Bootsce

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  1. Not sure how to handle this, advice?

    So the wave off on final approach is problematic. We all can relate to this as it is the equivalent of NCNS. Having been on the receiving end of the wave off more than once I can relate to the sentiment of the texts you received. That does not excuse him from sending them or choosing to escalate the situation. In the past when I received the wave off there was some “adjustment” offered for a future visit (unprompted by me). $hit happens, mean people suck, drama (and escalating the drama) serve no purpose. If he writes a review post your rebuttal. Block him as nothing good will come from further communication.
  2. Married guys and outcalls

    Negative ghost rider, the pattern is full
  3. Truth in Advertising

    HH you don’t get to act like an ass and then hide behind fatalism. Understand that your words are intended to cause harm and are unacceptable. You showed up and stayed for the show. If you had the class to say “I’m sorry miss this isn’t going to work” and left you’d have my respect. Since you stayed and decided to vent your “frustrations” I can only pity a provider that has to deal with your foolishness. Grow up or get out.
  4. Truth in Advertising

    Please remember the women you are speaking about are people with feelings. If someone did not meet your ideal THAT IS YOUR ISSUE. Please refrain from being mean. Mean people suck.
  5. Dinner and some s...

    Been very lucky to have shared meals, drinks, personal time with some great providers. Never has that time been itemized. A natural progression after a familiarity developed. A happy accident I guess
  6. HELP!!!

    Raine Your so brave to call all of us to help each other. We’ve all seen some unwanted edge in discussions lately that leads us to miss opportunities to be better to each other. We saw Badboy call out unfair treatment and ask us to do better. We saw a “just vent” string too. Just like the six million dollar man we have the technology...we can build it😀
  7. Should I review?

    Would you be thinking about posting a review for a doctor, lawyer, plumber, hairdresser, gardener, mechanic etc. that asked you not to post? Why is this different?
  8. Should we give second chances.

    Move on for a bit #1 was having a rough time. Check in on her but leave it at that #2 and #3 seriously? Cut’em lose. Post a review. Sorry this all happened. Definitely time to look elsewhere.
  9. It must be me

    So spontaneity was a bit of a fail. Frustrating experience for but also an opportunity. 1) Establish some ties in your area that will enable short notice connections 2) Schedule in advance. I had a great experience this month with someone who I scheduled with weeks earlier. Anticipation was a nice, and unexpected, add to the experience. 3) Develop your process. Communication, kindness, humility in healthy amounts will go farther than you know. 4) Your review enables community members. Use it wisely as it says as much about you as the provider 5) Finally, take a long view. Yes, easier said than done but it goes hand in hand with #3 all of the above in mind I’ve experienced some of what you described. So frustrating. Think like Smokey The Bear. Only you can prevent flameout cheers
  10. 411 Heather Woods

    I’d post a review if she had a profile, or if I could find it. 😁
  11. Useless drama, things change. Move on.
  12. Cheating

    Periodically someone feels the need to express their opinion from their preceved higher vantage point. What’s the point with this one? Will any say “why yes he is right”? as we all know the answer is no. I can only assume the purpose is either manic behavior (three rambling posts in less than an hour followed by other long winded deep dives from the OP) or some form of compensation for personal experience. In either case how does anyone benefit?
  13. Deciding to walk.

    Sorry this has happened. It can difficult to finds a good match. I recently encountered a well known provider that is using very misleading pictures. At BP price point you can expect suspect ads. P411 is supposed to be reliable but recent experience does not bear that out. Taking a walk is the best bet. Is that the phase to include in reviews so we can all benefit from the rash of misleading ads?
  14. dream house co

    Looks like a former crack house without the charm. Don’t be fooled by the web presence.
  15. From the hoses mouth

    So sorry you have to go through this. Having been involved in a similar situation a doctor you trust is important. Advanced technology can help but a skilled surgeon is essential.
  16. Never left a bad review

    Sorry this happened Just because it can be the nature of the business you don’t have to accept it. Remember the scorpion dies when it stings the frog as they travel across the water. Consider an honest review.
  17. RIP: August Ames

    A beautiful person is no longer able to contribute to our world. Sad and pointless pain. Rest In Peace
  18. "Embellishing" Providers?

    I’m sure there are a lot of opinions about how to avoid your miss adventures. Simple fact is you gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find a princess😀 a few things to note 1)people will often post a lower age. If they have a long review history you might be able to spot this 2)poses in the pictures can say a lot. Laying down on her back with a corset is a red flag for me. Also the picture that takes you a few moments to figure out what the hell going on is also suspect 3)Research, research, research. Yeah it is a pain but less than the pain you described. When you find someone who checks all your boxes you’ll be happy for the research I’ve declined more than one instance of questionable advertising. Never go into the why. Always leave something to account for their time. Never be a jerk.
  19. Outcall Fails

    Both options have their own challenges. Have you considered a hybrid solution? E.g. if/when you find someone you connect with maybe ask them over but until then keep to the incall. If I remember correctly you’re up north making incall more problematic. You’ve demonstrated creativity but maybe for the wrong application. Apply that to how you can meet providers initial expectations. After you’re both more comfortable maybe creative arrangements will be more pailiable?
  20. Second chance?

    1) Move on to another provider 2) Shit happens maybe leave your feelings out of it? 3) Sounds like you're getting way to in your head about this. Maybe it's not for you?
  21. I agreed to pick her up

    This is a $hitshow from start to end. It was destined to end in wasted time and annoyance for everyone. Here's why 1) plan was constantly changing. Creating uncertainty and anxiety for everyone 2) undisclosed expectations. If you are not clear from the beginning don't be surprised when things don't turn out the way you expected 3) picking her up? Such a bad idea especially given the description. Your spider sense should have gone off. You must be willing to walk away. Instead you did everything you could to keep moving towards failure.
  22. Traveling the world, where to next?

    Singapore but don't get sideways with local laws..they are very liberal but don't tolerate rule breakers. For example they have posting all over the airport that they execute drug traffickers.
  23. Should I leave a bad review?

    I'll let readers determine where honest reviews are suggested as not ideal as well as where specific parmeters are dictated. It's a short post and shouldn't be difficult 😀 As for the information and disinformation on statistics above disproportionate means out of balance and was chosen because a statistical analysis is not easily performed given the dataset. Just put down the slide ruler and step away.
  24. Should I leave a bad review?

    Perfect example of why a disproportionate number of reviews are positive. Now there are established members telling new people not to post honest reviews. if you met a provider that warrants a negative review why would you not post it? Additionally, why are established members telling not to?
  25. New Bootsy Collins

    Hey all you all Bootsy Collins has a new release. He'll also dispense some tips for achieving your funk potential 😀 Happy Halloween you all http://www.billboard.com/articles/columns/rock/8006595/bootsy-collins-life-tips-reaching-funk-potential-interview