Flanker-9057

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    Well, I tried the right click and clicked Google search image and about a hundred "similar" pics of others came up.   Also, the Merriam Webster definition of "Girl", LOL~!  I really liked this provider and was hoping to reconnect after time had passed.  If anyone can help I would appreciate that.  Thanks~!

     

     

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    I have been on here for some years, and am a member elsewhere.  The term "GFE" is used regularly, but I have found it has widely different interpretations.  So, I thought I would see if there is any kind of consensus on what that means.  I think some use correctly, but I think many don't.  I understand it is starts with "Girlfriend Experience"......   Well, does that mean BBBJ?  Does it mean CBJ?  Does in include kissing and if so, LFK or DFK?  Sex?  Intercourse?  What kinds?  Greek, no Greek?  And so forth.  I am very interested to hear back from everyone.........  Thanks so much~!

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    Can Providers "update" references for us?  For example, if I have seen a provider three weeks ago and she posts a reference for me on TOB, then I see her again say yesterday, can she update the date from three weeks ago to yesterday?  Just wondering because I would like to request updates on a couple references I have.  Thanks so much~

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    18 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

    You really can't. The provider's who know you well can defend you, but you can't stop a provider from sharing her opinion of you. She has her version of how everything went down. Like you said lack of clarity. It reminds me a little of a recent post about one member reaching out to another member regarding a yes review he posted. The reviewer then began saying all these negative things about her. She probably has no idea he is giving a negative opinion out to anyone who asks him about her, especially because he posted a yes review, so she is not able to come here and post a rebuttal and defend herself. What I'm trying to say is none of us can stop anyone from spreading lies, rumors, negative opinions about ourselves. Hopefully you have a good reputation with several providers established, so you'll be okay. I've always felt a client or providers reputation speaks for itself. I've gone to bat for my clients if I feel a provider is in the wrong. I've also dropped a reference for a client when a I felt he was in the wrong. All you can do is share your version, and let the chips fall where they may. Just my opinion. 

    Thanks so much for your thoughts.  I really appreciate how you explained this.  It is how I feel, also.  I did have a couple provider friends tell me they reached out to this one to discuss, but I understand fell on deaf ears.  I have moved on, but was interested in feedback here, too.  Thanks again, Hunter, for being so nice.  M

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    I had done this some years back after dropping off for a while.  I lost all my references and reviews associated with my former username.  That was about 5 years ago, so things may have changed but thought I would say something so you check first, before deciding what to do and save you some of the headaches I underwent.

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    I had a "tiff" with a provider some months back.  She engaged in false advertising and tried to double my fee once I showed up to her place.  I called her on it and posted then after messaging with her I deleted my post due to lack of clarity.  Thought we resolved it.  Since then, i have been told twice now that she has contacted other providers to smear me and had one other provider apparently join her in posting a negative "review" of me as a member here.  I know it is false but am concerned of my reputation in here.  I have been in here over 10 years including through a name-change not of my creation but with a very good history.   How can we members defend ourselves against this kind of nastiness please?

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    1 hour ago, ilovewomen said:

    She has several reviews, all say yes.

    When you say "I get very generic almost canned responses suggesting interest but will not follow up enough to set up an appointment", are you saying you aren't following up to try and set an appointment?  Or are you expecting her to followup and see if you want an appointment?

    Par example~  "Hi Dianna, I would love to see you.  When are you free this week?" and response is "Yes, I would love to see you."  ............

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    Dianna Anderson 720-919-8735
    Colorado Companion

    Looking for 411 on her.  She is in the TOB "Listings" and when I reach out to her I get very generic almost canned responses suggesting interest but will not follow up enough to set up an appointment.  No reviews of her in 2019, but some over a year old.....  thanks~!

