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I would say a couple of b&w or artsy-fartsy mixed in is fine, but if all of the pics are like this it may seem like the advertiser is trying to hide something. I have seen several ads mentioning new non-retouched photos so it must have been an issue in someone's mind, right? Mystery is great and all, but to a point when you are advertising and it is probably a fine balance. I agree that if this is how you are showing your peronality, then go for it.

For me, timing with my life, totally agree on Lita. Before my time but timeless hotness, Stevie. Newer age, but totally hot, Lzzy.

What does a set of training wheels for a doubles first-timer look like?

Okay, now I haven't seen an actual phone booth in a looooong time!

And credit cards!

Recently, and it's a dollar for 4 minutes now!

And only on hundredth birthdays!

Do you offer to give a reference at the end of the session? That usually opens the conversation for me then I offer to write a review. If that coversation doesn't happen right there, I usually send a message thanking the YL and offering a review, but often get ignored. The UTR argument doesn't make a lot of sense to me, but who knows how people think? I would not be offended at all if asked for a review.

Drop the mic post there, Gr8 One!

I think it depends on gender. I agree Aussie and Kiwi accents are amazing on the ladies. The gents all sound like drunk frat boys to me.

Decaf, I usually enjoy your posts but this one is over the top. Please consider actually switching to decaf so you can control your language. This is a respectable forum for fuck's sake!

Ads with the pertinent info: At least a general location (really important for those of us that don't live in the middle of town and have time constraints), an idea of personality and/or menu, donation, contact preference, hours/days available, accurate pics. Easy peasy, and some of us do actually attempt to read and follow directions!

She is probably embarrassed to say because of all the providers named Alexa. Alexa is available downtown for FBSM all day. Alexa is available for GFE in the DTC after 5:00. Alexa is available for PSE in Lakewood until midnight with a great reviewer special. And don't forget Alexa and Siri are available for doubles appointments this week only before they go back to their home in the cloud!

Is there a number or percentage of ads that would need to contain this language for the change in hobby to happen, or is it if any provider states this? Besides, doesn't pickle ball sound like an easier transition? Get it, pickle ball!

I guess I should have been more clear that the sarcasm font was for the entire paragraph. Again being the data nerd, I used the search function and in the last 18 months approximately 25 different YLs put "no AA" in their ad out of over 1200 ads. The 1200 is ads still up, so if a YL renews an ad over and over, it will only count as one. The number is small so it does stick out, thus this thread and conversation. The mustache comment might have been only 1 out there so it sticks out more. My point is that for those 25 YLs, there may be 25 different reasons. Could some be from a hateful or hurtful stance, yes absolutely. To deny that would be complete and utter ignorance of reality. Sabrina is one that has that language in her ad and she was brave enough to state her reason for it. If others want to say why, that is on them. All that said, my main point is that it is up to a YL to run her business as she sees fit. Since this business includes offering her beautiful body, ahem, I mean time, then she may set any boundaries she likes. As the client, we get the luxury of choosing, the luxury of the YLs needing to advertise and share a lot of information about themselves, the luxury of reading what are often crass reviews, and the luxury of remaining largely anonymous while doing so. I'll say again, vote with your dollars by choosing those who have offered an experience that fits your criteria. Move on from those that don't. But don't vilify a YL for making a choice of how she runs her business. It is her business.

Being able to hit the golf ball without stinging my hands on every damn shot! Greens that are not as hard as a parking lot. Back hanging with the boys. Not having to run the heater all the time, drying out my skin and sinuses. Having the doors and windows open. Seeing the trees, bushes, flowers budding.

I saw one that doesn't see bald guys with mustaches, EVER, very clear. I was hoping to ask her why, but I can't see her to ask her. Could one of you fellas go ask her for me and report back? Oh yeah, forgot the sarcasm font. The YLs make a business decision when they create and post an ad. The words, the pictures, the times available, the rate structure. That business decision is their own. Nobody should judge this decision not knowing anything about the story behind it. Pretty simple fellas, if a YL puts something in an ad that you don't like, you judge with your $$$ and go somewhere else! Pretty sure asking why she does or doesn't do this or that is not the way to go. Pretty sure that has been covered, like a hundred times over. Sure, I may wonder or speculate, but there is not one answer to this question. Anecdotes, sure, but largely speculation.

"Only the skilled can judge the skilfulness, but that is not the same as judging the value of the result." C.S. Lewis “What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly: it is dearness only that gives every thing its value." Thomas Paine Value is an incredibly loaded word, but Lucy is totally correct here. A transaction will take place when the value expected (note I did not say received) is greater than or equal to the amount paid. If the amount of value in the estimation of the buyer is not received, then it will be a one time transaction and a lesson learned. If the value is equal, who knows. If the value is greater, then repeat transactions will likely occur. Even if the value is not received, it's still supposed to be fun, right? And the journey in finding the one or several that provide a value in excess of the cost is even more fun!

My first encounter on the local level was on my birthday. I figured I was treating myself to a present, and one I wouldn't have received otherwise. I can't imagine now asking for this to be a gift. If you ask for a gift, it is not a gift. Now if it was offered, that is another story. But this gift would certainly be reciprocated. Like any service industry where gratuities are acceptable and a free or discounted service is offered, I would reward the kindness. All that said, there is an issue with the vagaries in advertising here and what is the true rate. Ok, so I am a nerd but I like to try to put data to a question instead of relying on anecdotes. 142 ads on TOB say "specials" in the description. Overstated as several YLs advertise in more than one area at the same time. 63 ads on TOB say "specials" in the title. Slightly overstated as well. 71 out of 200 available now ads on P411 currently have the "specials" symbol that signifies "This provider offers specials in her available now ad." Many of these don't say what the special is, so is it okay to ask when it is advertised? Likewise, there are several YLs on this board that create confusion by: Rotating ads with different rates. State a specific discounted rate in a "one time" special ad over and over. Run concurrent ads with different rates, sometimes here and sometimes on different boards or their own website. Where there is confusion, should I pay the lowest rate, pay somewhere in the middle, pay the top rate and consider the "extra" a gratuity? Lucy mentions a clear "all customers" language. Great! Clears up any confusion. Don't be a d-bag and assume you are the one special customer that doesn't fit in the "all customers" category. If a YL is clear and you don't like the rate, move on to one that you are okay with. It's okay to make choices, but don't expect the person you choose to reduce her self value to your estimation of her value.

Agreed with the boys above. A bottle of water, great if I am having nervous cottonmouth. Music, great if it is background then I am pretty up for anything you might like. Totally agree with no candles or strong scents. Not only allergies, but may have to go home or work after! Totally agree on simple, clean and tidy. Would add a nice place to sit and chat if that is how you prefer to begin, preferably next to or within reach of each other. Would also add a clean shower with unscented soap and shampoo and making it clear that one is available.

First started as a thread hijack, so this is not my question but was getting some interesting responses. A day like today, I wish I could snuggle up next to one of the fine YLs here to warm up, but will have to settle for some comforting and warm food instead. What is your favorite? Mine would be posole (or pozole) with homemade tortillas.

Sorry Mon, but I'd take some good green chile over lobster pretty much any day of the week! Any weather too.

Sounds like the majority prefers spicy and/or cheesy with a hint of sweet. Sounds like many of the YLs around here!