TrystinTrimble

Yeah it's always a bummer when I spent 30 minutes going back and forth with somebody planning out a meeting on an out, only for them to tell me right as I'm about to leave "car date?" And of course I'm like, you got to be freaking kidding me. It's a good thing I give a damn about my safety my freedom and all that stuff because clearly he doesn't give a damn about mine or his. Any place where the cops can just walk up on me is a no punting zone that's all there is to it. Remind you I am not saying this next thing as to denigrate people who do car dates, on the provider side of it. But, what I will say is that there are levels to this s***, as some famous trap rapper once put it whose name I don't remember now. To me the levels change when the risk of trouble goes up significantly and person inquiring about my ad who knows what's what knows that that's not the level I'm on and not to even ask. There's literally like two people in this entire State who I will do a car date with on an ongoing basis. One of those is someone who literally brings his house to where I may be, parks it, and doesn't give me an ounce of grief or cause any problems with drawing attention or shenanigans. Never haggles. And the other, is someone I've met previously, and without fail we'll will be done in the time it takes us to go through an automatic car wash which I think is not too much to ask on my end to keep us from being spotted and basically sitting ducks. So. You have to have met me previously with zero problems or stress from you, and then on top of that you have to either be in complete and total Minuteman who does whatever I say, or or literally an RV owner driving your whole ass house to my neighborhood to mitigate the risk and inconvenience on my part. I. f you ain't easy as all hell to blow the gasket, and I don't know you why on Earth would I risk it, especially when those very same people who were sending me messages that says nothing but car date? Are also the ones who are using the fact that it's a car date to justify paying me as little as humanly possible. Like not only do you want a risky ass public car session at 2:00 a.m. in front of the Target on Sheridan or something crap like that, but you want to pay me less than half my full rate and you want me present the exact minute you want me there, and you think there's going to be foreplay? Please. When I lay it out like that, it actually being a police sting almost sounds no worse or possibly better. It's just a big ol bag of "fuck that."

Hey everyone. So, I had an appointment early this morning at like 5:30 in the morning, that went pretty terribly wrong and took a dangerous turn. I want to know what my next move should be because I don't feel like I should do nothing or say nothing but I know my options are limited...as follows: I took an appointment from a client this morning even though he lacked the usual information I required to screen through I took alternative information and decided to see him, despite having a feeling that something was up. I'm mad at myself a bit because I rarely ignore my intuition but I did this one time and look what the hell happened... So I show up at the house which is in one of those cookie cutter neighborhoods in Littleton, expensive enough house and so the part of town wasn't sketchy or anything. I didn't know who what the guy looked like or how old he was and when I showed up I was surprised to see that he was a pretty young guy with sort of a gangsta vibe. For the moment I'm going to intentionally leave the race/ethnicity out so don't ask. Had kind of a cocky air to him and I immediately just didn't like him very much, but I went in anyway because everything else looked okay. House was nice it was in order he had a homie asleep on the couch but whatever I don't really care about that very much so we go upstairs, do they session, and he had hit my venmo with my payment up front but mistakenly I did not check it cuz I haven't had anything happen in a long time and was honestly just not thinking that would happen. But we do the session and he finished a little sooner than I guess he wanted to, but whatever I was ready to go then as I am getting ready to go I noticed the shortage, and it's by nearly all of it. He starts walking me down and out to the door and I go back in the room and tell him like no you need to pay me right now don't tell me you're a man of your word and then don't pay me and think I'm just going to walk out of here and not say anything about it. He comes back in there and tells me to quit tripping and I told him quit trying to rip me off especially when I got my butt out there almost immediately after he called. All over the house he then tells me he's going to send me a third of my rate, citing that I didn't have to do any work as he put it, because he didn't last long. I explained to him that I am not subject to being docked because of that. I offered to do a half hour great which I don't normally do on an outcall but I figured it was better than getting nothing so he's walking me down and he still telling me he's going to send me a third of my rate and I went back into this room and said kind of loudly that he can't just do that and that he better effing pay me NOW. AT THIS POINT HE OPENED THE BEDROOM DOOR BACK UP, THEN OPENED A DRAWER ON HIS DESK REVEALING A LARGE AUTOMATIC WEAPON LIKE A MACHINE GUN OF SOME SORT. AND HE JUST LOOKED AT ME ALL SERIOUS AND SAID IN A REALLY LOW VOICE "DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GOING BACK AND FORTH OVER A LITTLE BIT OF MONEY IS IT WORTH IT TO YOU? OR DO YOU THINK MAYBE IT'S A GOOD IDEA FOR YOU TO GO NOW?" SO I SAID "OHHH, SO ITS LIKE THAT." AND HE at this point just said get your ass down the stairs and take the $100 because I'm sick of f****** hearing you talk and you weren't even worth the money anyway because you're ugly as f***. I went ahead and took that as my cue to leave, obviously. ....And obviously I was pretty pissed about it and pretty upset and felt pretty victimized and he knew that he was doing this with someone who in his mind has a little recourse basically someone who has no one that can go to for help and maybe he's right. But I don't feel like I should just leave it alone. I know we have safe reporting laws but I don't really feel comfortable taking advantage of that because I highly doubt that there would be no trouble for me whatsoever. Just because it says that we have immunity doesn't mean that they're not going to find something else to get me for or just completely not believe me or refuse to deal with it all together. I don't want to talk to the police about it, but the fact that a gun was involved and that he clearly lives at the house and doesn't really give a damn that I know where he lives and his full name and all that makes me feel like I should say something to somebody or do something about it and not just keep my mouth shut. Before you respond please understand that I know where I made mistakes I know what not to do in the future now and I know to listen to my damned intuition at all times for the millionth time. So no victim blaming. I don't want to hear it at all. What I'm looking for here specifically is advice on when how if I should proceed with following up on this, with the understanding that I'm not interested in recovering my money at this point I'm interested in preventing future violence and the guy lives in a residential area with kids and stuff. I absolutely think he will do it again even though I wrote a blacklist on him. What the hell do I do now?

