Barbi

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  1. Threatening bad review

    Suzi sweetie dont let him get to you as a bad review here is not the end of the world, it simply means your human and have things that come up like a family emergency which is far more important than a bad review on the board....There are been some recently that are trying to get freebies with their threats so just hold your ground and just know it may be the first but odds are it wont be the last because we are all human here and have things that come up from time to time....We are not robots and that seems to be what some people want but until then they have us....LOL...Smile Suzi and have a wonderful weekend....
  2. Balls really are tasty

    You should try the Buckhorn Exchange, Hunter as they have many exotic items on the menu, it gives you a chance to expand your horizons in the culinary avenue and they also have great steaks.....Great place if your not a vegan....
  3. References, Reviews

    Wow I thought once or twice I have seen reviews on ladies who didnt have an actual profile here but maybe I am not correct on that as it has been awhile since i followed the reviews here.....Or course that is what I am assuming you mean by verified but I could be wrong as there seems to be a lot here that is different then previously....
  4. Honestly while the movies like Pretty Women depict the fairy tale ending, there are not fairy tale endings for the soldiers in this world like all of us and this gives the opportunity to live in the moment not matter what your fantasy might be....Welcome to TOB the land of hopes and dreams.....Didnt it go something like that....I really dont remember for sure as I never really liked the movie all that much anyway....While the story is nice, I seriously dont believe any of us believe in fairy tales here...Now if you are talking making a fantasy come true then we can assist you....But if your looking for LTR you might check out Toys R Us, as I heard they have a sale on blow up partners at the moment....Only kidding of course but everyone here knows that too....
  5. Black mail & Being Outted

    Pm also sent....This situation is just wrong and it is nice to see so many here providing support to another person in the hobby, that is what we need to be strong and keep ourselves together here....I am sorry that it took this to do that but hopefully nothing will come of this and Jasmine will get through it none worse because of it.....It is unfortunate that some people use such things as weapons instead of having the ability to see this is just like anything else and as long as long as none one is being hurt it is no one elses business....
  6. Thank you!

    Your the best Laci...But I am still hoping you and your doubles partner will join me one day for a foursome on the tennis court.... LOL.... But seriously you are an awesome lady
  7. How Old is too Old?

    Now that's too funny.... I always get a great laugh when I come here... Thank you everyone for helping to make this the best place on the internet...
  8. References

    I had a friend of something that I had almost forgot and it really sank in as I thought about what he said...Life is about taking risks....And he was absolutely right...When I first came here no one asked anyone for references,. it was unheard of and now because there are some who do not seem to grasp the entire concept of things here, they have started asking such things because of supposed safety concerns but really what good does that do....It does seem to me a way of getting information about others from someone else which is really not anyone elses business....By sharing such information are we not putting ourselves at risk as well??? Just a thought that I have been considering just a bit lately and it seems to me we really have no clue who it is asking so that is putting us at risk not only once but twice....I am really not all that comfortable with that especially with all the old faces here that are not looking the same as they used to....Really until someone opens the door you are still at risk since it is impossible to know anything for sure until that moment and that is something that is very important to remember....Never put yourself at risk if you are not comfortable and never ask someone else to decide that for you, it is a choice that you and only you should make and if you make that decision on your own then maybe you are in the wrong hobby....Life is full of risks and we need to realize that and think about the level of risk we are willing to take before we do the things we do....
  9. How Old is too Old?

    Age is irrelevant, it is how you choose to live that determines your true age....While there are things that can be said about youth, it is not a time in this world that I would wish to be in my youth....There is far more to be said about maturity as you can see what it is you are going to get because it is already established and not established by days or weeks but by the long haul....Thats how it goes in life and how it really goes with everything.....It is impossible to re-live ones lost youth and only a fool would try to re-live it vicariously through another instead of just living their own life....
  10. Homeless teens

    I made a donation last night and will be doing the same every week, it really made me feel good knowing that I was doing something this important to others and these young people are our future so we need to help protect them now or our future might seriously be in question someday...It has also made me decide to create a website for myself soon just so I can include a comment about this program for others to see who might not make it here.... Working together I am certain we can actually help to change someone's life for the better by each of us just doing one small thing...That is why I am asking each of you to do this one simple thing....Winter is coming soon and these young people are going to need a place to stay when it gets cold, so what a better time to help....So I am asking everyone to bypass the stop at Starbucks once a week and at the end of the month donate what you saved by doing that to the Urban Peak program....It is something that we would not even miss but all of us doing this simple thing every week it would make a huge difference to the Urban Peak program and those that they help...I hope you all will consider doing this because these young people are out future and they need our help now.... Thanks for reading and for sharing the information about such a wonderful program as Urban Peak....
  11. Another etiquette question for the ladies

