Kyla Young

Sorry for the delayed response everyone! I was on tour and just got back last night and taking a look today. I am noticing some quirks too so I apologize for not replying sooner! Hi Danielle!!! Yes we have known each other forever!!!! That's why I knew I could respond to you and I agree with your 2nd post!! I remember back in the day, there was someone buying you dances from me and bought one of my movies I autographed. That was back when I was active in porn and I loved hanging out with you!!! I miss ya girl! Ok to the gentlemen who asked what MY opinion is on the difference between PSE and GFE. My first post on this topic went into it a little bit but I will give how I describe MY personal time and why I call myself PSE besides the obvious of being a pornstar. First it depends on which part of the country you live in as to what people consider PSE or GFE. I always bill as PSE and have run into some problems in certain locations where they consider my activities GFE. Always shocks me lol. So here goes my personal description (fantasy speaking of course ). I am a dirty talker who gets right to business. None of this sit and get to know each other, I want a cock in my mouth within 2 mins of being together. From there it just escalates. Bbbj, bbbjcim, telling you to f*** me harder and faster, squirting, multiple positions, multiple pops. Adding other partners, male and/or female. I don't kiss and don't want the have slow love-making. Of course there are many more details but to me that's basically what a PSE entails. In Texas that makes me GFE, go figure. I have known PSE's that kiss and PSE's that don't do bbbj. So it's not like the provider has to offer everything on a certain menu to qualify one way or another. I hope that answer helped, I don't want to get in trouble for being too detailed. Now to answer the question posted to me about my feelings on rate worth. For those of you old timers, you remember I had an agency that didn't have only pornstars. I had GND types too and I charged just as much for my GND girls as the pornstar girls. My rates are not that much different than non-pornstar providers here and in other cities. One of the providers I work with is more than I am and isn't a pornstar but offers both GFE and PSE. She is always telling me to raise my rates because I am worth more. I do offer certain services that most providers don't offer, so do I take that into calculation of my rates? Of course. I raised my rates back in 2012 when I started touring full time and had a few new movies come out. I changed up my services offered and really made my time like my films instead of the GFE type service. Let's say I found myself, in terms of escorting, and knew where I wanted to be. For 3 years I didn't change my rates and just recently changed to make both in and out the same, it was only a $50 difference. This was done because I don't offer incall often so paying for an upscale room has gone up and it was confusing to many to try to text in and the out rates so I made it easy and they are now equal. But again, there are many GFE providers that are the same rate as me. Maybe they feel the kissing and cuddling should be worth more than swallowing, which is completely fine. Everyone has a different thing they enjoy and are looking for. It is up to the individual provider to decide what she values her time at. Maybe she bases it off of what services she does, maybe how she looks, maybe market value. I could charge the 1600-2500 that other real pornstars do but I like to have fun and do this job. If I was that high, many of my favorite clients could only see me every 6 months instead of every month. I don't think any girl should value herself at 60-80 Or even 100. To me, that is de-valuing yourself too low. For every budget there is a provider and for every rate there is a client. i hope that answers everyone who asked if it didn't please shoot me a pm or text. Kisses!!!!

Well Nikki, As this is already been addressed when this happened back in 2012 I won't go into many of the details about why she was convicted and the court cases that occurred. But I will defend myself against your "comments" I am not lying or telling stories. I was one of the victims and I was in the courtroom on 2 seperate occasions against her. I believe I was the one who knew her personally, not you. Did she come to your house and neighborhood? Go to your children's schools? Knocking on doors giving flyers of your ads with all your personal information? It is on video! How is that being hacked??? I have enough evidence that the court went against her while I walked out and I wasn't the only one. You even called me and said you wanted to work together and not to worry you were not Angela Aspen a year after everything had happened. So unless you were one of he victims in one of her schemes or turned into authorities like many of us were, by her, then you don't know what you are talking about. Those people who knew her, in person, know how she talks and writes and you are saying that her church and her personal Facebook were both hacked by someone who knows exactly how she talks and personal info on her friends? A whole church has been hacked for months??? Wow they must not have anyone who is smart enough to notice that. Before making accusations maybe you should do your research first and pick better role models. And yes I know why she turned. I stopped working with her when she did turn and that's why I became a victim too. That is a personal thing for her and I am not going to air her personal info like that, no matter what she did to me. I was there with her for months and saw the change. I was with the clients in the room with her watching it happen. I went to the psychiatrist with her when she was freaking out over what was happening and the details of that are none of your business. There are several of us who were there with her who became her victims when we refused to turn like she was. She is gone from the scene as a provider and like she was over anything she supported, she goes balls to the walls for her cause. Nothing has changed. As long as she follows the orders and stays away from me and her other victims she can do whatever she wants. If you want to test it and say she isn't working with LE please do. But as you don't know her, weren't around for the time we were together or know anything that happened during that time, please don't call me or anyone who suffered at her hand a liar. Have a fabulous day!

