Denvertara

*sigh* "blows my credibility all to hell" I didn't know I was gaming for that . Again : I posted information which only shows how far behind we are with this.. another man defending a man instead of saying to himself " Gee I wonder if this woman might have experience with this sorta thing -- maybe I should " listen " and take what I can from it . . instead of just posting out of defense. And yes he most certainly compared me to " fuckery " or a scam artist or a cop" -- what else did he mean?? lol Trust me : if providers could have their way : almost without a doubt most "clients" would be blackballed for one reason or another. I appreciate your concern about my profession and how you think about it - just as I wonder lots of other things I probably wouldn't post publicly here.

I think my response proves just how ridiculous men can act.... And how far they will stretch things to make themselves defensive My post was to remind gentleman that safety is a concern because I've NEVER heard a man lose his children from a solicitation arrest.. and althere are amazing people you can meet from everywhere if you're open enough to it. Like men are most unhappy to "toftt". Like any intelligent provider would" take an assault robbery or rape" - just talking one for all the other providers out there- ya know without screening or speaking to the potential client first. We could treat this like adults and have the respect real providers want (if) our laws change. But that would require the most amazing thing: a man to just listen without having to respond out of pure defiance On a side note: if you're personally calling me out as scam artist or working with law enforcement I must unfortunately inform you the providers in this industry are most definitely in touch with one another as I so lightly had put it before" I don't think most men would want to be labeled a bad/dangerous or" difficult" client" but most certainly we will take action when the occasion calls for it .And that most certainly is the way it always will be

Yes of course, some things go without saying: screening goes a long way. If you can't connect through a phone conversation - then it probably wouldn't be a good fit in person. My only intention of this last thread was to illustrate how the risk is dangerous for the woman no matter what. The most intense screening process can never and will never predict the out come of a session or the mood of the client and how things could drastically change for the worst. Now is there to say a provider couldn't be a "trick roll " ( Showing up to the appointment only with intention of robbing or threatening ) sure that's out there. Which will in fact put you and your life at risk of serious danger. She could have an "enforcer" or "pimp " ready to cause harm. All possible.. just like I could screen and have complete background information about the client and still end up on the cover of the Denver Post ( that whole pesky physical strength thing again ) I wouldn't want to be associated with someone who robs and steals in this industry just as you wouldn't want to be labeled a difficult or bad client. I would hate to dwell on the what if's . I again share your view that this shouldn't be such a hush hush process.. everything having to be done in secret .. I agree that Colorado in particular has a great many options for cool people. We're very lucky that way -- variety of people with lots to offer. The internet is a tricky thing to convey voice, gets lost sometimes. I don't mean to single you out in a bad way, I want you to hear where a lot of women might be coming from when it comes to what is shared publicly and what isn't . For example I have shared all this information or opinion on the matter and I would expect to hear both jeers and cheers about whats been said. The only thing that would bother me is if someone truly couldn't listen to another idea or view. You may never convince someone to see things the exact way you can - but you'll never gain wisdom if you choose to be deaf. The conversation should always be fluid and ever changing

Are you really comparing a professional roofer for a repair service to a woman providing a sensual service? I mean you just did - maybe you've missed whats being conveyed here entirely: I can shorten it so its easier to digest for ya: The point of this response was to inform the gentleman new or inexperienced to this hobby that information available on the internet can and will be a safety issue of what law enforcement uses against women in this industry . I don't see any roofer under any circumstances carrying risk of losing their children because of information they share about their business online. Now if you prefer and will only see providers with reviews and established websites and a history of web presence, please by all means, no one should tell you what to do . I would feel slightly disappointed as a client, limiting myself to what possibilities are available. To recap: if the woman doesn't fit into category a, b , or c not worth my time. If that's the way you feel then absolutely that's the way it is.

LOL Thanks darling

I guess I'm always intrigued to hear about how you have to fit perfectly into the "community" or announce yourself at all times- otherwise you're a cop or a scam artist correct? A woman ( possibly a professional or in the public spot light) wouldn't dream of keeping herself under the radar, no personal website, no reviews and no internet web presence especially if she did have a public life or maybe a "family". She's not legit if she doesn't put everything about her out there for all to see and hear. Hornyoldtoad- Have you seen the news lately? Maybe all the gentlemen need to be reminded what this is exactly: this is a very risky unsafe venture that not only costs the women involved their freedom, a huge amount of money but it costs them their children and family and her life with the wrong encounter with the wrong client . I encourage you to look up the laws and jurisdiction regarding the penalties and consequences for women ( men HARDLY ever have anything further then a fine and some community service. I think they attempted a few years back to introduce a "johns school" to educate men on the "dangers" of perpetuating prostitution or solicitation.) I never hear about a man losing his children because he engaged with a prostitute or attempted to solicit a prostitute. Have you ever heard about that? Id be interested if you could share that information here with the community May I also remind you of the facts that law enforcement and other agencies ( the ones " protecting our children from trafficking) use reviews, ads, pictures your "web presence" against you for any crimes they accuse you of? Having a picture with a review and a phone number is a slam dunk a good days work for a vice cop. Sucks that there's some scammers out there . Sucks that there's some women who don't " Do" everything or provide the exact services you're looking for.. Sucks that we cant have explicit reviews discussing every gritty detail about the session and what you either perversely coerced the provider to do beyond her boundaries or what she was able to do for you, those activities you've always wanted to engage in but could never find the "right partner" Sucks mostly , that we consistently hear about how " rough and tough " it is for men to find the "right and perfect " provider. It goes both ways : men don't' want to provide their names ( please come visit me in a private setting under these circumstances and not even share that basic of information ) They refuse to share information and if you are in any way personal or sound like you're educated on the phone - you're a cop. Sucks that men constantly want a "deal" -- " Oh darling, you're a new provider without any reviews - how about a discount this time? I'll be HAPPY to write a review about our time together and help YOU get started " What really sucks, is how whiny it sounds when men complain about the provider wasn't" this" and the incall was "shitty" she didn't look like her photos- or whatever childish thing men have to say. These women here are amazing! the touring providers, the newbies who just started, the veterans who know how to be the best courtesan .. because of course they have transcended above the "average"woman who isn't sexually liberated, or comfortable doing the extraordinary. Sucks that men can be so small minded to feel that just because a woman doesn't fit into category a b or c -- she must not be worth your time or not be a legit provider. She has no established reviews =cop. Shes from out of state=cop. She doesn't participate in discussions on the board= cop. Or my personal favorite line from a potential client :" You look waay too good.. You must be a cop . Thanks but no thanks officer" Sucks we aren't completely accepting of this lifestyle, career, hobby whatever it may be to anyone here in the U.S. Too bad we can't have open and transparent and allow things to transpire safely for both the provider and the gentleman.. Please tell me again how a provider is bone vide?

- So what you're really saying is after you briefly spoke with a lady, via email, and complimented her on her looks and she merely responded politely to you- that means shes a cop? .. hmm and your "friend" said he was suspicious-- you mean the one who referred you to her.. solid law enforcement for sure.

I got a request for an out call to Wash Park area and encountered a dangerous client . Very Scare situation Lady's and lady's only please Message me.

Thank you - I certainly hope to talk some fun with members!

Hello all-- I'm new to the board-- wanted to formally introduce myself and say hi to everyone. Hi everyone!