Caught calling a hooker?

[Bit Banger]

Not me! But this poor bloke has some explaining to do. 

 

[daaacz]

Oops!  I like how the columnist really gives the guy the benefit of the doubt.  Maybe he's just an idiot, dear reader, or maybe he fell for a scam. There's not any mention of P4P, which I'm sure is really the case.

As for the rest of us, "keep it secret, keep it safe."

[Guest]

Dear Broken :

You and your husband were in your 60's when you got married. This may not be what you want to hear, but your husband was likely seeing escorts before you met.

 

Escorting is a huge industry and many people partake in seeing escorts world wide. For some it is very difficult to stop this practice, once they have indulged. Even after getting married.

 

Your husband most likely kept contact with, what is known as, his ATF (All Time Favorite) escort he was seeing prior to meeting you.

 

I understand this does not help you now.

 

My suggestion to readers would be to ask any man prior to marrying them,"If they have seen escorts before, and if they plan to continue to see them after you get married?" Same question could be asked by men, "Have you ever escorted? If yes, do you plan to continue this job after we marry?"

 

If it is monogamy you wish from a marriage, it is best to ask the tough questions before walking down the isle. If you are okay with an open relationship, boundaries have to be established as to preserve trust in the relationship.

 

Getting an honest answer may be difficult, as protecting and hiding this type lifestyle is ingrained in the participants.

 

Honesty is always the best policy, but can't be relied on. It is always smart to pay attention to your significate others internet habits, before the relationship becomes too serious.

 

Edited May 19, 2016 by Kashmir

[Guest]

Well said Kashmir! I'd like to say though that if I had to confront my husband about seeing escorts, my one question would be, WHY THE HELL WASN'T I INVITED?