Ok my 2 cents from one of the other 2 porn actresses listed. First want to address Danielle Ray. Part of what you said I agreed with but not all. I worked backwards in this industry. Started in porn back in the late 90's before retiring after winning an AVN and becoming a feature entertainer and finally an escort. During the time active in porn, shooting over 200 different scenes. A lot of what you see in the final cut of a porn scene is the result of really good editing, camera tricks, and faking. It's Hollywood after all. I was in LA working in porn and had my agency when the Darren James aids scandal from anal cream-pies hit. 2 of our girls were infected. Porn in LA changed at that time and AIM (adult industry medical) made some new rules. Cream-pies were faked after that, unless it was a couple who did it together in real life. I have lots of fun stories of behind the scenes on the making of "cum". BUT disagree on the female squirt being faked because I for one can really squirt and it's NOT pee. I’ve have done it in sessions, no douche used, and after I pee'd. Clients and providers alike have witnessed it. First squirt ever was on film and you can see my genuine surprise! I have several friends who also squirt, one girl actually short-circuited my computer doing webcam. The big difference is when with a client they can experience that it is not pee because they can taste and smell it and see which hole it comes out of. Of course not all squirt scenes on camera are legit but to say that ALL are faked is incorrect. As to the difference between a real life pornstar and a regular working girl it's all in the individual experience. I have worked with providers who never made a film but do a fantastic PSE session. And appointment with a well-known pornstar that was not so hot. Being one on one BCD is totally different than being on a movie set, so if the actress doesn't really get into it, or have a real personality that will show in a session. Read reviews on the pornstar you want to experience. Many clients visit for a "bucket list" and become close friends that continue to visit because we have real fun and a PSE with a personality. If you are looking for a specific activity done in a certain movie than check if that is really offered. A lot of what we did on camera is not offered in escorting due to safety and reality. So read reviews to make sure you are getting the provider you want. Finally in regards to rate. I have received and read complaints that start from the "too cheap to be a real pornstar" to "overpriced and crazy to charge what I do" have learned that you can't please everyone. We all pick the rates we are comfortable at for whatever reason. I am picky and with my resume, can charge on the higher side but I want to have fun and don't go the outrageous 1600-2500/hr that a lot of porn girls do. Regardless of if you pick a regular provider who offers an amazing PSE or a real life pornstar with fantastic reviews. As long as you do your research and pick what YOU want you will have fun! Just don't go in with high expectations! Have fun experiencing all types of PSE girls!

I debated responding but since almost every client asks me about her I will make a comment. Let me start off by saying, I don't post often and am not a provider that bad mouths others and those of you who know me, know how much this woman has tried to destroy me. The snitch part is true. Ask the many clients and providers that were turned in by her while she laughed. Just read her Facebook page and linkedin profile. She states she is working with police to stop the sex business. Works with Hilton hotels to bust girls. She is open about it. For those of you that know the hell I went thru along with the others, you already know my feelings on getting her sentence reduced by turning on others. But she is gone and good riddance. Zealous to bad mouth even her best friend on Facebook as a sex trafficker. She was crazy, and not quiet about that, while in the biz, that hasn't changed. Just the side she is playing for. I feel sorry for her. She is still the same person and will garner a cult following no matter what side she chooses. She is not happy and doesn't like to see others who are. Thank you to everyone who called and pm'd me to make sure I was staying safe with her out and back in view. I am always cautious and back to traveling but she won't drive me away from my native home town.

I might be wrong but I think a few months ago there was thread posted about which chains were working with LE to stop human trafficking. Some of the upscale hotel chains were on there. Marriott for one, does work with LE and there is a specific location in Denver that LE run stings out of. Always a good idea to stick to the nicer places that have more traffic with conferences and more guests coming and going but make sure to have a believable story ready if checking in and questioned, for any reason. I have a "real" job that if I did full time would require me to travel and I carry business cards with me and my portfolio. So far I have been lucky in that regard.

