Gregorysymph

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  4. Posted

    14 hours ago, Sexy Francesca said:

    Car dates seem like a dangerous situation for me... and I’m not coordinated enough to get dressed and undressed in a car... 

    I did partake in some oral car fun one time on a deserted highway in Cozumel it was lotta fun but I was somewhat worried that the driver was going to crash the car because he seemed to be quite distracted!! ❤️ Memories 

    I was getting a BJ going over Loveland Pass late one night and the girl looked up at me and said "are you sure you can drive ok?". I said "don't worry hon, if I go over the cliff I'll die with a smile on my face and you'll never know what hit you".

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  5. Posted

    2 hours ago, NoCoGeezer said:

    Though the guy is a dbag, OP could have handled a bit better. Should pick up the habit of asking the guy to send a text when on the way, or send a message an hour out that still on. Satisfies the need to know still on, and makes it easy for the guy, because... 

    Though I would not go off the handle, would not be happy to get a text message from the lady that I need to respond to while barreling down the highway. Need to get to next exit, exit, stop somewhere, send note, back onto highway, just lost some time,  might now be late. And if I was not able to pull that off in a timely manner, now I maybe lost the appointment.

    Yes, in this case, OP still might get a no-show, like she was trying to avoid in first place, but is a less volatile way to go about it.

    You must be one of the very few people in Colorado that don't text while driving. It does still seem to be dangerous to use the voice text, but I use it when I receive a text and need to reply while driving. That did get me in trouble once with a provider when as I was recording my text that I would arrive in 20 minutes, I was cut off in traffic by a lady not paying attention to the road. I screamed a bunch of profanities then hit send. Oops, that text isn't going to read well. I am joking. BTW, the OP treated this idiot with way more grace than he deserved.

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  6. Posted

    The only possible review he could write is no call/no show which didn't even happen. He didn't confirm a time , which to me means no session. So you couldn't even be considered a nc/ns. Even after all his nasty texts and threats you were still kind enough to tell him "give me 5 minutes and I can be ready" and that's still not good enough for him? How often does a guy get to a ladies incall and she says "give me 5 minutes"? I would say it happens all the time and if guys were too impatient to wait a few minutes then there would be a lot of unsatisfied men walking around. This guy went way over the line. You sound like a sweetheart with more than enough understanding.

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  7. Posted · Edited by Gregorysymph
    The last sentence should have been "for you, anytime" because I made it a quote.

    One girl I know from TOB said when guys would ask her for a $50 session she would tell them for 50 bucks they could come over and she would give them a good kick in the balls. When she told me that my eyes lit up, I had a big smile on my face and I said "really, how often do you run that special?" She said "for me, anytime".

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  9. Posted

    Things did not work out so well for me. I acted too weird, for example- I would be sitting in my chair waiting, she would come through the door and I would say "where you been", she would say "out ho-ing", then I would go off ranting "you're lying, you been out shopping, getting your nails done".

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  11. Posted

    My opinion on this is that if she wants a referral from the stud of TOB , she may not only have to give you a "free one", she may have to pay for your services. I'm sure there have been some dirt bags that have tried to blackmail girls for a good review, but this doesn't seem like the case here.

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  12. Posted

    16 minutes ago, ilovewomen said:

    You’re going to go blind if you keep doing that.  At least that is what my parents used to say to me back in the early 60’s 😂😂

    I remember when my dad caught me. He came in shaking his finger at the bed, and scolding me saying "boy, you're gonna go blind if you keep doing that". I waved my hands at him from the other side of the room and said "dad, I'm over here".

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  13. Posted

    On 5/25/2018 at 0:35 PM, BallR said:

    Coin has been flipped and took my dump! 😄

    I believe I was wrong BallR. In my previous posts, it was my opinion to let the NC/NS slide. But now after seeing your review, you were obligated to do a NC/NS review. It appears this provider had a NC/NS review 2 weeks before you scheduled an appointment. I assume you saw that review but gave her the benefit of the doubt (which was the point I was trying to make in my posts), you were stood up on that session. Again you give her the benefit of the doubt and schedule another appointment. I can see that also, you're being patient and understanding. But she blows you off again without having the slightest courtesy of a simple message letting you know she can't make it. That is atrocious behavior. Unfortunately because of the rules against posting 2 reviews of the same provider within 6 months, most people won't see that she had 3 NC/NS in a 2 week period. But seeing 2 NC/NS in 2 weeks is all the information most guys need to make a decision. Thanks BallR.

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  14. Posted

    34 minutes ago, Bora Bora said:

    Stay away and cut your losses is fine. Now, about two or one negative reviews, my opinion is that there is not need for that. With the new system you can only say YES or NO Recommend, and a NO recommend is very strong.

    I guess I'm more tolerant. I've made so many mistakes in my life and done so many stupid things that I believe in giving a second, third, fourth and more opportunities to other people. For us this is just a hobby. The ladies also make a living out of this. And after all, it's not that you lost any money. You just didn't have the fun you wanted.

