Kandi Apple

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  1. Posted

    11 hours ago, Blksachs said:

    I am only a hobbyist and have no clue how large or deep the market is for clients in this industry. My guess has been that the market probably isn't very large. Typically I'll never pay more than $150 for 30 minutes of time but increasingly I have noticed providers asking for $200 for 30min. When I offer $150 they decline.

    My question is this. Is the market of clients really so large that $150 for 30 minutes isn't worth it for providers? Is it really that easy for providers to find clients willing to pay $200 or more for 30 minutes?

    I see how frequently some providers post on different sites so my assumption has been that the client market is thin. If my assumption is correct wouldn't it be more economical to accept $150 for 30 minutes instead of turning down one of the very few potential clients you might get in a week and getting $0 for them?

    I see some providers say they are struggling financially in their ads yet they will still turn down $150. If you can turn down $150 for 30 minutes of work you obviously aren't really struggling.

    Keep in mind that the median income in the United States is about $33,000 per year pre-tax. That comes out to about $126 per day pre-tax for the median worker. Perhaps all of the providers in this industry are brain surgeons and rocket scientists by day and are easily pulling in $1,000 per day working their regular day job but something tells me that probably isn't the case.

    To recieve more than the typical person's daily salary for a mere 30 minutes of time seems like a great deal that shouldn't be turned down, but hey what do I know? Maybe all of these providers work day jobs that pay them $400/hour but I doubt it.

    You have got to be one of the most ignorant mofo's!

    If you can not afford to pay what ladies request for their time and companionship you need to use your rosy palm and five friends to make magic with your little head.

    Us ladies have many other true gentleman that offer much more than the $150 you think is a good offering.

    Just a word of advice 

    Find another hobby Mr. Cheapo Aka "Blksachs"

     

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  2. Posted

    8 hours ago, Skg said:

    I’ve been doing this hobby awhile and got ripped big time on STG. I met this  gal for lunch as we we going to arrange a month if service for special donation. She ripped me off and disappeared. She is Courtney on Erotic Monkey. She is the scammer type that ruins it for all of us. I want to get her name out there as a scammer. https://denver.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/you-will-never-forget-this-pus/973101888437

    There is a review section for this type of complaint. 

    Hopefully you learned a lesson from your mistake.

    STG is not to blame for thie decision that you made to prepay for services that you did not receive. 

     

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  4. Posted

    I wish that TER was like it used to be.  Hopefully it will take off again. I was happy to see that the site is available in the US again.

    P411 is a good site.  It has changed when it come to the quality of gentleman that they are allowing to sign up. 

    As with any site that gentleman are members of and reviewers on, ample screening by the ladies should always be in place.

    It does make it easier though.

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  5. Posted

    When it comes to football before the pandemic I would have family over and BBQ. 

    I ust to do fantasy football also..

    Now I don't even watch the games.

    I lost interest and I have better things to do with my time.

    Working on training my little 10 week old puppy. 

     

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  7. Posted

    6 hours ago, arkoshark3377 said:

    About 3 weeks ago I met a ASP at a downtown hotel. Afterwards she told me that she doesn't do this very often like she wanted me to see her in a different light. Felt comfortable with me and found me non threatening. Said she would meet for dinners at no cost for her time. Or breakfast. Before that it was a BBBJ and then boom uncovered entry when advertised as CFS. Had me worried and examining my dick for days afterwards. Super nice young woman really. Felt sorry for her actually. She was a super nice girl with a bad alcohol problem. So many have drug and alcohol problems so they definitely have deep seated issues which saddens me actually. She even said lets both get tested so we don't have to worry about future encounters. In reality I can't handle doing this anymore. I feel like an abuser no matter what they say or do. Most hate men and are willing to suffer abuse for quick fast cash. At the end of the day fast food sex isnt fulfilling without a real emotional connection. I just can't handle this shit anymore. Though they will deny it you can't tell me that most wouldn't trade that lifestyle for real genuine love and caring. I'm willing to bet most were abused. Became jaded and sex became a commodity with no obvious value to their womanhood which long past was destroyed. Lust is never satisfied and you get tied up addicted to this shit its more expensive than a drug habit. To each his own but this all leads to a dead end back right where you started. I'm better off in a real relationship and not cheapening my own self. But I will say Ive used surrogates in the past which helped me get over insecurity issues. I think its just wanting a warm body after divorce. Anyways I'm done with this shit. Her crying after the session after I told her how much it meant to me for her to give away such a personal part of her life did it. I pray that young lady finds herself. It did an emotional number on me.

