Lucy Kitten

http://reductress.com/post/harassment-and-assault-are-different-man-helpfully-explains-to-woman-who-has-experienced-both/?utm_source=twitter

Pesky discrimination laws but I agree. At the Mon Chalet they make single guys rent rooms so on the weekends when it gets busy rooms get full and couples get shafted.

You that fragile bro?

International Day To End Violence Against Sex Workers. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Day_to_End_Violence_Against_Sex_Workers https://www.huffingtonpost.com/katherine-koster/16-facts-about-sexual-ass_b_8711720.html "reminder on #InternationalDayToEndViolenceAgainstSexWorkers that not all violence is physical. attacking our livelihood and our lifestyle; criticising our choices, our intelligence, and our autonomy; attempting to shame us and destroy our spirit . . . this too is violence."

Hatchimals!

https://www.phoenixx.me/resources There is another more comprehensive list that's floating around out there but I can't find it. Also if anyone is interested I have a cheat sheet for Eros pricing as is varies drastically from place to place.

http://reason.com/blog/2017/12/12/federal-sex-ad-ban-passes-judiciary https://judiciary.house.gov/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/BILLS-115hr1865ih.pdf Being without net neutrality really does screw us all but this is what's really going to screw up our advertising and most used sites.

I said you were the one yes out of the chorus of nos. If 8 people said don't drink the poison but one person said drink the poison what would you do?

You just called pussy that does that fast food drive thru. Maybe if one is really trying to be jolly the should not be judgmental when telling people to not do that very thing.

Since you seem to lack the reading skills, it's been covered many times on this board that the BP ads are not by choice. So I guess what you're wanting is for us to full on incriminate ourselves with explicit advertising so it's easier for you? Why does anyone need to explicitly advertise when we have reviews anyways? The cycle of information falls on you guys too. There was one reply in favor of FS QV, one and I wouldn't take his word, everyone else had the same sentiment. QV are not they way to get to know a provider and way more often than not they are not FS. It's not a rip-off to only get a HJ in fifteen minutes. And what efforts are you making? All the effort for a QV is made by the provider. Same amount of time and effort spent getting ready for a client that wants to pay the cheapest rate possible. You got your answer and you didn't like it. If you want validation for your choices don't frame it as a question.

But wanting FS QV is cheap! Wanting it all while paying the very least is kind of the definition of cheap. It's especially cheap if you're asking for QVs when they're not advertised.

Maybe you found a quirk? It would not let me renew existing ads with text even with a sponsored ad. My guess is it's only a matter of time.

Just have to be careful you don't leave it open to disaster. I personally don't think vagina jokes are funny. They can be traumatizing, you would be shocked at how many people including women don't understand how their own body parts work. Even more shocking how judgmental women can be of other women when it comes to vaginas. Where's the clit jokes and the myth of the female orgasm ruined sexual mentality for women for a long time. These days shaving and squirting are the hot topics and another cause for vagina stress. The author's strong beliefs are justified, people are fools. Just read the comments, mostly from men who don't understand vaginas. "Fine. Leave. I'm sure finding a satisfactory man willing to be a doormat about your lack of hygiene will be a whole lot easier than just doing a little scrubbing down there." Comments just like that, despite the fact the the article spelled out how to properly care for a vagina and that it should have an odor just not a foul one. If in my personal dating life I found myself fucking a dude that didn't understand that vaginas have a scent I would kick him to the curb too. I am too old for nonsense like that. The Daily Mail is also a totally trashy rag.

Yup they do smell but that is not to be confused with stinky. An odorless vagina is an unhealthy vagina. The article was %100 correct I see no cause for discussion unless people want to make smelly pussy jokes.

If you switch the view to gallery mode you see pictures instead of just phone numbers.

How about in the spirit of the holidays we stop calling people who do things like use BP riff raff? Plenty of ladies around here use it and are facing some real struggles.

I guess you'll find out when you search the pictures like I suggested.