I gotta say, that this actor in the lead role is intriguing to me and I'd love to see him become the next big thing after this role. He's not magazine hot, but the front facing personality seems great and he is heavy on charisma. This is my first celeb crush I've had in years 😆😍

It's about this late night talk show and it's host and they are doing a Halloween special and have a variety of interesting guests...set in 1977.

It was kinda fucked up. Id say I liked it though. Definitely some unexpectedness and the ending was interesting to say the least!

. So I'm going to the movies tonight, for the first time in something like 18 years. Gonna see this highly recommended film, and really that's about all I've got. It's been a LONG time since I saw a catchy trailer and thought to myself "I must go see this!" Also, definitely happy about this being David Dastmalchian's FIRST TIME as the lead character... I hope this is his time to shine and he is very underrated in my opinion (and also very attractive in a way I cannot quite put my finger on! 😊)... It is quite difficult for me to usually sit still through an entire movie in a theater, so I'm really just glad that there's still something out there that will make me do it. Has anyone in this forum gone to see it yet? If so, feel free to tell me if you liked it or not without any spoilers! Happy Easter!

I would see that as being in poor taste. BUT...on the other hand I've had like 3-4 clients over the years who REQUESTED I do this or something similar mid sesh. They basically got off on being backburnered or an afterthought. I guess it's maybe a milder version of wanting to be cuckolded. As far as kinks go, it's one I didn't mind doing. Once I spent a whole hour getting daty while blowing $ shopping online, with his CC. It took some getting used to, and felt weird at first...but hey I can't say I didn't like it. It really does take all kinds of people to keep everything in motion I guess.

For encounters involving multi hours or traveling beyond the metro area I do require deposit usually. But there's no way I can take them when I work in town, do mostly outs on short notice, to guys who can barely manage a greeting or to read any of my ad... let alone the minimal amount of leg work it would take to pay a deposit. These m************ think I'm some hot local single sitting by my phone wearing a tight fuzzy sweater waiting to connect with em. I am hot. I am local. I am single. But at no time Am i all three of the above at once. I'm being overestimated...

You guys are the best! Used to be if I made a post like this there was a culture of victim blaming. We've come a long way haven't we?

In two days. FIVE NCNS back to back...is this weekend going this way for any other ladies? I've been sitting in this room with my thumb up my (expletive deleted) for a bit now. What's the damn deal? I mean...it's not even No-Show November yet! 😁

My guess is that they do it to discourage riff raff (people who cant afford more than a day and people who are down to their last match) from staying there. Id imagine they assume that those types don't have the kind of cash that can be tied up for several days.

So, I rented a room that was approx 50 per night for a couple days. Ya know, cause money was tight this week. I get there. And they want to hold 200 "for incidentals!" I'm talking a fairly run down place with weird smells and a couple of dubious people trying to befriend all their neighbors. They didn't sell ANYTHING or have a sundry. Carpet was threadbare. There was literally nothing left to ruin in this place. Pool was all but boarded up! I checked out today (they were up my butt at 11 am SHARP), and they tell me that it'll be returned to me in 5 to 7 business days. As if! Rented a new one for like 120 a day, and it's way nicer...has a pool and hottub which are clean. Very pretty and clean carpet. Smells wonderful. Has a happy hour that nice business travelers will attend and mingle. No cameras pointed at every single room door. Has a little store to buy stuff you forgot or grab a White Claw (no thanks). Their hold was like...15% of the amount the shitty place yanked from my account. Seriously like 30 or 40, that's it. And I can check out at NOON. Id much rather spend the money on the better room than have the shitty place holding that much to insure against the possibility I will somehow make the place shittier than it already is. Duh! 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 Here, y'all...have a free toothy grin!

Oh I know it can't be easy to read about that shit. But we talked, I think it's all good now

I remember the time when I very much depended upon receiving reviews to bring about a steady flow of biz. I wish I could still get them without being petrified of them being read by my SO and ruminated upon to the point of detriment. It's best at this point to just not provide any new gossip to mull over.

Bad Client: ignores boundaries, rushes me to move my ass immediately, is drunk or too high at go time, orders me to squirt and gets pissy when I (shocker) can't, is too rough and thinks that I'm defective for not caring for it, texts me constantly without rebooking, asks me if they can be the first of the day every time, doesn't believe me if I compliment them, gets caught by the wife and throws me under the bus, stares into my soul the whole time, tries to trade substances for service, really I could go on all day. Bad Providers: cold call their regulars without any kind of concern for discretion, untrustworthy when in other peoples environments/cash and dash type games, show up intoxicated, don't screen and don't protect client information, bad hygeine, pull clients into their serious drama, talk about their money problems in their ads, take too many calls or texts in session, use illegal substances in front of a client especially one who doesn't partake, make a client feel unsafe with her behavior or implying a threat of violence unprovoked, double booking clients, is a grouchy bitch most of the time...