Plot
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Could someone pm the ad to me. I’m incredibly curious.
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Unions are BAD! Because Our Employers Say So!
Plot replied to sparkey600's topic in • General-Discussions...
Labor History is what I focused on for my degree. I can assure you that people said much the same thing until the introduction in the National Labor Relations Act in 1935. The National Assn. of Manufacturers and the US Chamber of Commerce immediately began trying to defang this legislation, but it still improved the lot of workers more than any piece of legislation before or since. I think, it’s possible to give it its teeth back and restore the balance between worker and employer. -
Kinda thinking the same thing.
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I have to totally agree here. This seems to me to be a symbiotic environment. If everyone does his or her part, we all stay safe and happy.
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Who are we kidding.? Being in the position to do the nasty. That’s my answer.
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I’m a relative newbie with limited experience, but I once booked multiple appointments with a provider because she was tuned in to my needs, made me feel amazing, and seemed to enjoy herself, too. I could see this amazing woman as someone that I could build a relationship with. That said, i was under no illusion those feelings were reciprocated. Our “relationship “ no matter how enjoyable, was purely transactional. Understanding that allowed me to enjoy her to the fullest, but also move on without heartache. This is a business in which providers give more of themselves than in just about any profession. I think it’s important to respect that fact, and, in turn, respect the boundaries that are necessary for a provider to continue giving of herself as freely as they can. Just my two cents.
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I have two teenage boys at home with me all the time. I can definitely spare them. Any takers?
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Oftentimes the resentment making that choice causes can ruin a relationship. I always advocate an honest and open conversation to find middle ground. However, the consequences of that conversation may be pretty heart wrenching.
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Laci French always seems to be the voice of the ladies on this board. Much respect to the level of concern she shows for her fellow providers. I’ve never met her, but my admiration grows with every post. Please keep it up.
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We each have our own likes and wants. I enjoy you all sharing them.
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Nope. That honor belongs to “The Wire”. Even I have to admit that Idris Elba is hot af.
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Definitely a boring day. Too cold to go out, so i found an older film I hadn’t seen before: Hidden Agenda with Brian Cox and Frances McDormand, who I happen to think is one of the sexiest women in film.
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Speaking of expectations. This is a challenge that got every gent’s attention.
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Im an hr guy. I can see the logic of a qv on tge first time with a provider that is new to you. The hh also makes sense if one is on a tight schedule. For me, however, Id rather wait until I have more time free to immerse myself in the full experience. It’s the fantasy for me, and fantasies take a little time to play out. I guess as long as both you and your provider are on the same page on expectations, the choice of times you make for you is the best choice.
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I could tell you that on my first visit ever to a provider, heard someone calling my name. When i looked over, I realized it was a local cop that i knew. He asked what i was doing in that neighborhood. My first foray into this world almost ended before it started. Lucky for me, I just waved, yelled, “Visiting an old friend”, and headed on in. Does that qualify as crazy?
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Looking for volunteers?
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The memory beginning to fade would be the perfect excuse to go back for a refresher. Its a win-win.
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Since my experience in the hobby is limited, i am often unsure about how much i should reveal prior to meeting. I view meeting a provider as an opportunity to live out certain fantasies. For example, i have an image of how i want her to dress and how i would then undress her. With that said, I would like to know how the ladies here view those requests.
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Definitely good to know. 😂😂😂
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Was anyone’s time really wasted? It seems that few, if any, gents would have headed to your date without confirming. I think any inconvenience caused would be negligible in comparison to your family emergency. Your apologies are, I’m sure, accepted with no hard feelings. Hope your friend recovers quickly and completely.
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Welcome. Look forward to seeing your posts.
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I tried a 45 minute once, and while it was fun, i felt that it just didn’t seem as fulfilling as a full hour. 15 or 30 minute sessions, i could see if your visiting a provider with some negative reviews, just to see for yourself. However, that seems like more of an introductory thing. Haven’t tried it, though.
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This makes me feel more normal. Thank you.
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It most certainly can be. The “activities”. Can, inmany instances be pure icing in the fantasy for me. It’s that unique, personalized interaction thats the truly exciting part for ne.