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I've been slowly wheedling my way into the community. It seems OK to me. I just started out by complimenting people and telling them they were right. They eat that junk up!

I totally agree. Nothing's perfect. Back when I was just doing research--before I took the plunge--I read an article or blog post that stated 11 reviews was the magic number to look for. The author figured that a provider with that many reviews must be legit. It's just an arbitrary number, but it's but it's a guideline. I don't necessarily stick to that number, but I do my research. I make sure the phone number isn't obviously an LE #, check pics to be sure they are only used in one place at a time and that they appear to belong to the provider I'm researching, read reviews and forum posts, and check out email addresses. Thank God for search engines.

Near the top of the page you're reading, there's a link entitled "Reviews." Click on it. All snark aside, though, that seems to be the best way to avoid misadventure. If enough reviews have been posted about a provider, then there's a good chance you will be safe. I also feel that reading posts will give me some insight into a person. There is at least one lady that I plan to visit in the future based almost exclusively on her forum posts.

If a provider remembers me well enough to contact me, I will be a happy man. ...wishing I had your problems...

Hey Lucy, I like that you keep a record so you can look it up and remember who I am. I'm a good guy, but an infrequent hobbyist and you would probably need something to remind you of who I am and how I treated you (and hopefully how much you also enjoyed the session as well ). I'm just curious about what you do with that info. Are you old-school, just jotting things down on paper? Do you have a spreadsheet somewhere? Do you just leave it on your computer's desktop or do you use some kind of encryption to keep it safe? I'm really curious about security practices used in this industry. There are some really powerful tools out there that we should all use, but I don't think many of us do.

I use Google Voice, but it's a pain. I don't install the GV app because it integrates too much with my phone. Instead, I use the web application. Sometimes I miss texts or they won't send and call quality isn't great. Since I'm an infrequent hobbyist, I accept the inconvenience. I definitely wouldn't run my business with it, though. Whatsapp recently implemented end-to-end encryption, so your calls and text messages can't be intercepted. Unfortunately, it's not a real phone #. I has to be linked to your phone and you can only call/text other Whatsapp members. Still, if enough people start using it, it's an excellent option. I've also tried sideline and burner apps. Both work well for calls, text, and SMS (pics/video). Sideline is free as long as you don't mind the ads. Burner will cost you.

That was too easy.

Thanks for adding my area! Now I have to figure out how to get the word out. The main board out there will quash my post if it's about a competitor.

I have one question about this. What if we schedule a 2 hour session for our first date and we don't click? Maybe your looks don't work for me (You would have to grossly misrepresented for this to be the problem, but I know it happens to people from time to time) or maybe your personality is my polar opposite (e.g. you only talk about the last tractor pull you attended). From your postings here, you seem like you would be pretty fun to hang out with, so it probably wouldn't be an issue. But what if it is? You at least can be comfortable with the fact that you're receiving the two hour rate, but I'm out both the time and the money. So, in this example it really is like an interminable real (bad) first date. ;-) This really more hypothetical than anything. I'm just wondering what you think.

Hi everyone, I've come across a couple of really perfect providers on P411, but they seem to be completely unreviewed. I was wondering what sort of screening, if any, providers go through. Is simply paying for a provider account enough or is there more to it? It's one of those places that feels pretty safe, but I really don't know for sure. Thanks!

I'm from MN. Hate to see him gone. Nearly lost it over my lunch.

Understood. Ass sufficiently covered. Seriously, though, I really appreciate your input. It's pretty awesome to get information from the source. I'm glad you're here and that you participate in the discussion. Many thanks.

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90 minutes is my fave--at least with a provider I really like. To me, a one hour minimum makes the provider feel more upscale. I know it's just perception, but it's still where my mind goes. If I'm booking 30 minutes, my expectations are pretty low--not quite a BNG, but I know there's not much time to get to know each other. If I'm booking an hour or longer, I expect more conversation and mutual fun. With a good provider, an hour is never long enough. It leaves me wanting more, which is why it's a good minimum. I will only book 90 minute appointments with providers who I know I enjoy spending time with. If we don't click, 90 minutes can be interminable, but if it's someone I like we are left more time to explore each other--mentally, physically, emotionally--finding all the little sensitive spots and working them just the right way. It makes for a very nice time. I've never booked longer than 90, but with the right provider a 3-4 hour frolic would be heavenly; fun interspersed with lazy little breaks where we just lie there in a tangle enjoying our time together. Damn, I need to go make some calls now...

I agree with you 100%. Beauty, like humor, is totally subjective. My idea of a perfect 10 is probably completely different from anyone else here and, to be honest, the experience can change my opinion of a person's looks.

I would also like Chase to be able to post in Minneapolis. If population matters, the Minneapolis / St. Paul metro area has 3.28 million people of the entire state of Minnesota has over 5 million. If not that, then maybe "Upper Midwest" region would work. The official US Census definition includes Michigan and Illinois, which have their own bustling populations and would probably muddy the waters. But if you batched MN, the Dakotas, Iowa, and Wisconsin, that probably wouldn't be too bad. There's probably a name for that grouping out there somewhere.

Ditto on the neck kisses. As a matter of fact, any kisses. Kisses starting at the ears and working their way down my back pretty much takes my breath away. Mix it with some light fingernail scratching and I'll be squirming and ready for action. For me, though, I'm pretty much at attention the moment the little soldier knows he's going to battle.

I prefer to partake of my beer separate from my vaginas, thank you. Each has its own nature that must be savored to the fullest. ...and now I'm thirsty.

You're 100% right. If you're not comfortable, move on. Stay happy and stay safe. There are many more guys out there who will respect your time. I'm sure I've raised providers' hackles in the past by saying something dumb. It happens. If you can, just let us down easy. Maybe we'll be back once we've learned a thing or two.

Brilliant and simple. I honestly hadn't even thought of that.

Nailed it!

I'm sorry, but that does not compute with me. I'm a good mid-western boy. We don't ever ask for anything. Instead, we just hope really really hard and if we don't get what, we get all passive-aggressive and talk behind people's backs while we act like everything's OK. It's the real "Minnesota nice."

That's really an excellent suggestion. Little touches like this can show consideration for us clients and elevate the experience. I had one provider undress me, fold my clothes, and put them on the dresser before we began. I want that again.

I hobby in the Denver area infrequently when I travel. Before a trip, I googled something like "Denver escorts review" and eventually found my way here. It was probably on the second or third page of results (I like to explore). It seems like a good community.

If I book an hour, I expect an hour. I approach this hobby with the idea that I'm paying for time and nothing else. I am spending some money to spend an hour with a lovely woman who I hope will make me to feel great--physically, emotionally, or both. I go in with no expectations (but with very high hopes!) other than that. So far I've rarely been disappointed. If I shower when I arrive, that's part of the time I scheduled. It only takes a couple minutes. If I'm clean and respectful, a good provider will usually work with me and add more time than I took in the shower. By expecting nothing more than my scheduled time, I'm showing respect for her time and by doing so I usually earn her respect as well. This changes the visit from a simple transaction into a partnership, which can be much more satisfying.