new2hobbying

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  8. Posted

    As a person that has very much investested in the firearms industry it is always interesting to see and hear the replies from all sides.  If you are carrying properly for the situation and respectful of others you will not offend any one.

    36 minutes ago, FuriousWeasel said:

    Concealed means concealed... oh wait.

    OK, that still applies.  Full size 1911 or Glock 19 on the hip?  Probably bad form. 

    This is a case for pocket carry, where you keep it in a holster like a Remora inside your pants pocket, and never let it leave the pocket.

    There would be a few concerns. Dont leave your clothes,  bag etc. out of your sight. You dont want anyone going through them.  The other is with asian woman that want to help you get dressed.  They wonder why your pants are real heavy.  Every once in a while you run into some one that wants to help you undress.

    Just remeber to respect other views. You have multiple choices:

    1. Do not carry to an appointment. 

    2. Discuss with the provider before seeing them. 

    3. Carry concealed which means no one knows you are carrying.

    Way all the advantages and consequences of each choice.

    7 hours ago, Kaduk said:

    From what I've gathered::

    If you're legally allowed to carry your CCW, you will still need to check with the individual's carry policy. Many don't allow guests to bring a firearm, even a CCW, onto their property. Some ladies will require guests to surrender their firearms before entering the premises.

    As for the legal stand point in Colorado it is up to the private business or individual to let visitors know prior to or upon the visit of their policies.  For a business it must be posted conspicuosly on every entrance. CCW laws is c.r.s. 18-12.

    Just remember to secure the firearm in some fashion and dont just leave it your vehicle. I would be concerned with any valuables left in a vehicle at a hotel especially. 

    We all want to feel safe so both sides enjoy our time together.

     

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    Yes fosta has made this more difficult for both sides to figure out who to see but even before that and since there is not a manual for either side it has always been interesting to navigate all the various definitions. It always left to interpretation.  Just looking at the different online resources you will not find a complete concenus on a words meaning.  Yes we have to put some effort into making everyones experience enjoyable.

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    Alia,

    Shenanigans goes both ways and no matter what side you are on it sucks. The first situation could have been something similar to what i experienced while sitting in parking lot waiting for a room number. She sent a text and i never received it. Finally get hold of her by phone and we met. She shows me the text and i show her it was never received. She tried again and it just went to lala land.  Not necessarily what happened in your case but it seems like he was waiting and not just blowing you off. You got to love technology sometimes.

    Your second one seems like you may have averted a bad situation. I know i am sometimes challenged finding a room in some of these labyrinths but i certainly dont waste that much time letting my date know that i cant find it. I have also had other woman up front just provide good directions so we dont look lost trying to find elevators or how to avoid the front desk. I would have appreciated your thoughtfulness and cander about the circumstances for the appointment time. I would be careful with this as others might see it as flakey.  You have to look at the relationship with that person. In general i would agree with Kandi just make the appointment for the time you can fully commit to. Yes you may loose that appointment but they may find a better time. Your date may not always have the time to be flexible and even if they they may hate waiting in a parking lot as much i do. Also if something goes wrong you dont make someone mad over something that was out of your control.

    As stealthmvr mentioned it seems regardless if you do everything right people dont always respect each others time. We see these cycles off and on and i am sorry you are experiencing this but sometime you just have to keep pushing through with a smile. 

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  16. Posted

    I dont believe there is any specific acceptance. I have definitely seen girls more than half age. Some good, some fantastic and some that definitely needed to improve. You just need to find some one you can have fun with.

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  17. Posted

    Omeomy,  It is always good to be cautious and I understand your hesitation.  If you see just a few reviews I certainly would be more cautious and continue with due diligence.  Research the reviewers. See how many reviews they have posted. What is their reputation on the board. Follow up with the more recent reviewers like you did for her.   Think about the questions you are posing.  Does it show that you are trying to be informed or does it throw up red flags.  Be safe and enjoy.

     

    1 hour ago, omeomy said:

    Yes, new2...cautious for sure. Perhaps leaning toward paranoid as a result of not doing enough due diligence, and having a run-in with LE in another city/state a few years back. Just trying to check and double check...and you pretty much answered my question:  "If there is a profile with reviews, is it legit?"

    And yes, I did contact a recent reviewer and got all the info I need.

    Thanks.

     

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  18. Posted

    It is good to be cautious but one has to wonder about someone's judgement when looking at profile that has 49 reviews dating back over three years.  

    However it has been a while since I had seen her nearly three years ago.   She was real then.  If you are wanting current info I would suggest contacting one of the more current reviewers.

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  21. Posted

    Its It's funny and i wish had seen this thread before i went to nola.  I have no problem with dates here thanks to tob but i could not get replies to any contact method from the nola girls.  

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  23. Posted

    11 minutes ago, Turtle138 said:

    Just hit the bars and have fun.

    You will find one the old fashioned way.

     

    I have never been a bar crawler.  But there have been some good suggestions and a good lead via dm.  

    If there are any others let me know.

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  24. Posted

    On 2/18/2019 at 10:15 PM, Hunter VanDyke said:

    Good luck finding a great lady, and have fun on your cruise. 💙

    Thanks hunter.  Now if i could just get a crash course on meeting women in the real world. Regardless i need to get away and now i am getting a little excited to go.

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  25. Posted

    15 hours ago, MeganMarie4u said:

    I would bet eccie would be decent since Louisiana and texas are neighbors 

    I will check eccie. Thanks Megan.

    7 hours ago, K2dnvrfun said:

    Are you looking for just fun in NOLA or someone closer to bring on ship with you?

    Just fun in nola.  I think i would need to know someone a little to travel with them for a week.

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