Calik8

TOB Member
 View profile  See their activity

  • Content count

    369

  • Joined

  • Last visited

Posts posted by Calik8

  1. Posted · Edited by Calik8

    Anyone else  been very slow this last month?

    been feeling a little blue about the slow activities this month. Hoping September brings in a busier month.

     

    1

  7. Posted

    1 hour ago, Jenniferxj6 said:

    I’m sorry some guys are so screwed up. But most are Great guys. Let’s focus on the better ones😄👠. Put that Fker on call block! That’s my solution he belongs on the street. Lave ya .

    It’s not part of the Job. You have choices! Use them well 

    Let me clarify. Getting disrespectful  and sometimes hurtful responses are part of the job. But in my opinion you should never see them and personally block them right away. 

    0

  8. Posted

    27 minutes ago, average1 said:

    Like some here, I prefer....BOTH.  Love to have her on top, but also love to be on top and also love doggie and also love spoon.  Depends on the lady and how things are unfolding with open communication of shared pleasures and preferences.  

    💖💖💖

    0

  10. Posted

    21 hours ago, Matumbo said:

    Looking for someone in the Denver metro area that Is available. I am new to this and I have been getting a lot of “I don’t do black” 

    That sucks I’m so sorry to hear that.

    1

  17. Posted · Edited by Calik8

    58 minutes ago, Crystyna said:

    In my RW I dont cuddle after because I have a mess to clean up and I dont want it getting on the sheets lol! In hobby world, I usually offer more conversation, etc. But some guys just wanna get up and go which is fine too.

    True on that. I realize that sometimes for some it’s not just about the deed but the intimacy that is wanted. I always been a clean up and if the person wants then a cuddle or a conversation let’s do it.

    as @decafnaetd Expressed I feel as many don’t say anything as they don’t want to over stay their welcome. I feel as that if you still have time in the apointment asking is never a a bad thing.

     

    3

  21. Posted

    4 hours ago, cowboy said:

    I want to clarify.. I meant no disrespect, I absolutely understand the need for safety and security for all parties.. my post was sincere in its intent to obtain info on what I might do if I wanted to see a lady who seemed to require references. Call me naive, but had I known it might be as simple as calling and asking if there was alternative information I might be able to offer up in lieu of a reference, that was all I was seeking clarity on. To any who read my post and took it to be nasty or disrespectful, my apologies. 

    Hope that no one took t the wrong way.

    Personally glad you asked ❤️ So many don’t and it hurts every one when you assume. ( not referencing this post)  hope you have luck in your endeavors 😘

     

    2

  22. Posted · Edited by Calik8

    2 hours ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

    Yes, nasty attitudes with clients or providers, let us know. That's how we look out for one another. 💙

    Clients ill pm you 😊

    0

  23. Posted

    5 minutes ago, MyraGold said:

    Also please don’t get up in arms if you don’t have references, reviews, or a verified profile on like p411 and the provider asks you for personal info. I keep getting this and it’s so disrespectful. Most of us give you other options, it’s not our fault if you can’t provide them. And don’t turn it around on us either, asking for our personal info. Because most likely we have reviews, verified profiles and a good reputation. If you can’t trust that then how tf do you expect me to trust your word? Honestly this treatment lately makes me not want to see newbies at all. 

     

    Providers- if you’ve been getting nasty or threatening messages from guys like this- trust your gut. And lemme know please so I can block them ❤️

    Not threatening but man nasty attitudes. 

    0

  24. Posted

    21 minutes ago, Hunter VanDyke said:

    One of the most important things to consider as a gentleman who doesn't hobby often, and who likes to see a variety of women, and not the same lady each time, is the providers reference policy.  I can't stress this enough. Make sure to find someone who is reference friendly.  Meaning they have no issues with other providers contacting them to give a reference for you. A lot of providers say they are reference friendly, but in actuality they are not. They go out of their way to not provide the reference. So get them to say their policy up front. Trust me on this. Also, if they get funky with you when you ask them about their policy, they're definitely going to be funky with a provider when they reach out for a reference. I would also say if the providers policy is that they require you to come back and see them every 3-6 mos to keep your reference in good standing, that won't do someone like you much good. Choose a lady who will gives references for at least a year. Find a newbie friendly lady, find out all her requirements for screening, ususally RW info, reach out and tell her your circumstances, and ask her reference sharing policy. I think being polite, honest and direct is the best way to go. Good Luck sir. 💙

    This 100%

    0