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Married for decades, with some indiscretions I've mostly been a one woman man, certainly the greatest part of those years. Now despite counseling and promises of more thereof etc., the spark is gone. This will seem sappy I know but, in my travels I've met the most amazing woman I've ever known. A much younger stripper who has been out with me without asking for a dime, I wrote about how real and down to earth she is in another post not too long ago. I can hardly understand what's happening, but it sure feels good! Going through financial dire straits, I caught myself fantasizing about getting to know her better with the intent of bringing her into the fold as a sister wife to help her and myself to what might seem to be the best of all worlds. And as I write, the YL just confirmed liking women sexually. Wifey does not and yes, is EXTREMELY jealous...it won't be an easy conversation. In fact, I don't know where to begin without a skillet to the head or hurting her, none of which seem appealing, the latter least of all. So fellas, have any of you succeeded in this regard, convinced your jealous SO to allow such a thing? And ladies, have any of you been the begrudgingly added sister wife and made it work? I purposely phrase the question this way because I know it can end really, really badly so, no horror stories; I've read them all and at this time have little to lose but the pursuit of happiness and fulfillment, if there is such a thing. Thanks in advance for your insight.