    I believe when first making contact the use of pet names such as you have said is not appropriate as it is taken as disrespectful...However once you have established with a re pore with a person then they are taken as a term of endearment instead of being an insult because the level of respect has been established and that creates an entirely different situation when they are used...Hope that helps you to realize the difference I believe that most people consider their use....
  12. Reference

    Thank you Kandi....It helps to have a great memory in the hobby....
  13. Reference

    Were you not a member of P411 by the name of DarsonJ or something similar to that??? And if my memory serves right were you not removed from P411???? I think you may have had another account here too..... https://theotherboard.com/users/105970 Sorry if I have you confused with someone else, it is just your style of writing is very similar to that person and that is why I am asking....
  14. Homeless teens

    That is wonderful to know and thank you for having such a kind heart to share that with us here in the community...This has become a serious problem across the country and unfortunately it is something that is likely to continue as the result of the greed of those who have controlled the government for decades...It is nice that there is a place for homeless teens to go, as that is something that has been lacking in most major cities for a long time because it does not fit within the governments agenda....It is important that everyone help with this serious problem anyway they can.....It is nice to see that others here agree....
  15. 411 on BriLuvssuuu720

    Welcome to TOB Redneck Mikey.... Interesting post for a first time poster, I would say that you have your own answer to your question...So why would you want to post that information here unless you are trying to do some free advertising for that girl here is beyond me and I am certain that those here would agree....
  16. Years ago a friend of mine photographed mine and cast it in 14k gold and adorned with diamonds and other precious stones. I wore it around my neck for several years but it was lost when the chain broke...It was a fun conversation piece for sure and I hope the wonderful replica found a good home after being lost....These are certainly great articles which made me think of the beautiful memorial that was created for me by my dear friend...If anyone is interested in having their own made it as created by Lawrence at Designer Fine Jewelry in Westminster....
  17. What's your Unicorn?

    Well mine would be someone who understands what it is to be honest with those close to them and themselves....But since that will never happen I guess this is the closest thing that I will ever get to having that....LOL...Have a great day everyone.....
  18. Lady Friends

    Welcome to Denver and I am certain you are going to find it a great place to live and play....We are glad to have you here and if you have any questions just ask as someone will always be glad to assist....Have a great time and we are glad your here....
  19. This is the tactic some low lifes will resort to in order to eliminate someone who they consider to be competition, so unless your hobby email is also used for your personal emails, I would not be overly concerned if I were you...Odds are it is nothing more than that, as if someone really knew you that well they would be sending that type of email to your personal email address in order to make the point, which I assume from your post they did not....Always be cautious but dont allow that to interfere with your normal business activities until something might actually suggest it could really be something more than has been discussed here....
  20. Every day is a learning experience

    Thats great....Gotta love it....
  21. Of course i mean with a fantasy...
  22. I am of the opinion that sharing ones fantasy in a public forum takes it from being what it is by placing in the public eye which destroys the fantasy...The reason it is a fantasy is because it is not something that one shares chooses to make public for all to know but instead is something that is kept private and shared with another in the sanctuary of privacy but such is destroyed when one chooses to involve others in any situation and the reason why one must choose carefully who they decide to share their secrets with...When one shares their secrets with the wrong people makes such things all too public and it destroys what one once thought they had...Far too often people are blind to such things and so they end up with nothing at all....
  23. Loss of reviews

    It gets old to hear this same old song, we are lucky to be here and everyone needs to realize that and stop whining already and stop trying to create another reason why they take what we have left away....It is starting to seem like those who are whining the loudest are actually a part of what has caused this problem to happen in the first place...They have no clue or regard for what it actually took to create a place where the hobby could be discussed openly as it once was and how it had absolutely nothing to do with personal gain nor was it driven by profits, thats for damned sure....It was destroyed by those who were motivated by those things and the fact that they fail to see that is going to be what destroys the last few remaining places that are left and that is the only reason why things are as they are here today, so enough already....
  24. Ladies choice

    It has to do with many factors and each lady sets her own donations for time....It is all pretty much the same, you leave with one thing and that is a great memory of that time....
  25. Excellent advise Samantha....Thanks