I’m fairly new to all of this, however the first couple ladies I tried to see were not newbie friendly. The ladies I was able to meet with without references were kind enough to accept my provider reference request. Now I’m thinking the reference verification should be easy, but it’s still not easy. The last provider that I shared my references with made some calls but my references didn’t remember who I was so I was turned down for her services. So I guess what I’m really asking is what good does it do to ask for and receive references? If they approved my reference request 2 months ago but don’t remember the details then it’s worthless. What do I need to do ladies?