Calik8

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  1. Sorry a little vent after a hard weekend. (I know there are lots of good in this hobby.so please note that this is for those who are not.) I hate the last weekends of the month. It’s always when I get the un savory kind of messages. I want to say a few things to the men that send me those unsavory messages. Maybe it will make them rethink they way they talk to providers. NO MEANS NO. Doesn't mean argue and push the subject. It Means no. Move on to another provider or go with out it. 50 bucks doesn’t and won’t get you anything. yes I’m a bbw but that doesn’t mean I’m worth less money then a slender provider. Asking for bare and saying “trust me I’m clean.” Will never work ever!! Just Please use condoms! Don't argue about using them. Even with oral unless you both have paperwork to show your clean and that she’s clean. Even then use the I say use a condom to be safe. Keeps everyone clean and happy. if you don’t have a reference then please be willing to fill a screen forum out. We have to keep safe too. Please please remember we providers are people too!!! End of rant sorry if I’m out of line or hurt any ones feelings. Just how I feel not trying to put any one down.
  2. A note to some men. A word of advice.

    Black bbw’s Are sexy af❤️❤️ Thank you btw
  3. Guest

    THats so sad 😓 he was amazing
  4. An Introduction

    Hello Holly!!
  5. So I’m stuck on what to do with my hair. I'm currently growning my hair out and so I’m not cutting it but I’m bored with it so I want to change the color again. I currently have Blue hair. I’m not sure if and what I should go too. blond and pink? pink? stay the same color blue or just blond? any thoughts? I would add pictures but not sure if that’s allowed. thoughts
  6. OK SO I went with all of them!! purple blond pink and light blue!! i love it it’s so much fun Thank you all for the ideas
  7. Thank you to good ones.

    Just a note to say Thank you to this community. I'm so grateful you. So today this is a Thank you to all of you. Thank you for the open communication. the way you come together and build this hoby/ business stronger, smarter, and safer. To those who provid you are amazing for being who you are. Those who play in the Hoby safely and respectfully Thank you T.O.B ok I’ll stop hear as I can go on lol
  8. A note to some men. A word of advice.

    Thank you Love ❤️ I know it will and laci is right I have to move forward!
  9. A note to some men. A word of advice.

    Thank you for the love! knowing I am not The only one who gets those makes me feel a little better. sorry you get those as well. I block them too. you know some days are just infuriating.
  10. How busy are you????

    Depends on the time of year and what part of the month. This weekend has been in godly slow for me . but I also two weeks of busy schedule and a broken phone so it might just be me.
  11. I think yes as my hair gets longer
  12. Sb1212 I like the ide blue with pink highlights!! or blond with pink highlights! so hard to choose!! This is me with blond and light pink But blue with pink hmm that might work
  13. No Love for AA?

    I have had good and bad experiences with every kind of man. All different races too. AA men are just the same as any other man. So if other providers won’t take them it’s a loss for them and a win for me.
  14. Caution ladies, Avoid

    I’m sorry love 😓 I deal with at least 2/3 a week like that. I just don’t respond and block them
  15. 411 on cali

    Thank you I try to be the best I can be!
  16. Teeth

    I care a lot of and for myself. I try to do the best I can anyway. My teeth are not great. I have a genetic disorder that makes that much worse. i see my dentist often but unfortunately I’m in limbo waiting to be Aproved to have more work done. But dose that mean I shouldn’t see clients or that I don’t care about myself? Im sorry but to me it’s not fair to judge someone off there teeth. You never know what they are going through.
  17. Looking for advice

    Gosh I hope so
  18. Ever feel frustrated that your information before the sasta bill is all gone?
  19. Hello

    Hi I’m new as well 😊 welcome