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    I was on AFF once and actually met someone, albeit after many hours posting and chasing ghosts.  Was a ripoff.  Was on Ashley Madison and was totally unsuccessful.  I was told by a couple ladies there it was because I was single.  In my own view, I wasn't rich enough to be a "sugar daddy" to the young hot females on there, and I wasn't young and hot enough for the older hot cougars who want young meat.  At my age and financial range I was not marketable in AM.... LOL~!

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    Colorado Companion

    I am hoping to find a sweet lady who provides a complete UTF/BBBJ~CIM finish to an FBSM, maybe more, if possible.  Live in SW Littleton, so geography might be an issue as well.  To avoid (I forgot the term) promoting, so please PM me only, as well as anyone else concerned about being sure we are posting appropriately.  This has always been a "wish list" thing for me, but to date cannot seem to find the right one~  Thanks so much.....!

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    10 hours ago, TheWhisperer said:

    Unfortunately we do not have a category for Time Waster:/

    I wish we did have such a category.........  This would be a very helpful thing to know when looking at reviews.  

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    14 hours ago, BadBoy said:

    I have no idea where you, or she, is getting this information.  If she said what you indicate (a large if), then she needs to learn that you can most certainly post a "No Show" review and she should have this attitude adjusted as soon as possible.  Just bear in mind that you should provide the whole story, and indicate that it was not a NCNS, but still a "No Show" after arrangements were made and finalized.  I just read the Reviews a moment ago, and there was a "No Show" review that basically echoed your situation.

    I did that BB, and was my review was denied.  It is not an "If"....she did that.  Mod who denied it explained to me that I could not call it a "No-Show" because she cancelled, even though it was a last-minute cancellation.   I was also told in their explanation denying my post of a No Show that there are no rules saying anything like a last minute being a no-show or that the cancellation must be at least 30 minutes prior to the appointment.  This may be an area needing to be revised in here, to allow us to post these shenanigans when we are left hanging with our dick in our hands after spending time and money for an appointment only to get shot down last minute without a good reason......

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    14 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

    Write the review as a NoShow, explaining in detail her timing of the cancellation. Fellas will get the hint. 

    IMHO any cancellation w/in one hour of the appointment should be considered a NoShow (but not an NCNS).  That’s the time frame most have to start traveling to or prepping for the appointment. While not as bad as an NCNS because you’re not left hanging around wondering, the window-of-opportunity has probably been lost.  I’ve never had any luck finding a short notice replacement, just further disappointment. 

    I did that Bit, and was my review was denied.  Mod who denied it explained to me that I could not call it a "No-Show" because she cancelled, even though it was a last-minute cancellation.   I was also told that there are no rules saying anything like a last minute being a no-show or that the cancellation must be at least 30 minutes prior to the appointment.  This may be an area needing to be revised in here, to allow us to post these shenanigans when we are left hanging with our dick in our hands after spending time and money for an appointment only to get shot down last minute without a good reason......

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    On 7/17/2018 at 4:47 PM, stevie-2249 said:

    Why is it we blame these situations on the guy, maybe he didn't follow her protocol or said the wrong thing etc... 

    You ladies have control of when you want to work, who your gonna see etc... And you know what? us guys will keep calling you.

    The unfortunate about this is that there is not to many places any more to look for the ladies so your not worried about losing business, just be courteous and a simple phone call or text to say hey I need to cancel if appointment has already been set would be nice

    I agree~!  It is NOT always the guy.  A couple days ago, I followed protocols and set up with a "reputable provider", and I confirmed via text the morning of our appointment, which was an "out" to my place.  20 minutes before the appointment she texted to say she would be a couple minutes late.  No biggie.  Then about 12-15 minutes before she was supposed to arrive, she texted me to say she was not coming, making up a story I found out was bogus.  I protested and she said "Ha, ha, I canceled in time, so there is nothing you can post about it".   I found out there is no "deadline" for when is too late to cancel so-as to be a "no-show"...  Anyway, I did everything I was supposed to do and this provider basically flipped me the bird because she "canceled", even though I did all I was supposed to do.  I wish there was some way to report or post being stood up, or last-minute cancellations, myself..........

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