Heidi the Housewife aka The Maui Muse

I have very found memories of Portland and the board there. Great M&G, well screened. The community very supportive. The board I'm thinking of even has a separate forum for SWOP announcements, etc. Very happy for you! Enjoy Aloha

Actually, I couldn't continue watching the Cage Match, I was laughing so hard, I nearly peed my pants. I was hoping the Don would turn around and say, "would you like to inspect " then zip his pants down.

Don't forget about Elizabeth, the Virgin Queen.

^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^

Unfortunately, I HAVE seen BBFS, True GFE, cover option friendly, no raincoat, "for the Very Generous Gentlemen who prefer A Real True GFE, please contact privately" etc, etc, advertised on boards, including P411 before the P411 Ad board was eliminated, in multiple states, not just Colorado and here in Florida. I'm not one to judge, yet, my personal beliefs run as such: If you have more than 1 Sexual Partner, you should Always cover. This also includes your SO. Yes, even while I was married, my SO was covered . Do I expect everyone else to follow my boundaries, no. I am only responsible for myself and while in the company of others, would hope I'm doing my best to respect their boundaries and keeping them Happy, Healthy and Safe. We all know this is being offered more and more, it's NOT NEW. ..... It would not be offered if there wasn't a market for it...... I would rather have the mindset of thinking everyone at one time or another has or is BBing. This way, I can do what I need to do to keep myself Healthy. Know the risks and if you feel the risks are not worth it, well, that choice is yours and yours alone to make. Please don't take my post as advocating or implying BBFS is acceptable, it's not. I'm just being realistic. This hasn't been the first post nor will it be the last on this subject. I do know that the day BBFS becomes the norm/standard in getting a thumbs up or thumbs down is the day I walk away, if I'm still around that is.

Those Kiwis. .......... For the full story. .. http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-35499554 #dildogate https://mobile.twitter.com/hashtag/dildogate

Not to go off topic, yet with Gay Marriage legal, I would be curious as to the rate of divorce within the Gay Community compared to the straight. Reason, I too know many upon many Gay men and women in committed relationships/married including my favorite cousin (she's been with her wife going on 15+years). I'm dog sitting for family friend who recently lost his husband to heart attack. I've known them since my teen years(I'm 43), that's almost 30 years.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pansexuality Here's a better link, which I also prefer, explaining the difference http://www.stop-homophobia.com/pansexuality.htm I first heard of Pan Sexual just before Gay Pride in June, 2015. When I asked, as I was under the impression the person explaining this to me was BiSexual, it was explained to me it's beyond just being Bi, it's inclusive of those who identify as Transgender too. PanSexuals don't discriminate. Some have called it Fluid as well and it's a relatively a new term and is debated within the Community. My opinion, it's a progressive view of Sexuality within the Younger Generation. A Generation of Inclusiveness and Nonjudgmental. I've yet to meet a Pan Sexual who was sexually permissive, instead I've noticed they take relationships seriously. I doubt this is a fad or hip term though.

Broncos Country here in the Tampa area! !! Super Bowl 50 Congratulations

AS a Provider who has worked and lived in the Portland area and familiar with TRB, I'm rather upset, so excuse my somewhat emotional, yet upset following Almost daily we have chest thumpers here and on various boards advocating doing the right thing. As a Provider, some board owners, especially those Private, by invitation only, password protected try to sway you to be a part as it's Safer, Clients are screened, etc, etc. Now here is an owner of one of these boards, being secretly recorded along with a few other members Knowing/speculating that these K - girls are Trafficked and instead of doing the right thing to Protect our Community, they instead contributed to the abuse. So now I'm sitting here mulling all this over and question, what would clients I've met have done, Would they publically say one thing yet do another? In all the years here, I can only recall one Hobbyist who reported suspected " not the majority age" and his actions saved Her. Im really questioning the integrity of those who participate in our Devilish ways and wondering if I have rose colored glasses on. Sorry, I'm still trying to process, rather upset yet I'm unable to find the correct words to voice my disdain without insult. I'm sure my thoughts and feelings will evolve as more information comes to light

Mele Kalikimaka to all here on TOB

Mele Kalikimaka

I can only speak for myself, I look at Who has given you the Okay. 10,20,30 or 600 really does not bear any weight as I look for compatibility. Personally, the more diverse your okays the better. I'd be more concerned with a long duration of membership and severe lack of Okays, ie: only 1 or 2 and they where not active providers. Mele Kalikimaka

