Barbi

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    Just remember that even when someone posts an ad that does not always mean they are necessarily available as things do come up and also many of the ladies here get hundreds of messages a day...Just saying there is no reason to be upset just because you dont hear back from one of the ladies here, as most likely she is not dissing you but instead it is possible your message could have been several hours old and she did not respond because she does not fully know your situation and does not wish to cause you problems, since not all gentlemen here are single......

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    Maybe try establish yourself as a member of the community first then worry about the fetishes you have afterwards...When one desires to be a part of any community it requires that a person develop a reputation which is built on trust and respect and trust however when such things are given freely that means they lack any true meaning which has been happening here recently.....There is no government regulation that can control such things and those who are starting rumors in this community lately have done so with ulterior motive in order to personally benefit from what they are doing and it is time that those who are here understand that and realize that is the reason why and the fact that they are trying to buy their way into regulation of the market is exactly the reason why....and the fact that are attempting to destroy the credibility of anyone who opposes them should be obvious....It seems it is easy to take over old accounts here, as the fact that someone has done so with my previous account that I was told was unrecoverable after the format of the board changes, makes that clear so respect is no longer an issue here it seems and that is sad....Because of those who have no value for such things the upcoming youth now believe that everything is owed to them like some type of birth right which in fact it is not....Respect given freely is meaningless and the same thing goes with any relationship in your life if there is no respect there is nothing at all and that is the same thing here....So unless people stop believing the bullshit created by the rumor mill and start thinking for themselves, one day very soon you shall find that things were not as the appear and instead it was all by design of those who did so for the sole reason  to eliminate our right to choose the things that affect our lives...Remember we all have a choice to listen to those who seek only to gain from what they say or to understand what happens when e do not exercise that right  when one day it is gone....

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    We were all that way at one point or another and it was due to those who provided information and services here that we each learned and have come forward to be a part of the community....And there are many here now and before us who have helped to make this place great....

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    It happens every August with school starting back our friends here have their families they must take care of along with other things....Plus the markets are uncertain which does not help....It will change it always does so keep your head up and find comfort in the fact that things always change for the better or worse, nothing remains the same

     

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    Wow. It seems strange that the security of P411 has never been called into question previously.  I must say unless there are others complaining about this problem that it is potentially from another source that P411, like someone might have hacked an email address used to send the information is more like the problem, unless of course there are more instances than just this one individual, so before anyone keeps threatening with the law and legal advise it might  be appropriate to see if this is an isolated circumstance or if it is widespread, as there could be differing information as to what really happened and what is being thought and said here as hacker instances tend to be wide spread instead of focused on one individual unless of course the OP is someone in politics or a celebrity there certainly could be more than one reason for this happening....

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  10. Posted · Edited by Barbi

    I believe Bit is right, we dont need any government regulations telling us how to operate our business.....The established providers here to the things that you are suggesting and we dont need anyone babysitting us...and as far as a self regulation industry that will never happen here because the government stands too much to make off of regulations, so that is humorous honestly....I dont see anyone here wanting their personal business put out on jump street through insurance billings handled through the corporate office which codes would certainly be a part of that and so forth...Plus it would require that the ladies all be situation in some type of brothel type situation in insure she is not out being stupid and getting herself into trouble, so there goes the discretion that is enjoyed right now for everyone...There are some here who might not see that as an issue but I do because I do have a life outside of here and suspect the other ladies to do and they can kiss that good bye despite the promises that might be being made now...

    And from the say the new laws were put into affect it was done to harm the ladies in the hobby so there is only one reason to do that and that was to hide those who were being trafficked better by using new website and such buried in the dark web....So I would not be shocked in they retaliate soon by making some huge announcement that will affect the hobby since it is obvious those folks are tied into the government....

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    Mentors can be a wonderful thing however there often are times that the world changes so quickly that makes such things impossible but of course it depends on the area you are seeking a mentor in of course....

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    Well a word of advise, if you message a lady make it to the point and book an appointment quickly because most dont have time for long drawn out conversations as normally those dont work out well, so keep it straight to the point until you have had the opportunity to meet her....Also realize there are some who arent around or busy when you message so just keep trying as there are only so many beautiful ladies to go around here....LOL....Well you get my drift, the most of the reputable providers here may not be around when you want but they are worth the wait, as you can pretty much be assured you enjoy your time doing so....And dont stress its like anything in life it takes time and hard work to build your reputation in a community and there is really no one who is just going to hand it over to you without you are willing to do it yourself first and if they do then it is not going to last, but that is something that only time will tell.....So just relax and have a great time you might find when you are not so anxious everything will just come together as it should....

     

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    Happy birthday my friend....May your day be filled with joy and love of family and good friends and may it bring you all that you need, want and dream about it in your life....I hope you have the best day of your life today and may all that follow be even better than today...

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    There have been several new providers showing up here on and off... As far as giving a reference for any of them, I would think it would be best served coming from one of the guys, not one of the ladies unless of course they have worked together...Otherwise there is no way for the lady to know for sure that the lady is providing what she believes it to be whereas if it was one of the guys then he would know, or so one would assume....

     

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    18 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

    When she orgasms you’ll feel a spike in The Force. 💥

    Not quite but there will be an exchange that occurs...same thing happens with men....its a shared connect that is achieved, it takes you to a higher level of connection....better understanding of others needs as well as your own, its like a learning experience that is shared....a better understanding overall is shared and leaves with you for the future....

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  24. Posted · Edited by Barbi

    We are all made up of energy....It is when the other person releases that energy that is  achieved....It is a sharing of that release of energy that occurs that you can feel inside you, whether it is real or not is not the point, it is the sharing in the energy that is being produced that is the experience in itself....Thats the best way that I can describe what happens....

    It is much like information that we learn about, everyone perceives that information differently on the level that they can and it is in sharing that information that forms our sense of reality.....Just because someone else does not see that information the same way that you do, does not make it less real to them....I am not certain if that makes any sense at all Neo1 but that is how reality actually is for people and that does not make it any less or more real to that person....

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