Hello Lovely People, I thought that it may be good to respond to this thread since it involved me. Please Allow me to express how very Dear, the TOB community is to me; I rely upon the kindness and respect of this community. My web-site indicates that I am only able to provide availability a few days a week, those days vary. I am in classes getting a certification and your support has been so appreciated. In response to someone who may text me; I first run your number on Verify Him, which is a forum that allows ladies to share notes based off of your phone number. If there is a negative report I may not mention it to you; my response is difficult, I am not sure how to say that there may have been un-savory report regarding you. We ladies rely upon our intuition, or as I like to say "our gut" to determine if a potential person requesting time is; Safe, Respectful; and Cool! So if someone texts me with information that can aide me in determining a positive experience, I am more than happy to take the steps involved in Verifying that person. I am so very thankful for the opportunity to express my thoughts here and I hope that I have provided clarification. I feel that my gut and instincts are truly my only protection, if I felt uneasy and provided a "canned" response, it may be an effort to avoid conflict.