Thank you for your response. I'm reposting your original as it caused concerns Reason I wanted clarification is you posting you had to log in and copy and paste your P411 .ID. This should never be done ever! It compromise not only P411 yet ever Provider listed and ever member of P411 and yes, that does include yourself. Further, when P411 was compromised, it was because of Provider/Providers (not sure how many ) who gave these wanna be clients an okay WITH OUT ever having a session. I believe those Providers where kicked off from P411. I'm not Gina nor part if the P411 team, yet, it's my understanding. I believe some clients in another state/s also where. I believe Gina has posted about this in this very thread and other threads. As a Provider, please send your request for an appointment via P411. Please don't include this information in a request outside of the P411 system. Please don't ever give your P411 ID via a NON P411 PM, pre - screening request and/or appointment request, it just not safe. As stated above, it's an abuse of the system. DON'T EVER COPY AND PASTE YOUR P411 ID as you've stated ever! I believe other guys have adopted a way to expedite request. They send appointment request THEN they call or text said Lady letting her know, hey just sent you an appointment request via P411. Usually this method is used by same day request. Hopefully this will help in You utilizing P411 to YOUR advantage Aloha from Tampa Bay Heidi the Housewife the Maui Muse

Aloha and Welcome to TOB and Denver So jealous beautiful. .. Im In Florida yet I'm finding I'm Really, Really, Really missing Beautiful, Colorful Colorado. The Gentlemen here are actually really nice, even those that try to stir the kettle. Enjoy and have a great Thanksgiving

Aloha and Happy Thanksgiving from Tampa Bay, FL I have a question directly directed at you(acip) please. Please clarify, from reading the above, you are not sending an appointment request or PM via P411 for an appointment? Rather, from how I'm reading the above, you are providing your P411 ID via other means? Where these Providers P411 member's? I'll wait for your reply before elaborating further Thank you for your time Aloha Heidi the Housewife the Maui Muse

On TER, there are several men who have had success on that site with students. They actually enjoy the SB/SD arrangements as it's not just about SEX. One talked about how it made him feel good he was, able to help a YL get through college. The only Real Life Experience of the Kept Woman/Mistress/SDSB is via a friend of mine who did enter into such. The terms where negotiated as such SD/Gentlemen had to buy her an apartment in New York which would remain with her after they parted ways. SD/Gentlemen was to provide her with all 3 major credit cards with a 5000 monthly spending limit on each card which He was responsible for SD/Gentlemen was to give her 10,000 cash on the first of each month SD/Gentlemen was responsible for any and all travel expenses SB/Mistress was allowed to date other men(civilian not clients) as long as she didn't entertain in the apartment He bought for Her. SB/Mistress was to be fully available for times Gentlemen requested, usually he flew in on Weekends or flew Her to him which was in another Country or flew Her to Him on his business travels. Always proper notice given so She could have his favorite foods prepared and She was freshly manicured, pedicured, hair done and ready They also negotiated a termination clause. Upon the end of their relationship, She was to retain full ownership of apartment and was to be given a lump sum payment, the amount I don't know. I also don't know about the credit cards either. Never was there any negotiations on any Sexual Activities, what was expected etc. Obviously He enjoyed Her company as to have an exclusive arrangement and vise versa. This is just one example, there are many other, I just know the particular Lady above. Some may call this marriage, hooker/client relationship, I see this as an exclusive arrangement

Aloha from the Tampa Bay Area I would think the majority of Providers have gloves ,or can improvise,. I believe several also offer various toys for such pleasure. These can start from a manual Prostrate stimulator to butt plugs, vibrating butt plugs and for those more advanced, strap on and my favorite strapless strap on (feeldoe) those can also be vibrating or not. Enjoy

Aloha and Welcome to the Board I'm all the way on the other side of the Country yet many many years ago, I used to live in San Francisco's Castro neighborhood and before that Orange County. Ahhhh, the memories. Please enjoy yourself, be yourself and have Fun Again, Welcome Aloha

there is a much better option to NBL. I've never used NBL, it's not discreet in my opinion. Please PM If you require the information if hasn't already been provided. Aloha

Over the Summer, an ATF flew out for the weekend here in Florida. While out at dinner, we discussed my 43rd birthday and he called bullshit so I pulled my driver's license out and showed him. He was speechless, not because I turned 43 yet because he thought I was in my mid to late 30's. I'm one of those who has never smoked as smoking does age you. Besides, my mom never showed her true age till she hit her 60s. Before anyone thinks I'll show my ID to anyone, no, he knows my real name as I consider him to not be a client yet a Friend I trust and have known for years.

Where do you find these?? Too funny

Aloha from the Tampa Bay Area Welcome to TOB, we're a Very Friendly group Very Very Friendly

Aloha and Welcome I'm soo excited! !