Barbi

Hotel security do not pack heat and dont let anyone tell you otherwise....You did the right thing and who knows maybe that provider got herself into some trouble and might have been trying to get herself out of trouble....You never know

My sister cooked tonight and she made a feast with creamy white chicken chilli and for those of you who have never enjoyed it, I do highly recommend that you do because it is almost better than sex....Key word here being almost of course...But it was absolutely wonderful and I am getting ready to sit down and enjoy more in a couple minutes...

Happy New Year everyone see you all in 2019

I have worked in the hotel industry most of my life, not pun intended and that means you work all major holidays as hotels are open 24/7/365, so there is no time off for holidays....It is one of the few industries that does that and also requires not only general employees but also requirements management or at least someone to fill in as such be available or on call anytime....Its a very demanding field and I have worked every holiday since I started working in that industry just out of college....

+1 Dont allow that to upset you and quit participating in the hobby, as it is most likely just one of those things where just because she didnt think you two were a good match that someone else here wont be the perfect match...Never let anyone else ruin your happiness with what you do, as long as both are consenting adults no one has that right to take that away from you here...

Merry Christmas Turtle and everyone else here on TOB.....

Thank you to all the wonderful gentlemen here who have made this a wonderful year for us ladies on TOB...It has been a great honor to meet both the ladies and gentlemen here and looking forward to seeing you all again throughout the upcoming year...Merry Christmas to everyone here on TOB and that includes you too 2Big...And may your holidays be filled with joy and happiness....

women sweetheart.....not women using men but men using women in that instance discussed by the OP....Sugar babies are looking for financial compensation fo their time and that makes the situation where someone who meets them with the intent not to providing those ladies with the financial arrangements promised then that is using women however as the women on those sites make the situation known upfront there is no using men.....You can and are not using someone who knows upfront what the other party is looking for in advanced....He chose to be at that site knowing full and well what the situation was so there is not using of men there but instead of had to be dishonest with the women he met in order to get what he was looking for without providing those ladies the agreed compensation in return and that is using those women.... It does seem very strange that there are some who were absent here for awhile have returned with this red pill mentality in this forum....Honestly this site was never a dating site but instead it is a forum where like mind individuals meet to exchange thoughts and share time together, it is not the place that gentlemen come to meet their next ex-wife or new girlfriend, so this red pill mentality is misplaced here...This is a personal choice to be here that the gentlemen make and since there really is no reason to bring your red pill mentality point of view about men being used here, as no one shares your view that the women here are using men because it is something that is known upfront and is agreed by the gentlemen choosing to be here, so that view point does not fit here....As your mindset is so different from the rest of us here, maybe you might find it more enjoyable if you were to find another place where there are others who share your point of view, as it just seems that your view point is rather misplaced here...Please understand I am not trying to get into a war of words or battle of wits with anyone here nor am I trying to be rude to the gentlemen here in anyway, I am simply stating that which should be more than obvious to anyone who has been a member of this site as long as you have sweetheart....Again I am not trying to be rude at all just saying maybe you might find your time is better spent sharing your opinions with others who believe the same way you do....And by the way Happy Holidays to you and all those here, may this holiday season bring to you all that you want and need in your life and may the upcoming new year bring everyone here 101 years health, wealth and happiness....Salud, chindon

Our condolences to you and your family MeganMarie, may you find the strength you need to make it through this difficult time...It is never easy losing a loved one or anyone who is a big part of your life and having it happen around the holidays just seems to make it even more difficult....But please know you are not alone here and that should you need anything during this time, please know we are here for you...All you need to do is reach out when you are ready and we are here to help you if you need us and we will help you anyway possible to make it through this difficult time...

