HollyMarie

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  4. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Strange_Ice said:

    I would take a trip to Florida and visit universal studios, Disney World and go to the beach with my niece and everyone.... Would also give me a chance to visit a good friend from highschool that moved out there 😊

    I love Disney as an adult, it's so much fun. Plus DoleWhips. Oh god, now I want a corndog and a Dole Whip. 

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    Just now, ilovewomen said:

    I would definitely take a friend.  I think a place in ththe beach with nightlife would be fantastic. And if she preferred to go somewhere else, then I would more than happy to go there.

    Spending time with my friend is what would make a perfect vacation.

    I totally agree I love going on trips with my friends. Sharing an experience together is far more fulfilling. 

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    13 hours ago, Bullseye73 said:

    I like original NES, all types of music, I can’t dance but I can impersonate having a seizure in the kitchen, I have a Twinkie maker and I’d let you take me anywhere, as long as I can ride in the front seat.  Does any of that count!?  

    First of all, how do I get my hands on a Twinkie maker? It seems like an item I need to quest for and receive only after slaying a dragon or driving trolls out of a nearby village. 

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    3 hours ago, JRWolfe said:

           Seems like I've been receiving more  press releases about upcoming industry conventions than ever.Several new ones are popping up in unique places,not just Vegas .  

    Thank god for that, Vegas is so busy and distracting. I’m excited for all the places that’s aren’t LA and Vegas. 

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    13 minutes ago, Gregorysymph said:

    Respect is the key. One of the best ways that you can show respect to a provider is to read her ad and do what she asks. I wouldn't say the methods are erratic- different girls have different screening methods that they are comfortable with. Almost every girl on TOB lists in her ad what will be required to make an appointment with her. If a guy can't comply with what she needs to feel comfortable then he should move on and keep reading. If you're legitimate you will be able to find a girl whose screening process you can pass, it may be as simple as sending her a pm on here or calling from an unblocked number. It's obvious every girl on this site can see through a line of B.S., so that won't help in setting up a meeting. I usually wait till after we have met before I start telling her how great and important I am, most of the girls on here are too nice to tell me I'm full of shit to my face.

    You are 100% spot on. Thank you, Gregory 

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  17. Posted

    On 9/4/2017 at 6:44 PM, MarieMikals said:

    Adding music to a session is wayyyy better than the white noise background!   +1 for playlists.  I like Ryan Adams, Dave Matthews, Jack Johnson, Miles Davis, Sade.  Anything too chill like birds chirping and magical sounds make me want to eat a bullet 🙃

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    lol I know what you mean. I like the artists you named, it's a good genre to play during sessions. It keeps it light and comfortable. 

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  19. Posted

    3 minutes ago, SultryKitten said:

    News flash, P411 should never be the only screening a lady does. If she is strictly using this as a means then she is not being 100% safe. Just because we can see your requirements and all of your OK's does not make it okay for a lady to still see you. Not every John that calls is a fit for every Jane that works. There is much more to screening than you clients know or realize to determine if we will see you. Everyone needs to quit relying on one thing only to do this business.

    xoxo,

    Samantha Sheppard

     

    I agree with that completely, I always follow up on references. I had a client who gave me only 1 reference (I require two), he called me 20 minutes after he sent a form because he didn't think I needed to follow up on the references. I told him, I always follow up, every person, every time. 

    People who want us to compromise on our safety blow my mind. If someone is willing to be lax on their screening standards chances are they will compromise on other safety measures. Clients are putting themselves at risk doing that. smh. 

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  20. Posted

    2 hours ago, AnthointheAM said:

    Serious question: Would it be okay to refer you to P411 or TOB if I had shared my okays or references with you on one of those platforms? Or do you want references typed into your screening form?

    Totally agree that the idiots that say "don't have any" are self-screening out by not reading requirements!

    Yeah, P411 takes all the noise out of it and TOB lets you share references and I can choose from any of those. They have the option of giving me their p411 username or TOB, they just have to send a message from that account to cross confirm. 

    It's when they don't have any or think I will compromise on my screening process altogether. If I desire information for screening it's for safety, not complying is silly and a waste of time. 

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  21. Posted

    2 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

    Yes, that's what your website says. References (and you allow three different types) are non-negotiable. I have no problem with your screening requirements.

    But that's not what your post said, which is what I responded to. Based on your post, he filled the field just not with the information you wanted. 

    Yeah, but why would anyone fill out a field with incorrect information and expect to get anything productive done? 

    If a reference section is required that means, it must be filled out correctly. Why would it be okay for someone to ignore a section's instructions and put whatever they wanted? Wouldn't it be easier to just a) follow the instructions or b ) go somewhere where the requirements are different? 

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  22. Posted

    2 hours ago, pfunk said:

    If you look at Holly's "contact me" form, it clearly states a guy must have references, or P411 with OKs. He ignored that completely. Why are you defending him?

    Thank you for sticking up for me. 
    I don't know why "references required" means that someone can choose not to fill it out. It's simple enough to move on to a different provider instead of giving me an incomplete contact form. 

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  23. Posted

    5 hours ago, Bit Banger said:

    A required field means that he must fill the field. He did, perhaps honestly. What did you want him to do? Make up false references, wasting your time as you chase them down?

    References are required, so if he didn't have any he could have moved on to a different provider who doesn't require references instead. 

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  24. Posted

    On 8/31/2017 at 11:08 PM, MyraGold said:

    Thank you ladies for sticking to your guns and screening. Our safety is not negotiable.

    Thank you! 

    I've been getting a lot of people being so stingy with the references or screening information. One guy filled out the form on my site and under the reference section (which is required) he put "don't have any". 

    What about "required" made it sound optional? 

    I will never compromise on my safety or the safety of my clients. I wish they understood that and just move on if they don't have the information I need for screening. smh. 

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