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It's definitely worse for the ladies when this happens since they are losing money but I feel your pain. Maybe we should have a place to post time wasters both provider and clients. Maybe then this shit will stop.

No, unfortunately its been several ladies. Maybe it's just me but I feel like people are getting more flaky in general and not just here.

Sorry to hear that. Must be something in the water making people flaky these days. I haven't been able to make an appointment with a lady in 2 months. I either never hear anything back or they string me along all day and a few hours before the appointment they say they can't make it.

I am younger than 45 and it doesn't always happen in an hour. I would rather spend time on foreplay and take it slow then go for two shots anyways but many providers seem to want to jump on right away and get it over quickly. Most of the time they want to talk for the rest of the hour but some will go for another round. I have found that in order to achieve the second shot there has to be some compatibility, wetness and passion. With out these it won't happen. Acting like you are playing wack a mole doesn't work and that's what usually happens. Even when it doesn't happen I don't leave feeling frustrated. It always fun trying for round 2. I would rather spend time trying for round then talking.

In my experience it usually doesn't mean anything special, just that the next appointment will go on as normal without the problems that the other had. Only once has a provider done something special, she offered to give me a free session but I didn't feel like that was totally fair so we agreed on half.

I prefer recent armature photos. They are a much better representation of who is going to actually open the door. I'm always a tad disappointed when the provider opens the door and all I have seen are the professional photos. The photos are always way over processed.

This is a much better place because it is anonymous and even close friends may not be trustworthy. I have one friend that I could tell but I won't because he has a big mouth and doesn't think before he speaks. He wouldn't intentionally say anything to out me but it could easily slip out. I have another friend that is very religious and would out me to my wife and then beg me to attend church with him. Nobody knows about this and I intend to keep it that way for now. That might change when my wife divorces me because then it won't matter as much.

I agree with the OP. I don't think I have looked at any of the 411s since they moved. I think it makes more sense to have them in the State section. I don't really care about the ones from other states. I kind of liked looking at them when they were in the Colorado section. I didn't feel like it cluttered it up.

I would never use a credit card or any type of electronic payment for an illegal activity. It leaves too much of a trail behind. I went to a mostly cash system for most of my everyday purchases because of the hassle of credit/debit cards. My CC numbers were getting stolen a few times a year and I got sick of having to prove it wasn't me using the card. Now I only use them for emergencies.

P411 has been worth it for me. I have never been asked to provide other references. There are providers on P411 that are newbie friendly and may not require any references outside of P411.

It's not a fantasy I have ever had and never thought about it or tried it. I wouldn't be flexible enough anyways.

That is just plain stupid. I'm not about to fuck a guy but that doesn't make me a homophobe. I just prefer women. There are many reasons a lady can refuse to see a guy and it doesn't mean she is a bad person. Just that she has her preferences and it shouldn't be a big deal.

Usually it's one and done. I can count the number of ladies I have seen more than 5 times on one hand.

I think the admins did a good job of taking care of major issues quickly. My two gripes about the site were fixed within a week and now I kinda like it. Thanks for the upgrade. It was needed.

My worst hobby date was my very first one. Luckily all the rest have been good. I get there on time and she texts me and she is running 10 minutes behind so I pull into the hotel's parking garage to wait. 10 minutes goes by and no text. After another 10 minutes she texts and she needs a few more minutes. This goes on for another 45 minutes. It's my first experience so by now I'm really nervous and contemplating leaving but I head in anyway. I get in the door and she starts nervously rambling about an issue with her babysitter and is basically killing the mood. She offers me a Redbull and Vodka to calm us both down. I take it cause at this point I really need it but I'm not sure that's that right drink to calm someone down. We drink our drinks while getting to know each other and she was telling me her whole life story and all kinds of weird shit that has happened to her. She then excuses herself to the restroom to get ready but she first hands me her laptop and pulls up a video of her sucking her husbands dick so that I can get comfortable. Not really what I wanted to watch, a porn would have been better. I'm thinking about bolting but too nervous so I continue to watch her video. I hear all kinds of sounds coming from the bathroom, it sounds like she is furiously chopping up onions in there and things are banging around. 20 minutes later she comes out looking pretty good so I'm thinking this might get better. She wants to give me a message first so I roll over and she starts giving me a dry back message that is really terrible. As she is messaging me her words are getting more and more slurred and she starts nodding off. I thought she was going to pass out on me at least 3 times. Then all of a sudden she apparently woke up and she starts getting all hyper. She flips me over, throws a condom on at lighting speed, hops on cowgirl and just starts jumping up and down on me. I come as quick as I can and get out of there as fast as I can. It was 3 months before I was brave enough to try someone else. I'm glad I decided to try again.

I haven't noticed an increase in spam with the account I use for TOB.

I'm a fan of a casual look. Tight jeans and a sexy tank top work for me.

Friday and Saturday evenings are the only times I can get away. I wish i could do weekdays, i would definitely have more options.

IMHO it's not a very good right now but I'm optimistic that it will get better. I don't mind the $20 per year. I think that's reasonable but I'd never go for a monthly subscription. I'm also not going to give up my credit card in either case so hopefully they come up with some payment options that are completely private like P411 has. I'm don't want to get caught up in anything like Ashley Madison.

Yes, it is a turn off. In a pinch I might still book but I've always picked another lady instead.

^^ This ^^ I can usually MSOG in an hour but that isn't my preference. I'd rather just one shot and fill the rest of the time foreplay. I love the touch of a woman and touching. If I was just looking for just an orgasm I would stay home and take matters into my own hands.

I don't use social media in my private and I wouldn't use it here either. There is no such thing as privacy or security when when using computers in general but social media just exacerbates that.

I agree it is absurd but LE doesn't care about hand jobs. They are tasked with upholding the law. IMHO we should stop blaming LE. They put their lives on the line everyday to keep everyone safe. Right or wrong it is the majority of society that thinks this activity is wrong and we would need to convince society as a whole and law makers that it isn't to get anything changed. The pot heads did it so not sure why couldn't except for the fact no one wants to be associated with prostitution.

No, reviews are good enough for me but your examples are why I use a burner phone and will not give out any personal info. Even with my favorites that I've known for years I do not share anything personal. Unfortunately you just never know what someone is capable of when things don't go their way or when times are tough. I don't want to be part of any drama.

There have been ads posted stating no fat guys. It's all about preferences and they can choose to see or not see anyone for any reason. It's not a big deal. you're not going to get an answer anyways so just move on to someone else.