me an address that he thought was mine basically threatening me, then tell me that the cops are on their way. Not how that works. Not the right address. And absolutely pathetic. Now I’m a rather nice lady. My friend tells me all the time why do strangers talk to you in public. Because I smile, I nod, I put grocery cards away, I will park my car and help elderly people and drive them around. That’s the kind of person than I am. I’ve worked in healthcare for a long time. If I see someone injured in distress, I will stop everything and help. But if you take me there… I will drag you down to the depths of hell. I would rather not do that especially on Easter Sunday. So why? Why provoke, why continue to engage, why blatantly disrespect me, and then why think that I’m gonna sit in silence? To me that is incredibly creepy. Why are you attempting to find an address for me when clearly you’re not booking. Why are you threatening me when I check your attitude and tell you that if it’s a problem for you to wait for my response, you don’t have to see me. Why when I then give it to you do you act shocked and make additional threats. What the fuck is really wrong with people? I’m about to stop answering out of state numbers altogether. This past two weeks it’s either been a game, a no-show, or somebody that showed up with a terrible attitude. People don’t want to give deposits that I’m getting really tired of rearranging my schedule, leaving work early, jumping through hoops to accommodate people for them to either not show up or treat me poorly. So why would I not take a deposit? That way it’s not off or not. And then that pushes clients away, who have reasons that they can’t make deposits. But I’m at the point where I’m very clear in my bio. It’s rare that I show my face. People go crazy on me over that. I run my own business. I can refuse service to anyone I want, and I can run it anyway I like. If that means not showing my face for safety reasons then that’s what it means. If I say that I need something from you before I see you how difficult is that? Somebody went crazy on me the other day. They literally started with. I don’t do deposits. I hadn’t even mentioned it. I said that’s fine. I have several other options for screening. I provided him five additional options and he absolutely lost it. CALLING ME every name in the book. Like read the ad. It says I’m gonna want something as I should. You should feel more safe, knowing that I don’t just give out my information and see Any and everybody. I had to put somebody in their place the other day who refused to accept that I don’t offer certain services. It’s unacceptable. So if you are a gentleman, if you respect that, I have things going on outside of this, you want to come and have a nice time and try to connect, and you have no issue with not being mind boggled at the fact that I require certain things in order to walk into my home… Then please reach out and I would love, love, love to see you. If you are going to be rude, if you expect me to be ready right now, if you’re going to get out of character with me if you don’t like the times that I have available, if you want to negotiate my rate, short me, not show up, show up late and expect to be seen, have poor hygiene, or a poor attitude… LEAVE ME AND EVERY OTHER LADY ALONE. THERE IS ENOUGH GOING ON! THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN, SAFE, AND SMOOTH FOR EVERYONE. I WOULDN’T SAY THAT THE BAD IS OUT WEIGHING THE GOOD OTHER THAN INITIAL POINTS OF CONTACT AND BOOKING. MOST OF THE PEOPLE WHO COME TO SEE ME ARE GENTLEMEN, CHARMING, WHILE PUT TOGETHER, AND HAVE SOME RESPECT. BUT IT MAKES IT REALLY DIFFICULT WHEN IT’S WEEKS ON END OF JUST NO RESPONSES, BAD ATTITUDES, BAD ENERGY, DISRESPECT. IT MAKES YOU WANT TO WALK AWAY. SO I’M REALLY NEEDING MY SWEETHEARTS, SUPPORTERS, AND GENTLEMEN, TO AT LEAST SAY HELLO TODAY. I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A HAPPY EASTER. IF YOU ARE NOT, STAY OFF THE PHONE AND LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE. IF YOUR CAT DIED, STAY HOME. CALL OUT OF WORK. IF YOU GOT BROKEN UP WITH WITH HER, YOU DON’T HANDLE REJECTION. WELL, STAY INSIDE. THE REST OF US DON’T WANT TO DEAL WITH THE BAD ATTITUDE. IT’S DRAINING. .

