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About 3 weeks ago I met a ASP at a downtown hotel. Afterwards she told me that she doesn't do this very often like she wanted me to see her in a different light. Felt comfortable with me and found me non threatening. Said she would meet for dinners at no cost for her time. Or breakfast. Before that it was a BBBJ and then boom uncovered entry when advertised as CFS. Had me worried and examining my dick for days afterwards. Super nice young woman really. Felt sorry for her actually. She was a super nice girl with a bad alcohol problem. So many have drug and alcohol problems so they definitely have deep seated issues which saddens me actually. She even said lets both get tested so we don't have to worry about future encounters. In reality I can't handle doing this anymore. I feel like an abuser no matter what they say or do. Most hate men and are willing to suffer abuse for quick fast cash. At the end of the day fast food sex isnt fulfilling without a real emotional connection. I just can't handle this shit anymore. Though they will deny it you can't tell me that most wouldn't trade that lifestyle for real genuine love and caring. I'm willing to bet most were abused. Became jaded and sex became a commodity with no obvious value to their womanhood which long past was destroyed. Lust is never satisfied and you get tied up addicted to this shit its more expensive than a drug habit. To each his own but this all leads to a dead end back right where you started. I'm better off in a real relationship and not cheapening my own self. But I will say Ive used surrogates in the past which helped me get over insecurity issues. I think its just wanting a warm body after divorce. Anyways I'm done with this shit. Her crying after the session after I told her how much it meant to me for her to give away such a personal part of her life did it. I pray that young lady finds herself. It did an emotional number on me.

Been ripped off twice doing that. Will never do it again. Some websites are at least 50% scam advertisements.

I just saw someone in Colorado springs no problem. I was always super super courteous to you after you told me your availability and you never had the courtesy to let me know what was going on. maybe you have so many clients you don't care who knows, but being respectful of someones time is at the minimum of being professional.

Its amazing how long it took me to find a provider that really listened to me in what I want to accomplish. Is she the hottest? No. The cheapest? No. But her character and personality make it well worth the 60 mile drive to go there. Being a listening down to earth human being goes a lot farther in my book than looks or being arrogant. To me personality tops all other qualities. I am not the most confident secure man and finding someone that will work with me and be human about it is really refreshing. Half the time I need to talk and gain a repoire with someone before I can be with them physically. I'm just programmed not to be a pig/slob. Plus seeing them as a human being and not just a sperm receptacle. At the end of the day being human to each other makes it that much more meaningful. Fck I must of gone through a hundred texting to find one who takes time to listen and is rewarded for doing so. We extensively texted for almost an evening learning about each other. I told her I wasnt wasting her time and she was awarded handsomely for getting to know each other.

Thanks. It was from Yes page a complete rip off site. Don't even think about it. I am not joking when I say at LEAST 75% of the sites out there are rip off sites. Being new to this it has become one giant hassle. Geezzzuus all I'm looking for is ONE provider I can gain a good relationship with business wise on a regular basis. Red flags: 1. Explicit sexual words and acts. 2. Asking for electronic deposits and refusing to be present while doing it. 3. Scam area codes. Look them up. 4. Pictures of mainstream porn stars as providers. 5. I will absolutely not provide my place of employment or work E-mail. Blackmail a strong possibility. One provider on eros.com wanted that. I was extremely polite gave way more biographical information including my professional license information and etc. She got angry that I did not go by her strict code and said she would put all my professional information on a blacklist website. Doing things like that to someone can get you to go to the darkweb for life altering "services".

I was texted her Colorado ID. Just after a few back and forth texts. Is this normal or a big red flag? She didn't ask for anything in return. What would you do? I'm not in the mood to get popped by LE. Am I expected to do the same? I'm paranoid to begin with. Plus asking for 1/2 a deposit sent before. Half the websites out there seem loaded with scams. Its a legitimate address but do I want to knock on the door and its not her? Plus I wasn't asked for any ID screening. How long will an add like that last before its removed for scamming?

After a long time marriage gone bad my confidence level has hit the bottom. Looking for a provider who I can see weekly who will take their time with me preferably past the age of 30, slim, and attractive, GFE, as I can't deal with immaturity. The goal is to go slow until my confidence level enables me to look for another long term friend. Will start immediately. Am a professional in good shape with excellent grooming/hygiene habits.

Am a healthcare professional very fit, 59, easily look 49, well mannered, nice looking, and great grooming/hygiene. Due to divorce and a very busy schedule I have been out of circulation for some time. Am looking for a lady between 30-40 years of age, 5'-2" to 5'-5" who is willing to help me gain my confidence back. Have high libido and no issues other than confidence issues since time off has been extensive and divorce issues. No rude comments are appreciated. Please PM with contact details.