It happens there are predators who feed on the sexual forums, they are conmen who are just looking for a good time and use the women in any forum including here I am sure...The thing is they are show charming and attractive that everyone lets their guard down so they do not see that it is all just part of the con....I am pretty sure it has happened in all the sites at one time or another and that all of us have fallen victim to someone like this at one point or another in our lives....It is not an exclusive thing that happens to just women or men, sex workers, bodyworkers or just regular people in society as those type of people feel on anyone they can find, it doesnt matter your profession, your status in society or anything else other than you were just the unlucky one who happened to cross their path....That the sad part about it, it could happen to anyone in this world at some point or another...Sorry just being honest that is what I have seen over the years even here

Didnt you know the sky is falling....What a joke....But it is true like is changing for some but its not likely to be the ones people like Diamond John is carrying on about....Thats all I have to say about anything that is happening here, as it is just a bunch of smoke and mirrors intended to ruin the hobby and get rid of the competition....

Happy birthday Megan....Wishing you the most beautiful birthday yet....May it bring to you joy and happiness and be filled with love and give you all that you need and . want in your life....And may it be the first of many more better tomorrows....

Take care Ryan....It certainly has been a pleasure and honor getting to know you here and may you have a speedy recovery and return to 100% health soon....May your travels in life take you to all the interesting places you will enjoy and may you have the health, wealth and happiness to completely enjoy the years you have remaining and maybe one day we all shall all have the pleasure of meeting in another place and time....

And I know the hostage thing is intended to be funny Turtle but after what happened to me last week it is not funny at all....I will explain why, last week I was shopping at a store on 120th and after going through the check out, I asked my driver to put the things in the trunk while I was sitting in the car using the phone when suddenly the car was swarmed by 10 of Broomfields finest with full body armor and tactical gear including assault rifles...It seems one of the customers in the store took it upon themselves to call 911 and tell them that I was being kidnapped which was completely untrue but the cops were not aware of that so they tackled my driver and had him face down on the pavement with his arms zip tied behind his back and only about 10 minutes later did they finally figure out the caller was full of crap but that didnt not prevent them from making contact with me and my driver for no reason....So while you say such things jokingly be careful as some you might not even know might take that seriously and that can lead not only unwanted contact with law enforcement but also might cause you to have to explain the reason you are in that area which is normally the standard question when they are trying to interrogate a suspect even when it ends up no crime was committed....

This reminds me of someone i knew years ago but she actually prided herself on getting guys out the door in 10 minutes or less it was something that I never subscribed to myself especially after doing a duo with her where she actually said its time to get off or get off....I thought that was horrible and never spoke to hear after that fact....However it not the ladies fault all the time either, there are some who just can not hold back their enthusiasm but they do not realize that from the start so they book a longer appointment so that is not the ladies fault when that happens.....So what is a happy medium with that when its not her fault and really it is not his either....Personally I think since he booked an hour, if he decides to leave early after the main event then thats on him and he should not complain...However if she runs him out the door afterwards then that warrants a bad review....Just my personal opinion and you know what they say about that, everyone has one and most of the __________-!!!!

I have been blessed over the years to have met many wonderful friends in the hobby and I have had the honor of being a part of their lives in many different ways....Over the years I have had many gentlemen I have met here who have thanked me for giving them the confidence to move forward with their lives by providing them the skills they needed to approach the girl they wanted for years....It has been an honor to help those here to gain whatever it was they needed to make it through their days during the course of this crazy thing we call life....And I wish to thank those here who's generosity and kindness has helped me to have a better life than I could have hoped for without them being a part of my life.... While we all have our own reasons for being here, I vowed years ago never to discuss my checkered past that led to my finding this place I now consider to be home that is shared with those who have become my friends over the years but as the result of what I have witnessed happening here recently today I shall break my silence and share the details of what happened to me in hopes that it might save others from suffering the same fate as happened to me in the past....I will be posting a link to that story later on my profile so if you are interested in finding out more watch for that later this afternoon....

