Savoir Faire

Thanks for the good words.................... I am not the type that will put men or women down, I usually IGNORE them and thats enough for them to go on about their business.

I attempted to book a session with this provider but she didn't respond to my text until 3 weeks later. She responded by asking if I was still interested and I replied, is it possible for you to send me a photo. She said no, I am not sending any photos. I thought to myself, hmmmm she is traumatized by NO SHOWS/TIME WASTERS etc. So I said, no worries but understand, if I don't like what I see, I will not stay there and she said fine. I know you will stay, I am just worried you are not going to show up. I actually wasn't even going to go see the woman but I changed my mind. Okay, so I try not to judge but she told me that she was FINE and commanded this crazy ass donation at that. I am not going to lie, I was curious if she was FINE ENOUGH to command such a donation, I kinda could tell she wasn't but I don't like to assume, I like to find out the real. So when I arrived, she let me inside and MY FUCKING GOODNESS, she has to be number 2 behind this 6'4/6'6 Asian Crossdresser of UGLIEST PROVIDERS that I have encountered. Anyways, she looked so FUCKING HORRIBLE, I was sitting on the bed trying to figure out how to get up out of her room LOL. She is going back and forth moving shit off the bed thinking it was about to go down but in all honesty, I was on the real TRAUMATIZED and SPEECHLESS. All that was going through my head was she said how fine she was and she was nowhere past a "1". So now for the person who saved me LOL, since I was SPEECHLESS. There was a knock on the door and she opens the door. In comes some dude and he sits on the other bed LMAO. He looks at me and I look at him. I'm trying to figure out, is he a client or what? So I asked, dude are you the boyfriend or a client? He says yeah I am the boyfriend LMAO. First thing I thought was REALLY, you tapping that, oh my goodness the two of yall must be on some shit because that is not love. Anyways, so I say, dude LOL what are yall into, whats up what are you doing in here? He says WE ARE OPEN, so I am like okay, this dude hinted that he wants a 3 some but he has no idea, he is my excuse to get up out of this room. Of course she is in the bathroom getting ZOOTED so she can come perform. Me I am looking at this guy because I wanted to make sure he didn't have other intentions on his mind. He could tell that I was SIZING him up, so he lets me know there that he is not bringing any drama/negative energy. So I asked him, you and her get down like that and he said yes. Now if she had been fine, I probably would have gotten down but it wasn't happening tonight. So I told him, I am not into what yall are into, so I am about to roll. True Story.....................

Ughhhhhhhh, these interest rates are driving me crazy. Having GREAT CREDIT use to mean something back in the day ya know. Please bring back the 2.9 mortgage rates or the 2.5 car loan rates. I want a new house and a newer vehicle but I just can't see myself doing it these days. I been trying to wait it out but it isn't looking like the rates are going to drop anytime soon.

Triple I been waiting for years for the interest rate to come back down to 2 percent and they are not budging. I think 3 or 4 years ago it was 4 percent.

You can get more bang for your buck from places such as Thornton/Greeley/Commerce City/Bennett/Pueblo (LOL I know already). Those 2 bedrooms in Aurora have risen up to 800 K and higher.

I am right there with you on this issue. But I am noticing in my neighborhood, FOR SALE signs are popping up and I am tempted to knock on their doors and ask them WHY the all of a sudden move? I am guessing maybe they can't afford it because of the raising of property taxes.

I get the same from all sorts of Lenders wanting me to take equity out and refinance. 7 percent or higher is not doable for me, not when I am use to rates twice as low. Thats why I am losing it over here. And yes, property taxes keep climbing every year, therefore if you get a fixed rate it doesn't matter, your payment is still going to increase unless you pay the extra amount towards your escrow.

Steve I definitely don't want to buy now, thats the reason for this post. Interest rates are high for me because I am use to rates at 2 to 3 percent. I have been waiting for years for them to come down but they aren't budging. Only mortgage I pay is my own..............

