provider provides FS

[dirkadirka]

So this may be a no brainer for some but i've never known how to really deal with this situation. On private messages on P411 i feel it's a lot easier, but over the phone when making contact with a provider - how do you ask if they're FS/require tipping/do specific things? Do you just use acronyms? If a provider doesn't know any acronyms, do you usually avoid them (i've encountered quite a few BP girls who don't even know what reviews are).

It's happened to me 3 times where i've gotten to the provider and have been "oh i don't do that" or "you have to tip"... of course, i know based on some reviews that's happened to quite a bit... so curious how you guys handle this.

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You don't ask, if it's not in a review and you don't want to TOFTT and risk the money, don't go. Don't ask, ever. Asking on the phone is something LE does, it will bring you suspicion you do not want. After you've been in it for a while, you'll start learning how to identify robs and scam artists just by watching BP daily and paying attention.

I'd say, find girls that don't do tipping, I've rarely had that situation, but I stick mainly with reviewed ladies, and only those that say they did not tip and upsell.

From the few times it has happened, I'd offer this advice:

Make it an outcall, then make sure she's already driven like 50 or more miles to get to you. Then, you're in a position to negotiate. I did that (just by accident) once, and the girl showed up and said the advertised $250 was just for her to show up. FS would be another $250, $500 total. I said I only had $350 (which wasn't actually true). She said she'd do TF. I said I wasn't that into TF, she could just sit with me and have a glass of wine for the $250 and be on her way. Well... she knew I had another $100 and she'd just driven over 50 miles to get there, and it was late, there wasn't much chance of another client after driving all the way back, so guess what? $350 FS it was. She was super hot, too. Probably helped that I was 24 and in shape.

[Guest pejo]

So this may be a no brainer for some but i've never known how to really deal with this situation. On private messages on P411 i feel it's a lot easier, but over the phone when making contact with a provider - how do you ask if they're FS/require tipping/do specific things? Do you just use acronyms? If a provider doesn't know any acronyms, do you usually avoid them (i've encountered quite a few BP girls who don't even know what reviews are).

It's happened to me 3 times where i've gotten to the provider and have been "oh i don't do that" or "you have to tip"... of course, i know based on some reviews that's happened to quite a bit... so curious how you guys handle this.

Don't discuss specifics by phone or text. Read the reviews. If ASP is unreviewed and your little head has taken control of your big head's thinking process, just prepare for the worst. Then, if you get something better than the worst, you are not disappointed.

[fork]

It's happened to me 3 times where i've gotten to the provider and have been "oh i don't do that" or "you have to tip"... of course, i know based on some reviews that's happened to quite a bit... so curious how you guys handle this.

You walk away, and post an accurate review.

You can't force her to do things she doesn't want to do. And you shouldn't tip an escort for misleading you... assuming that she posted in the Escorts section, not the Massage section. Even if you do pay more, likely your experience is going to be poor. Has anyone ever gone for an upsell and then had a good time? Do tell. Upselling is pretty much always accompanied by a bad attitude. (the exception is Greek, which almost always costs more)

So, you walk away, and if you're not in danger of being beaten up by her pimp, you tell her you're posting a bad review.

[harpo]

I am looking for spiritual connection flavored by physicality with the intention of exploring black hole and exercising my lower part of my body.

I am into drilling. Are you ok with that.

[Guest]

Here's another option. Stay off BP and go with well reviewed and reliable providers on TOB and P411. That way you know you are dealing with a professional and activities are well known and expectations will be met. Then, you can make a choice as to whom you see based on what she likes to do and be assured that tipping is entirely up to you.

The old saying goes well in the hobby as well: You get what you pay for. Shopping BP for bargains is NOT a good idea.

[jj254]

Here's another option. Stay off BP and go with well reviewed and reliable providers on TOB and P411. That way you know you are dealing with a professional and activities are well known and expectations will be met. Then, you can make a choice as to whom you see based on what she likes to do and be assured that tipping is entirely up to you.

The old saying goes well in the hobby as well: You get what you pay for. Shopping BP for bargains is NOT a good idea.

This is often repeated around here, and it's good advice for a newbie, but it isn't ironclad. EB has a little bit for everyone, but not a lot of any one thing. If you have a taste that's beyond just 'pussy' then pickings get slim fast.