You might not like what I am going to say here but it is probably the most honest advice you will get about this situation....Neither of these situations will work without the ability to be honest and open with your communication as to the way the situation and what your feelings are....It seems like you are only wanting to do this so you can keep the first wife around while you explore your options with the younger stripper chick, that way you can keep the first wife around just in case things dont work out well with the new heartthrob...Truly I can see no benefit that such a situation would be bringing to your current wife other than for you to rub the new relationship in her face everyday....The time to make a suggestion about a poly relationship is not when the relationship you are current in is dead and none existant but instead it should be introduced when there is the possibility of enjoyment for both partners not just one as that is selfish and self serving....I am sorry as I said I am not trying to sound rude to you about this but I just dont think that you understand what a poly relationship is actually about as it is not one sided just for the husband to enjoy but is supposed to be a thing that is done for mutual enjoyment...The problem is in our society it seems that there is something thrilling about sneaking around instead of being honest which is required for any relationship to work yet this seems to be a problem with nearly every poly relationship I have see or been involved with and until people realize that will kill any relationship regardless of it being poly or not...Any relationship you encounter in your life is based on communication and a level of trust that requires someone to be honest even when they are afraid of the consequences....Remember the reason people are dishonest not only with those they supposedly love but themselves is because they are hiding something that they obviously know is wrong even in their own minds, otherwise the would be able to step up and own it instead of trying to cover it up and make excuses why their relationship is no longer satisfying....While someone might get upset and feel hurt, if it is the truth they have the option of getting over it or not and leaving but without honesty about a situation being expressed you are denying them that choice which should be theirs to make in response to any situation that arises in life....So consider that as you think about why this situation would not work with your current wife, as it hasnt worked for her so far so why would such make the situation better????

It does seem for what was written that the entire situation was one of dominance games on the part of the guy and retired provider, but that of course is just my take on the situation which could be completely incorrect....

Hunter I am certain you look sexy in anything you wear even when your crocheting....and especially in the nude....

I still see my first client....Actually it was his wife who arranged it because she had recently had surgery and was unable to do anything without intense pain as the result of that and she called me, we met for lunch and I have seen him every week since that time....Strange situation but i do understand she just wanted to save her marriage the only way she could think of and that helped to shape my dealings with those here over the years..... However he does not review and neither does she...LOL....Great people and I stood up for both of them when they renewed their wedding vows recently....

Well said Bravo1....Exact point I was attempting to make....

If this was a paid gig then you should just go with the flow but only to the point that you are comfortable doing such...It does not matter if the gig is paid or not, no one has the right to put you in a situation where you are not comfortable....Never allow anyone to disrespect your by forcing you to be in a situation you are not comfortable being in even for money...As you said this is someone you have seen before for him to insist you must be in a position that you are not comfortable shows his only interest in you is self serving and he has no respect for you or concern for you and your well being...If you have no issues with that because he is paying than that is entirely up to you but personally I would not allow myself to be in such a situation regardless of how much he might contribute to my life financially...This is the way that people use their position to exercise control over others and that is a means of manipulation that they use to destroy your self confidence and cloud your better judgement and is not someone who cares about you or your best interest...In all walks of life there are boundaries and limits which one must establish and do not allow anyone to cross those lines regardless of the reason or you are selling your soul.... It is the master illusionist who can sell the masses on their ideals that are so grounded in a fantasy that it produces illusion in colors so brilliant and vivid it paints of the world in which we no longer care whether it is true or false, so long as we are allow you to partake in its magical glory.... Throughout history such master illusionists have never had the best interest of society at heart and instead have used such control over the masses for their own personal benefit....So never believe anyone who tries to sell you on their false pretenses that you are not the same as your own because they are not doing it for your benefit but instead for their own benefit as they have no regard for you or the problems that this causes in your life....Just as life imitates art and art imitates life but when the lines between the two vanish, so do the lines between sanity and madness...

You two are too cute, it s great to see all the love that is here between you....

Happy birthday Hunter...May your day bring to you everything you need, want and desire in your life....May you be surrounded by love and happiness on your special day and may it be the most beautiful day of your life and may all your tomorrows be even better than today....

Welcome Nikki...Hope your trip to Denver is everything you hope it will be and that we see you here more often....If you have any questions or need anything please PM me and I will do what i can to help you.....Have a great weekend.....