Savoir Faire

Uh oh Jez, I may be GUILTY of texting one question at a time LOL. I am a lot of the time driving and I am trying not to have an accident. But now that I know that is viewed as a time waster, I will correct that. What do I consider time wasting? 1. Asking for REFERENCES after you have shared them PER REQUEST on TOB. 2. Double booking clients, FIRST COME FIRST SERVE BASIS, then you are given EXCUSES and EXPECT you to sit/wait.

Mr TFT you have me scratching my head............@ how does a TOBBIE (TOB Newbie) start off with an impressive list like that?

Mr Dallas my suggestion would be to do a video. You can always look back on a documented session of you performing for two HOT LADIES = PRICELESS And to further that, if you need someone to hold the camera, LOL look me up, I will do it for free.......................Just make sure you give me credit for the great angles/shots......................in your review that is............

Mr. TFT you have a pretty nice list of ladies .........................

I agree with you Cherry.................When that comfort level is achieved, there is no limit to what the both of you can achieve.

Well said Chrissy. What one provider does with one guy is not a guarantee it's going to happen with the next guy.....................

Whisperer is correct. Be careful and delicate or they surely will block you.

If it were me, I would most certainly give all 3 a second chance. Things do happen and thats just the way it is. Now if the same thing happens multiple times then thats a no brainer, just move on to someone new.

Sabrina I get contacts from providers that are new and established. It doesn't upset me at all and to be quite honest LOL, its a flattering way for me to notice them. If I have time I will go and visit them. Speaking of that, I just got one today from a newbie.......

Zelda, this was well said/written. Clients that are professional/respectful of one's time and telling the truth will be happy to send a pic of the damaged vehicle in question.

LL I thought I was a punctual on time type of guy but you take the cake. There was no way I could change my tire and make the appointment on time for the first one. The second one, well I could have walked to the hotel for the second one but she went cold turkey on me.

Happy birthday Madison.......................I hope you have the best day of the year............

Sultry if it were me, I would have no problem taking a picture of the accident damage or damaged phone and sending that to you. As I said to Triple B, I have had two flat tires on the way to see two different girls, both thought I was lying even with me taking pics and sending it to them. I am sorry that you are getting the rundown excuses but believe me, us guys get our fare share as well. My opinion is to note who the guy is and give him a one strike chance. Some girls I have given a ton of chances and in all honesty, they turn out to be very good providers. Sometimes circumstances happen that are beyond your control and sometimes those excuses that look and seem like lies really did happen.

Triple B, I haven't had a car accident before but I have had a flat tire not once but twice. The first flat tire it was with a new girl. The second flat tire was with a girl that I have seen a few times. Can you believe, I was like 5 minutes away from her IN CALL and both girls I communicated that I had a flat tire, sent them photos to prove that I wasn't lying as well. The one I had seen a few times, I even asked her to come pick me up LOL and she went COLD TURKEY on me. Didn't answer the phone and I was stranded for a few hours. Talked to her the next day LOL and lets just say she saw someone else.

Welcome to TOB. Pull up a chair, sit back and enjoy the VIEWS.......

Fun thanks for bringing this up LOL. I was curious and wondering if it was my browser playing tricks on me at times. I am not always checking TOB listings but it seemed like every single time that I logged on TOB after midnight that familiar profile/face would sure enough pop up. It didn't annoy me or make me see her as unprofessional, it actually made me NOTICE who she was/click on her profile more than a few times. It also caused me to REFRESH my browser, INVESTIGATE and click on page 2 more so than I normally would. They say that CURIOSITY kills the CAT. Well in this case, this post/SATISFACTION brought the cat back...................

Welcome to TOB. Look around, grab a chair and blend in......................

Mr MFN its a bummer that you have had such bad luck lately but I think a lot of us have been stood up before, so don't think that you are alone. I am not going to say this is what happened to you but the times I have been stood up were because of OVERBOOKING/SCHEDULING issues and they chose the first one that arrived and the second one is circling the parking lot or sitting in their carLOL. I take it with a grain of salt, depending on what the excuse is, I reschedule or I go see someone else. You have to understand, they have probably dealt with a ton of NO SHOWS or CREEPS for the day/week and you just happened to be the one who is going to pay for it. I will admit, 3 times in a row with a different girl would make me wonder as well. Unless you are stuck on one specific type, I see no reason for you to just give up and throw in the towel, last time I checked, TOB has some beautiful women. Get back in the saddle and use/consider all the WONDERFUL advice that has been thrown your way in this post/thread............

Mike it seems like you have went through the TOUGH part, now all you have to do is obtain a reference and resubmit another review. No offense, LOL as a TOBBIE (TOB Newbie) one of the girls I chose to see had self review drama and I went through hell to get my review approved. I credit TOB and myself with helping boosting her REPUTATION as an established PROVIDER. Now that I look back on the situation, I had to UNDERSTAND the TOB culture and how things work. I must say, it was well worth it too because your REPUTATION is worth more than GOLD.......... Don't give up buddy, get back in the seat and take care of business. I am pulling for ya..........

I will let you in on a secret, I am very good at watching women play LOL because its a GUARANTEE for me to see them lose all of their clothes. Now you have us curious what other games you are fantastic @?

I was just thinking to myself, what if TOB designed or came up with a TOB Gentleman's Special Listing where men can post their availability specifically for these specified times and the ladies could cruise and shoot whomever they wanted to see a pm. Me, I think this would be a GRAND IDEA because it would put providers/gentlemen in touch with one another that didn't know that they both were available to see each other. Also, it would help those ladies that are just sitting there bored with a way to know that someone is available and waiting to hear from you. There are times when I see certain providers posting but I am not available, then when I become available, well you know the story, they are not available........ Mods/guys/girls please post your thoughts, this is just something that came to mind and I wanted to hear different thoughts/opinions.....

Sexy F. I seem to be just like you, not able to play all the time. Looks @ Sexy F. and says, its your turn to make a move, think carefully, I don't want everything crashing to the floor.............Love me some Jenga

Sultry = my kind of lady. I do believe you have SUMMED it up NICELY..................per Samantha Sheppard.......

55 that is an EXCELLENT ANSWER LOL. I like that......

BHDT I see your point as well. As far as being adults here, well I for one have been turned down twice and I am just fine with it. So I was able to handle it LOL and move to the next.................