Unfortunately this is a "client" and I use that term very loosely who has done things of this sort to multiple providers. He is listed on the blacklist sites. The only providers who follow thru on the appts without getting the money are girls that are either new or don't screen by checking the boards. He has several MO's and I'm sure many other providers recognized by her post who this was. A lot of us were just out the drive and time to and from ft Collins and didn't do the appt due to no payment up front or whatever reason. I'm so sorry this happened but the best thing I can tell you is now you know. Screen screen screen. Join the blacklist sites, google guys numbers to see if they are listed on bad boy sites you aren't a member of. We can't weed them all out but do the best you can. Spread the word, add to the reports and then move on. There really isn't any recourse you can do. He will get his eventually. He will mess with the wrong provider who has a nasty pimp backing her up but until then new girls and established providers are subject to him and others like him. Be safe!

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Yes it would make it legal as long as the 2257 and model releases were filled out. A copy of drivers license and/or birth certificate is also required by law to prove age of legal consent. When I owned and operated Vapor Industries, Colorado's largest adult modeling agency (not escorts all legal porn actresses and actors) we had to make sure the actors took 2 forms of identification and current test papers. Current tests were required even with the use of condoms. Not sure if that is still the norm but this was back in the late 90's early 00's. I do know of several providers that offer this service but all charge the going porn rates since it is unknown what would happen with the video. Not all ask for the paperwork to be done. That would be up to you. On a side note, if done without the proper paperwork, it is considered illegal (at least it was in California) I have a friend who allowed a client to film their session and it was a fetish session. No paperwork was done and somehow the film ended up with the police. My friend was arrested for prostitution. This was several years ago and in California. I don't remember the outcome but she did plea down. For this reason most don't post it as a service available on their sites so I would just ask if filming would be possible, what the rate would be and if you are going to have the 2257's or not. Some providers might film but not be willing to give a copy of their ID or real info. But that is up to the individual. Hope you find what your looking for and have tons of fun in the process! Kisses, Kyla

My business principal is the same as Abigails. Whoever schedules a time first is given priority. As I am now mainly available only when on tour, my time is limited and I know my clients plan ahead to make sure they can make the time they scheduled. It doesn't matter if its a hh or a 2 hr appt. I don't bump anyone for "a better deal" My clients around the country know I don't ever cancel appts unless it is something outside my realm of control, ie my flight being delayed. But that rarely ever happens as I make sure I book for when I know I will be available. Abigail we are in the minority with this notion of "1st booked 1st served" and not bumping anyone for anyone. And I agree with Holly. Getting pre-screened always helps so that is out of the way and won't delay any making the scheduled time you need. If you need a specific time make sure the provider knows that at the time of scheduling so she is aware that if she does bump you, that won't work on your end and you won't be able to reschedule. Providers also should not book if they know they can't make that time. Be honest if not 100% sure, say lets tenatively agree to that time but confirm at such and such a time to make sure we're good to go. Things do happen, on both sides, but communication is always the key to a happy business and/or personal relationship. I always give people the benefit of the doubt, first. RW stuff pops up and sometimes one of the 2 parties cannot do it no matter what. Its not a reflection on the other party, unless this is an ongoing behavior. Sorry for your run of bad luck but keep trying and don't give up! Just my .02

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CRYSTAL!!!! You are such a sweetheart and another pisces! I hope you have a wonderful day and all your dreams cum true today! MUAH Kisses, Kyla

Happy Birthday sexy lady!!! Best month to be born in!! Hope you have a fantastic day and all your dreams come true today! MUAH! Kyla

Hope you had a very happy birthday Velvet!!! Muah!

