Posted April 11 Reading Steve E's post reminded me of this one REGULAR that I see that has a boyfriend. Instead of fludding his post with my story LOL, I will just make my own post. Okay, here goes..................The first time I went to visit this girl, I arrived at her hotel and she didn't invite me up shortly, so I left the hotel. I text and said we can reschedule for another time. As I get about 5 minutes away, she text and begs me to come back. She claims she will make it up to me, so I returned since I wasn't too far away. When I arrived, she invited me up and as I am walking towards the lobby, I see this one guy sitting outside not looking too happy. He looks at me and I look at him. I remember saying to myself, he must be having GIRLY PROBLEMS. When I got inside, me and the provider hit it off pretty well and we talked and talked LOL. She didn't tell me about the boyfriend the first visit but she did the second visit. The second visit, she did the same thing, had me waiting and I left that time as well. She text/begged me to come back and LOL, I did the same thing as well by returning. What can I say, THE PUSSY WAS FIRE and all was good, she just had a TIME MANAGEMENT PROBLEM. So this time, I sat her down and explained to her, The Savior is not a PARKING LOT SITTER/MONITOR/PIMP, that is definitely not how I roll and this is when she shared with me that sometimes it takes a while for her to get her DUDE out of the room LOL. He gets a lil jealous when you come around to be honest with you. I like when GIRLS are honest and not trying to bullshit around, definitely MY KIND OF WOMAN. Then I asked her if its the guy I see looking SO SAD when I arrive and she said yes. So now we work together on trying to make things better for all that are involved. He has gotten better now because I don't see him hanging around anymore, I just see him when I knock on the door or LOL he hands me the card entry key in the lobby............For me to be a REGULAR, its much/much more than just FUCKING ..................................... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 1 Oh wow, definitely an interesting and uncomfortable position for both you and her boyfriend to be in. Time management is a thing and also... I'm curious why he was there so close to the time you'd be there too. If it were me, I would prefer he would just be close by not actually at the hotel right before my appointments were arriving. Strange. Glad to hear you started to work it out and it was more comfortable for all. Communication and discretion is so important to me, in my personal and professional life... I wouldn't want to mix the two so closely. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 3 On 5/1/2024 at 0:44 PM, KatyaSoleil said: Oh wow, definitely an interesting and uncomfortable position for both you and her boyfriend to be in. Time management is a thing and also... I'm curious why he was there so close to the time you'd be there too. If it were me, I would prefer he would just be close by not actually at the hotel right before my appointments were arriving. Strange. Glad to hear you started to work it out and it was more comfortable for all. Communication and discretion is so important to me, in my personal and professional life... I wouldn't want to mix the two so closely. The reasons that I think he would still be around by the time that I got there is because they both were time challenged, she was pretty new and he was a good old fashion jealous boyfriend. I mean, can you imagine him looking at the guy who's going upstairs to be with his woman and you have to sit and wait until he is done. You want to talk about mental issues. Me I would never put my girl in that situation where she has to go out and make money to take care of me. In all honesty, there is a ton of providers that have boyfriends that they basically take care of and are always close by. As far as working it out, its a no brainer for me because my goal is to make it COMFORTABLE for all that are involved. No offense but LIFE IS GOOD when a provider/client are comfortable around one another. I agree with you not wanting to mix your personal/professional life, thats why I am single LOL. If I am in a relationship, there is no need for me to hobby but since I am single, I can go to work, enjoy life and slip on over to the darkside. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