Mr Rogers you got me dancing to Jada's fine ass in this video.................. Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith - 1,000 Kisses - YouTube

DISCRETION is always the key. I must admit, I do actually see a lot of providers out in the public............

Ladies and Gents, when you see a Provider/Client in the public, how do you react/respond to them?

I would say you handled your situation pretty well. Reminds me of when I was @ Pappadeaux restaurant in DTC having dinner with a male friend of mine. We are catching up on current events and a sexy fine provider walks in with a guy. My friend taps me and points her out. I knew exactly who she was and I listened to my friend talk about what he would do if he could be with her. He had no idea that I had been with her many times LOL but still it was all about discretion. A session was done not too long after that day and she told me that it would be perfectly alright for me to come up to her if we saw each other in public again. In all honesty, I am on that level with a lot of providers but only would I approach them if they have told me to do so.

Wow Sir, thats crazy that you would not recognize many of the providers you have met if you saw them in public. I am the total opposite, I will recognize EVERY single one that I have been with. What I might not be able to do is remember every detail of the session.

He knocked first, I heard her telling him to come back later LOL and he then just walked in and sat on the other bed. Things would have been a little different if she had looked better LOL but all in all, whoever he was, he did me a HUGE favor because I didn't have to say a word. Let me know if you are interested, maybe yall could do a 3 some. Just don't tell her the REAL REASON I left, let her think its because of the boyfriend.

Steve E. I shoulda/coulda but I didn't, so yeah I don't mind taking whatever comes my way.....................Anytime luck wants to join my company, HE is most definitely welcome................

Mr Rogers embarrassed wasn't the half of it. To put it bluntly, she was surrounded by 3 couples who all wanted her. When the boyfriend came up they kinda protected her from the boyfriend and to me she turned her back on the guy over some FALSE ATTENTION. But when he snatched the wig off of her head, all of the couples that wanted her kinda rejected her and left her by herself. Thats the part that made me feel so sad for her. I am going to add Jada Pinkett to that list. Demi Moore has always been sexy to me but in all honesty, its her voice that gets me going................

Have you ever seen a BLIND COUPLE FUCK? I didn't know they were BLIND at first until I walked in between them and she went to hug me because she thought I was him and he was about to protect her. I was IMPRESSED with how they both worked with each other. Then I saw/heard them getting it on. She was yelling, get it DADDY.

Mr Rogers LOL I was @ a Swinger's Club and it was this couple that came in. The girl had a wig on that went all the way down to her ass. She had a great body and I am not going to lie, I was checking her out. Her and her guy got into it, arguing back and forth in the hot tub, so the guy left. She stayed in the hot tub because she was getting lots of attention. I am positive thats why her boyfriend got mad. So he comes back in and demands that she get out of the hot tub. She said no, so he left again. I kept saying to myself, between a male and a female who are into swinging, sometimes one of the two is going to get jealous. So he comes back up to her and I am like "he is about to do something" because she won't get out of the hot tub. So he yells and calls her a "Bitch" and says I paid for that hair and he snatches her wig off of her head. He then walks away mumbling how he paid for that wig and she better not ever disrespect him again. I was on the sidelines chilling and minding my own business but to put it bluntly, I thought the girl looked sexy as fuck with the wig on but when her boyfriend snatched it off, my attraction for her went to zero.

This weather has been a little crazy this year and I am not too sure when I am going to START UP MY SPRINKLERS. I usually time my start up when I see the GOLF COURSES doing their thing. I seen the GOLF COURSE with theirs on this past Monday. When do you guys think is a good time to start them up?

R.I.P. To Mr Orenthal James Simpson AKA The Juice/Mr IF THE GLOVE DOESN'T FIT YOU MUST ACQUIT/O.J. Awesome running back and correct me if I am wrong but he owns the MOST WATCHED POLICE CHASE of all time...........................

When it comes to screening I have had probably 1 or 2 providers in 8 years on TOB that I did not see because of screening.