Thank you guys and gals so much!! I did have a wonderful day! Got to enjoy myself Big kisses and hugs!! MUAH!! Kyla

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Given all of the LE activity lately, more providers are requiring current okays. This also depends on the state you are traveling too. I am a touring provider and run into the exact same problems when I travel (in reverse) Guys have said in the past I didn't have a review in the last 3 months so they wouldn't book me. Like I would have changed that much in 3 months, but it works both ways. Many providers honor okay's and references up to a year, after that you run a risk of them not being accepted. If there is a provider you really want to see and she wants current okay's explain that you have references, that are not on p4 or they haven't given you an ok, but are more recent and see if that works. You can also contact some providers who you've seen and ask for an okay or for them to make their ok current on your profile. Or unfortunately you might have move on to a different provider. On the ad boards if you hover your mouse over the provider it tells you what her requirements are for booking, look for a girl who doesn't need okays. Good luck on your trip! I hope you find an amazing provider and have fun

There are lots of ways to verify a client, depending on the provider. Most may ask for personal info but I know several of us that offer non-invasive ways to verify. Of course if those don't work then yes we start to need more info but check around and ask if newbie friendly or look on their ads. In these days of social media its much easier to see if you are legit and normal. Some screening can even be done behind the scenes and you never know you got verified without giving up anything. Google is an amazing tool.

I say ask the provider. I quit smoking 16 months ago yesterday and have been happy ever since but I still have old reviews and such from smoking fetish guys that say I do. I have had some disappointed clients when they find out I haven't touched a cigarette in over a year. I don't mind if the client wants to smoke and if that's part of the session he wants, but I would rather be asked to avoid the disappointment when they find out I quit and have no intention to start back up. If the provider is a professional she should have no problem telling you the truth about it as you will find out anyway when you meet. Just my 2 cents

No this is not for real. Thanks for the benefit of the doubt....you know who you are... For those that know me and what has been going on for the last 10 months, this is just another ploy to try and ruin my business. Backpage has been contacted and told to remove this ad. I have over 100 reviews and 10 are from the last month alone stating I am legit. How do I have them from this week if I am working with LE and I haven't advertisied in Colorado in months. Everyone knows I have a hater who tends to post stuff about me whenever they want. PM if questions Kisses, Kyla

So sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family.

Have a very happy birthday Velvet!!! Kisses Kyla

Hi everyone! Thank you Destiny and everyone else who chimed in for my birthday. I had a wonderful day I appreciate all of you and thank you all so much!!! Kisses, Kyla

LOL I wish! She has a review that says she is early 20's. I would give my left arm to be in my early 20's lol and I'm a blondie, [snip] But thanks for the compliment!

Similar experience here. I went on an outcall to see a quadriplegic and his nurse answered the door. She also sat right outside the room for the whole time and when I went to leave was the one who paid me. Talk about freaked out! Tell a provider in advance that there will be a woman involved either on the phone or in person. I'm with Destiney on this one! Kisses, Kyla

I think the first thing that needs to be said is this is a dangerous hobby for both client and provider. Before one gets involved in this hobby you should decide if its the way you want to go and be aware of the risks that come with it. That being said.... I look at the blacklist for 2 things: LE and safety. 1st is pretty obvious, years ago I could have avoided being caught if I had looked on the blacklist sites as the cop who go me was on there as LE. 2nd is the safety concern. Now we all know a few bad apples will be vindictive or selfish or whatever and post false reports, however the professional providers do take into consideration how many reports, by how many providers and what the "crimes" were. Most reports are just timewaster or ncns'er. Those I book no problem knowing they might not show up. More serious crimes include, [ snip ] robbery, injury etc. Those I will read and will use my best judgement or maybe his references ok'd him and determine if I will see him. If its something simple like shorted a girl, I might ask for donatiom and count it first. But all reports are taken as Destiney said with a grain of salt. As clients you can decide who you want to see based on your own way of screening. You also have the power to write reviews and decide if you want to continue to see her or not. If you stick with the good reviewed providers, talk with other hobbyiests here on good referrals, and do your homework then you won't need to worry about vindictive girls. But you have to treat the providers right too. Cancel if you can't make it, pay donation in full and be respectful of her time and limitations you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Kyla

I was going to say something cute in here but don't want to get in trouble for taking this thread somewhere it shouldn't.......like the bedroom lol Kisses to Jake (I have honors in other "subjects" too) Jennifer you rock! I totally agree and I'll meet you behind the Fantasy section where we can write an awesome book together I hear you and I would totally have fun and be un-intimidating together! But back to the OP subject at hand...see you guys forgot all about being intimidated when you get to know the real US. All escorts are fun, out-going girls or we couldn't be in this line of work. So no need to be nervous or intimidated, we are just your everyday bookworms! kisses Kyla