Hey everyone—just landed on TOB and still figuring out where the cool kids sit. I am in Colorado Springs and enjoying myself so far. If you’re into sarcastic humor, dark hair, and bad decisions… I might be your girl. Or I might be lost—hard to say. Anyway, my vibe is chaotic-flirty! So just saying hi…

It's been perhaps years since I've been active here and wanted to shout out to some old friends. I see many familiar usernames still! Took a break during the pandemic and shuttered my business (both the sexy one and my vanilla one and joined in and worked in a health worker capacity. (hard, hectic time but so glad to be beyond that now and poking into former ventures) My fitness competition training and endurance sports days have meshed to fly fishing, camping, and an occasional trail running race. I'll occasionally pop in here and there in the hopes someone starts a fly fishing thread! and hoping those that I might have lost touch with know that I am still alive and thriving! Fond memories, xoxo Mel

Chiara720 720-772-1579 Colorado Massage Thing maybe TGTBT? https://privatedelights.ch/USA/Colorado/Denver/Chiara720

Isabel Jade 231-412-7010 Colorado Companion Does any one have any current experiences with Isabel Jade? She seems to be new to Denver, has reviews that are 2 to 3 years old on various sites. P261844 on P411. TER. isabel-jade-2314127010-337352

Maia 720-590-7427 Colorado Companion https://www.eros.com/colorado/files/6487691.htm?cat=1 anyone have any information on this provider? Thanks

I’m just curious how much would you say is saying too much? Personally I’ll always check with the provider before I list a specific's but I’m just wondering if there’s something that every time you read it it’s instant cringe or even anger. Where is the line between respecting the right to privacy and informing the people fairly? Just curious not trying to start a whole controversy mostly just looking for opinions and insight. Btw gents I would recommend sending a review to your provider before posting just to check.

so I'm new here and Denver is my first city to ever hear of TOB in is this the place it is most useful to use it at ? or should I continue using along my travels ? are there and other specific destinations TOB is popular in such as it is here? or iis it mostly just for Colorado id appreciate any helpful hints thanks XoXo

Hi I am in DTC & am new to TOB. I used to use backpage but now am shifting to TOB. I do not have reference as I am new here but I could give u a reference from BP. If you can see me please let me know. I want someone who provides gfe. I am a nice gentlemen, 26 yr old.

TER perplexes me a bit. If I've read correctly, in order for an account to become a provider account so you can set up a profile, menu of services, etc., someone must write you a review first , and only then can you set all of that up. So how do I know if someone has already written a review and I can connect it to my account? Does anyone else see this operation as working backwards?

I am mostly local provider on the western slope. I've noticed a lot of posts asking why there aren't many over here, and why people don't travel here and what not. So, there actually is a lot of providers right now if you are looking in the right places-- problem is, most of them are traveling straight through and onto other parts of the US. Another issue is that there aren't many "verified" girls out here. No one is willing to review or verify you! I don't know what the deal is. So it's very hard to get a good reputation. Another issue is location. Finding my own location can be very very difficult after being around for a couple months. There are a few LE issues as well-- not necessarily confirmed LE issues...Just encounters and conversations where it is clear that they are LE. Finally, there are TONS of flakes & hardly any prebookings that *actually* go through. The reliable ones just aren't around enough to maintain. Yet...I would rather deal with all these issues than deal with the big city issues. So, guys (and ladies), what are your complaints about this area regarding providers? (Always looking to improve.)

Hello all, Ive been seeing providers part time for several years. I've only had one provider that could twerk RCG. It was ah-mazing. Looking for recs of a provider who has great twerking skills. Thanks!

Hi, I am Charismatic Dione, but you may also address me as Charisma or simply Dione. I am totally brand new to the Industry, I will make 24 yrs of age on the 23rd of this month and I currently reside in Colorado Springs [Snip} I do plan to move over to the Denver Metro area by the end of this year so if you have leads on nice Hobby friendly incalls please send them my way! [Snip} patience please as this is all a process and I am learning more and more day by day. *Any good logical advice toward helping me be successful in this Industry is welcome from both providers & clients. Also, I am in need of a good professional photographer. Thanks in advance for your time and assistance. Charisma D

We all love a hard pecker, men and women do. But, we also know that sometimes, it just doesn't happen. Medical, is what causes it many , many, times. Seems to me to be the root of the problem. But , guys, I don't care how much we suck on it, lick it, caress it, play with it, it is not going to wake Mr. One-eyed Willy up. When you guys insist we keep trying, and this is after we've already given it a way beyond the norm effort, it tends to become -not fun. And chances of us wanting to see you again are slim indeed. This isn't because you can't get it up. No, not at all. It's because it became not fun anymore. When at your insistance our jaws became tired, mascara that has ran clear to our knees(ok, slight exaggeration)our lips, well, guys, do I need to say more? When Willy won't cooperate, why can't we just enjoy the moment for each other's company? There is something to be said for cuddling naked. But when a provider who used to see you -does not, it is generally a good reason behind it. This is one.