Reading Steve E's post reminded me of this one REGULAR that I see that has a boyfriend. Instead of fludding his post with my story LOL, I will just make my own post. Okay, here goes..................The first time I went to visit this girl, I arrived at her hotel and she didn't invite me up shortly, so I left the hotel. I text and said we can reschedule for another time. As I get about 5 minutes away, she text and begs me to come back. She claims she will make it up to me, so I returned since I wasn't too far away. When I arrived, she invited me up and as I am walking towards the lobby, I see this one guy sitting outside not looking too happy. He looks at me and I look at him. I remember saying to myself, he must be having GIRLY PROBLEMS. When I got inside, me and the provider hit it off pretty well and we talked and talked LOL. She didn't tell me about the boyfriend the first visit but she did the second visit. The second visit, she did the same thing, had me waiting and I left that time as well. She text/begged me to come back and LOL, I did the same thing as well by returning. What can I say, THE PUSSY WAS FIRE and all was good, she just had a TIME MANAGEMENT PROBLEM. So this time, I sat her down and explained to her, The Savior is not a PARKING LOT SITTER/MONITOR/PIMP, that is definitely not how I roll and this is when she shared with me that sometimes it takes a while for her to get her DUDE out of the room LOL. He gets a lil jealous when you come around to be honest with you. I like when GIRLS are honest and not trying to bullshit around, definitely MY KIND OF WOMAN. Then I asked her if its the guy I see looking SO SAD when I arrive and she said yes. So now we work together on trying to make things better for all that are involved. He has gotten better now because I don't see him hanging around anymore, I just see him when I knock on the door or LOL he hands me the card entry key in the lobby............For me to be a REGULAR, its much/much more than just FUCKING .....................................

Steve E. I have encountered this type of situation with a lot of providers. Some of the guys were IN FACT boyfriends, hubbies and plugs. First I would like to say that I am glad you are checking/observing your surroundings when you are hobbying. Second if you are a REGULAR, bro you should be on the level where you can simply just ask her if she is aware of the guy. It doesn't matter who the guy is, for him to keep showing up, that means they are communicating with one another during her outcalls.

I would like to say that I AM SORRY and I AM ALSO HAPPY for you after hearing what happened to you. If you stay in the HOBBY long enough a provider/client are going to run into this type of situation no matter how careful you are, so don't shoot yourself because it happened to you. Understand that this is MY OPINION and MY OPINION only but I think that you should make sure you thank the MAN UPSTAIRS that you are still here to even tell this story/event. The fact that you got out of this with no physical harm is truly a BLESSING. I had a similar situation happen to me. I am going to make this short. I went to see a girl as a newbie, sat with her and talked and then her girlfriend burst in the door. She looks at me and claims I am LE LOL. I am like huh, WTF, so she tells me to leave and I am just like you, give me my donation back. She says no and I was just like you, ready to go to war to get the donation back. She figured out real quick, I wasn't fucking around so she called in some GOONS. Big Guy 6'5 about 280 lbs with a lead pipe and a short guy 5'5 with a glock. One way in and one way out, they both blocked the exit LOL. 6'5 guy said I know you don't want any problems, so just come back tomorrow. He was right, I didn't want any problems but at the same time I wanted my donation back. I came back the next day and we all became REGULARS. What the hell do you do now? First thing is to give it some time, calm yourself down and try to think with a clear mind because if I was you, I would LEAVE IT BE, LET IT GO and MOVE THE "F" ON. Pick your battles my friend. To me this is not worth it. I know your feelings/ego/pride is damaged but seeking REVENGE is not the answer in my opinion. The key is to LEARN from your mistakes and remember this. THE BEST THING IN LIFE IS TO LOVE and THE BEST THING TO LOVE IS LIFE.....................

AVG I was never blessed to see Bill Withers perform but I YOUTUBE his performances to death. Its an easy song to sing and I can only imagine the audience going nuts singing along with your band. The lyrics are POWERFUL to me because there is not one living person that I can think of who doesn't need somebody to Lean On. Shot out to all of the well off/poor/selfish/homeless/loving/caring/beautiful and GODLY people that LEAN ON THE SAVIOR..................................