Plot

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  1. Could someone pm the ad to me. I’m incredibly curious.
  2. Labor History is what I focused on for my degree. I can assure you that people said much the same thing until the introduction in the National Labor Relations Act in 1935. The National Assn. of Manufacturers and the US Chamber of Commerce immediately began trying to defang this legislation, but it still improved the lot of workers more than any piece of legislation before or since. I think, it’s possible to give it its teeth back and restore the balance between worker and employer.
  3. Kinda thinking the same thing.
  4. What good are references?

    I have to totally agree here. This seems to me to be a symbiotic environment. If everyone does his or her part, we all stay safe and happy.
  5. Favorite position

    Who are we kidding.? Being in the position to do the nasty. That’s my answer.
  6. An Actual Connection?!?

    I’m a relative newbie with limited experience, but I once booked multiple appointments with a provider because she was tuned in to my needs, made me feel amazing, and seemed to enjoy herself, too. I could see this amazing woman as someone that I could build a relationship with. That said, i was under no illusion those feelings were reciprocated. Our “relationship “ no matter how enjoyable, was purely transactional. Understanding that allowed me to enjoy her to the fullest, but also move on without heartache. This is a business in which providers give more of themselves than in just about any profession. I think it’s important to respect that fact, and, in turn, respect the boundaries that are necessary for a provider to continue giving of herself as freely as they can. Just my two cents.
  7. Helping each other...what do you need/have

    I have two teenage boys at home with me all the time. I can definitely spare them. Any takers?
  8. Super freaky good times

    Oftentimes the resentment making that choice causes can ruin a relationship. I always advocate an honest and open conversation to find middle ground. However, the consequences of that conversation may be pretty heart wrenching.
  9. New challenge for the hobby.....

    Laci French always seems to be the voice of the ladies on this board. Much respect to the level of concern she shows for her fellow providers. I’ve never met her, but my admiration grows with every post. Please keep it up.
  10. Labia-good, bad or ugly

    We each have our own likes and wants. I enjoy you all sharing them.
  11. Boring Sunday Babble

    Nope. That honor belongs to “The Wire”. Even I have to admit that Idris Elba is hot af.
  12. Boring Sunday Babble

    Definitely a boring day. Too cold to go out, so i found an older film I hadn’t seen before: Hidden Agenda with Brian Cox and Frances McDormand, who I happen to think is one of the sexiest women in film.
  13. HH vs HR

    Speaking of expectations. This is a challenge that got every gent’s attention.
  14. HH vs HR

    Im an hr guy. I can see the logic of a qv on tge first time with a provider that is new to you. The hh also makes sense if one is on a tight schedule. For me, however, Id rather wait until I have more time free to immerse myself in the full experience. It’s the fantasy for me, and fantasies take a little time to play out. I guess as long as both you and your provider are on the same page on expectations, the choice of times you make for you is the best choice.
  15. Crazy Stories

    I could tell you that on my first visit ever to a provider, heard someone calling my name. When i looked over, I realized it was a local cop that i knew. He asked what i was doing in that neighborhood. My first foray into this world almost ended before it started. Lucky for me, I just waved, yelled, “Visiting an old friend”, and headed on in. Does that qualify as crazy?
  16. Best BBBJ in Denver

    Looking for volunteers?
  17. Taking photos during...

    The memory beginning to fade would be the perfect excuse to go back for a refresher. Its a win-win.
  18. V day! What’s your plans?

    Well done.
  19. Since my experience in the hobby is limited, i am often unsure about how much i should reveal prior to meeting. I view meeting a provider as an opportunity to live out certain fantasies. For example, i have an image of how i want her to dress and how i would then undress her. With that said, I would like to know how the ladies here view those requests.
  20. How Do Providers Feel About Requests

    Definitely good to know. 😂😂😂
  21. MY SINCERE APOLOGIES!!***

    Was anyone’s time really wasted? It seems that few, if any, gents would have headed to your date without confirming. I think any inconvenience caused would be negligible in comparison to your family emergency. Your apologies are, I’m sure, accepted with no hard feelings. Hope your friend recovers quickly and completely.
  22. Helloo Colorado

    Welcome. Look forward to seeing your posts.
  23. How Do Providers Feel About Requests

    I tried a 45 minute once, and while it was fun, i felt that it just didn’t seem as fulfilling as a full hour. 15 or 30 minute sessions, i could see if your visiting a provider with some negative reviews, just to see for yourself. However, that seems like more of an introductory thing. Haven’t tried it, though.
  24. How Do Providers Feel About Requests

    This makes me feel more normal. Thank you.
  25. How Do Providers Feel About Requests

    It most certainly can be. The “activities”. Can, inmany instances be pure icing in the fantasy for me. It’s that unique, personalized interaction thats the truly exciting part for ne.