Posted March 30, 2013 Bondage. I am not sure to what degree my interest reaches. For sure I am curious but I do not want to be locked in a dungeon and have nails driven through my scrotum either. I think an incredible amount of trust would be involved. How in the world do you contact someone new and achieve that kind of trust in one appointment? Don't most mainstream escorts consider bondage a fetish? I would appreciate some input on starter ideas and activities. Also, any warnings and things to avoid. This is kind of a loose post but I am going to experiment in this direction and really have no clue. So any input is welcome. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2013 I can understand your curiosity, having had the same issues myself. I scratched that itch enough to say, "OK, done that." A few years ago there was a domme with a switch escort as her slave/companion/student. First visit was pure escort, get to know them. The domme did not get involved in playtime. Second visit was an extended session with some escort time, top time for me, and bottom time for me. The domme merely supervised. It was a great learning experience, both about that side of the industry and about myself. Unfortunately, they broke up and don't seem to be around these days. Suggestions: 1) You're doing the right thing putting it out here. You may get some PMs from folks who deal in that circle. The ladies can't answer you outright in this thread - advertising/shilling rules. 2) You might try the BDSM secton of SoWet 3) Your basic gut instincts that you use to vette escorts apply to dommes. 4) Don't forget to explore both ends of the quirt. 5) Enjoy. Remember it's often about the journey, not the destination. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 31, 2013 Thank you for the reply "Bit", I appreciate the input. Thank you to all the lady's who sent PMs. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