    After reading this you are right @arkoshark3377 you need to be done with this shit! The fact that you still banged her uncovered is sad.

    Keep checking your junk and get your blood drawn.

    No wonder it did a emotional number on you.

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  9. Posted

    4 minutes ago, Bit Banger said:

    Just a guess, but .. 

    Did someone out them to the CC companies, who now refuse to do business with the board owners?  Have the CC companies frozen their account?  That’s what PayPal does for ‘adult’ businesses.

    That is a damn good point.

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  12. Posted

    3 hours ago, scarecrow said:

    Kandi, I don't have the words to take your pain away.

    I know that pain. Our small dog took a turn for the worse and they could not find out what was wrong with her. We had to say good bye to her. Because of the virus we where suppose to drop her off at the curb in front of the vet and they would take her inside for the last time.. The vet broke the rules and allowed us to be with her in her final moments. It is a lose that can't be replaced, you can get other pets that you will love but there will always be a hole in your heart and no words I have will make that heal.. I am sorry.. I truly wish I had the words.. I just believe that you will be together again one day.

    Stay strong.

    Scarecrow, I am sorry for your loss also.

    It is a hard thing to have to go through, the feeling of unbearable weight pulling on the heart strings.

    Staying strong is the best way to start the healing process. It is important that we find a way to move on. 

    Unfortunately that is easier said than done. 

    I am struggling with forgiving myself because I don't know how I did not notice that my dog jumped in the car. Excepting the fact that it was a accident isn't easy.

    Your right about knowing that I will be together with her and all my other pets that have moved on one day. 

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  13. Posted

    45 minutes ago, Seeker5280 said:

    Kandi don’t beat yourself up.

    This was an accident.

    There was no ill will.

    Remember,

    it was an accident. 

    I am trying not to blame myself. It was a accident.

     I was so preoccupied that I did not notice until it was to late.

     I am in shock.

    The whole thing keeps replaying in my mind. 

    I need to slow down. I'm always on the go non-stop. 

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  14. Posted

    I recently had a great loss. I feel so sad and am having a hard time moving forward. 

    I have other pets that know how sad I have been. They have been extra loving to me. When I cry they have been trying to comfort me.

    The loss was very sudden and unexpected. 

    My youngest dog whom was only a year old jumped in to my car and wanted to go bye bye.

    I did not know she was in there and closed my back hatch and went in the house.

    My baby passed away from the heat in my car.

     I am so broken inside 💔  I feel like a terrible pet mom. I loved her so much! 

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  16. Posted

    On 6/13/2020 at 8:34 AM, diggitydawg said:

    Would love to know which providers offer msog for a hr session. I've contacted a few providers lately who do not and it is unfortunate that this is not as standard as I remember.

    Ladies are compensated for time and companionship ONLY!

    There is no guarantee that you'll even get off one time let alone twice.

    MSOG was never a standard.

    I do not mind msog as long as it's not a forced thing. "My hand and jaw are not going to take a beating" and we are not going to stretch the time to make it happen. 

     

     

     

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  19. Posted · Edited by Kandi Apple

    On 5/14/2020 at 0:42 AM, Citylife said:

    QV UTF providers? Business owner always on the go not much time in the day but still need a release. It can be very time consuming shuffling through dozens of reviews.

    I don't offer Qv meetings because I do not like to be rushed.

    Maybe book a half hour and stay for a few minutes to enjoy the moment.

    If you can really bust in 15min and enjoy it, more power to you. 

    Most gentlemen take a bit longer than that.

     

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