Mob has more than one meaning, she was relentlessly bullied by a mob of assholes. https://twitter.com/LexiSindel/status/938803020673925120

Advice that is. With lots of new ladies around and more season vets wanting to try new things I thought it might be useful to share some handy hooker tips! Times and trends change but I think there are definitely a few universal tips to help make business better and more professional. Two things before I get going though, one any which way you choose to run your business is valid. Some do this causally to make extra money and some do this full time the effort put into it will vary. Two, business isn't super-duper great right now. There is no trick to magically make it better but following some of these tips can help grow your business over time and make more money and meet the types of clients you want. Pick a brand. We're products like Coke or BMW they have recognizable brands and call to mind specific images and feelings. A provider's brand is their persona. Pick a persona that you're comfortable with and be consistent with it! If your brand is PSE Spitfire then Passionate GFE is a contradiction to your brand. Have a decent website. This is where your clients are going to go to learn about you, it's a space where you can be you and advertise your brand free from constraints of ad site rules. Having and maintaining a good website is professional. It shows your potential clients that you're serious and is a great way to make potential clients serious clients. You can tease them with new pictures or hook them with a witty blog post. Have standards and stick to them. You do this and the quality of your clientele increases dramatically. Join every site you feel comfortable with. Ad sites and discussion boards are almost always regional. More exposure means more business. It's also really useful to see how business is done in other areas. Join the few provider only sites there. Keep safe, informed and have a place where you can chat with other providers and ask questions without the discomfort of clients reading it. Never stop learning. Times change! This business has really evolved in my 8 years. Always room for growth and change. Don't sweat the small stuff, or the inconsequential. Keep the focus on yourself and keeping your business going. Don't get sucked into one way of doing things. There is no one right way. Remember this is work. Some days are going to be harder than others. Save money, pay taxes if you can. Admin work is just as important as getting dressed up for a date. Invest in your business. Investing in your business is investing in yourself. There is money to be made but it can't be made without you investing in yourself. There is so much I wish had done differently in the beginning but knowledge was hard to come by. I want to offer the basic building blocks. What advice do any of you other providers want to add?

Yes to this! Bellevue was fantastic for business. It's like the Denver Tech Center on steroids.

Why close it? Let the naysayers be naysayers. No one is really arguing some people just can't resist being nasty. We are all here for different reasons but one of the reasons many come here is to be informed. There aren't many places where we providers can really talk shop. The whole point of my post was to be helpful and it helped so why close it? NO offense but you seem to be more bothered by this than the participants. Providers need knowledge and we should not ask for threads that are informative to be shut down. I'm not stressed are you?

Such an expert. Are you saying they don't want to make millions anymore? They're avoiding the law and congress. They're stripping themselves of culpability. It's called adapting. All the data you need is phone number and if that's not enough search the pictures.

Bitcoin is super useful for this. Both stay anonymous and payment can't be reversed.

A rate thread. Sorry not sorry. What is up with all the cheap ass dudes? I get that life is expensive in CO but the money that clients are willing to pay these days is insulting. Given the cost of living in CO and the fact this is forever a luxury business I think rates need to go even higher. Personally I think having kind of done the math that no provider should be taking less than 200 per visit. I think one of two things needs to happen. I think all providers need to take a look at the economy around them and raise their rates or if rates continue to stagnate we need to lower expectations. Guys that travel and hobby in other areas know how good they have it here. This is a market that offers everything a guy can want at bargain basement prices. I know everyone hates the dreaded upsell but premium products should come at a premium price. Clients want a provider who is all dolled up in makeup, heels and lingerie but only wants to pay $150. Guys don't understand that all those expectations cost us money and that life is more expensive for us too. I feel like honestly that clients are purposefully fact that costs for providers have risen dramatically to protect the pathetically low rates in CO. Travel to either coast and you'll reputable providers at $300 an hour on the low end. I'm sure I'll receive all sorts of snarky replies like my last thread but if clients are insistent on things like paying taxes then they are going to have to start paying their providers more. When providers calculate their rates they need to consider everything, living costs, healthcare costs, business costs, retirement investments and actually making a profit. This is when we need to remind ourselves this a luxury business. We can't survive in 2017 almost 2018 on 2010 wages. It's unrealistic. Providers hike your rates and clients please don't think of it as a cash grab. I think we should all think of it as a well deserved and long overdue cost of living raise.

LOL you did. With your little I don't think this thread gets business and maybe she should rethink it. Differing opinions are fine but there is not one person in this thread who disagreed without making a personal comment or some sort of backhanded comment. And yes that includes you unfortunately. For being such a nice person you certainly don't care when people say nasty things about people you "don't agree with". We may not be friends but if the people here talked to you the way they talked to me I would intervene because it's grossly disrespectful.