    But... this is just my humble opinion :)

     

    Hey Bora Bora, didn't I just say the same thing 7 hrs ago in my post? That's ok, I may have learned to be tolerant from an advanced member such as yourself in a forum awhile back. If BallR chooses not to do a review it's not like he's doing a huge disservice to other gentlemen on the board, they may also lose some time and suffer disappointment in not achieving the fun they so lustfully sought after. One other thing- this provider could actually be super reliable with all other clients, but just took an instant dislike to BallR and decided to really mess with him. I am joking BallR.                                                                                                                                       Now I'm reminded of a time when I wasn't so tolerant. I had been a member of TOB for just a short while when I contacted a lady from Backpage. We set up an appointment and I drove 30 minutes to her incall and texted her that I had arrived and I received no answer. So I was upset and started sending her texts stating that I had driven a long way and she could not do this to me, I said "you may not know this, but I'm kind of a big deal around here, I'll be doing a review about this and you will never work in this town again"- lol. I didn't really say any of that, but I did send her a text saying that I was a member of TOB and I was going to do a review. I immediately felt horrible and sent another text right away saying how sorry I was for acting like a huge jerk and I would not be doing a review, and please excuse my idiocy. I drove home and then I heard from her and she let me know something unavoidable came up and she was sorry, and hoped I wasn't going to do a review. I assured her I wouldn't. I didn't get to meet her on her visit to town that time. But I did meet her on her next trip to Denver and enjoyed her company very much.                                                                                                                              

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  15. Posted

    10 minutes ago, BallR said:

    Do tell the story sir Gregorysymph or if you prefer PM me.

    I'll be glad to. A month or so after I first met this girl, I scheduled a 2nd meeting. So we made an appointment, but she called me and said her incall and her transportation fell through. I told her if she was comfortable with me that I would be glad to come pick her up and bring her back, and I gave her my address so she knew where I would be taking her. She said that would be great. When we arrived at my place and walked in it is obvious that I'm a musician, I have a lot of different instruments in the living room. So I was playing one for a few minutes for her. When I was done she said that she appreciated being able to enjoy music and had not always been able to do so. I asked what she meant and she told me she had been born deaf. She told me around the age of 9 (I may be wrong about the age), doctors had come up with a new experimental surgery that could give certain types of deaf persons hearing. So she was in the first test groups for this new procedure. When she came to the part of the story of coming out of surgery and hearing her mothers and grandmothers voices for the first time I just felt what an emotional and joyous moment that must have been. The whole night was great with her. I had just scheduled an hour with her, but she was in my company for about 3 hours. The session was awesome, but the time getting to know her was even better.

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  16. Posted

    I do think Mustang is right about it being important that negative review resulting from a NC/NS shows just that. Because you are not actually doing a review, you are only indicating the lady may not be very reliable. It definitely is not the same for a client to be stood up as it is for the provider to be stood up without a call. It may cost us some gas money and some time, but it does not affect our bottom line like it does the ladies. So I like to give the girls some leeway there. I've been stood up without a call 4 times by ladies that are members of TOB (probably a 100 times by backpage girls). The ladies from TOB each had the same reason- car accident. I know for sure that 2 of the ladies had an accident, I have no reason to not believe the other 2 girls, and it doesn't matter because that is a legitimate reason for a NC/NS. Instead of being a whiny brat about it, I just rescheduled with all 4 ladies at a later date. They were all terrific and I would have missed some awesome company if I had developed an attitude over being stood up, especially since one of the beautiful ladies has become my ATF.  Another girl from TOB (she is actually a participant of this thread, I can't name names but she is a real sweetheart), I contacted her one night not too long ago, and apparently she keeps very good records- she began apologizing to me because she may have stood me up a while back. I told her I was sure she had never been a NC/NS with me, then she said it wasn't a NC/NS, but she had called and cancelled. I could only say that she surely did not need to apologize for having the proper manners to inform me that she could not make it to an appointment long ago, she insisted on apologizing anyway, so I said "apology accepted, when can we get together". I just brought that up because that level of thoughtfulness is heartwarming.                                                                                                                                                                                                     I do have one more story about a girl and NC/NS. This girl did not NC/NS me but she wasn't easy to schedule with, and did have a recent review for NC/NS. When we got together she was saying she was concerned about that review, I told her that I didn't think that she should let it bother her. I said its not really a review, it just means you're maybe not very dependable, then looked her in the eye and said "which is true!!!, there are worse traits you could have as a provider", then she laughed. I mentioned this because if I was worried about a NC/NS on her record I would have never met the only provider to bring tears to my eyes because of her life affirming story. If the readers of this forum want hear this story, I'll be glad to come back and tell it. otherwise i will shut up. Anyway guys, give the ladies a break on the NC/NS reviews.

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  21. Posted

    No matter what happens I had an awesome time. So many great ladies I've met through this site, thank you for the inspired companionship. Thanks to the guys for all the great reviews. Thanks to the mods especially Boink and Kaduk for allowing me to be here, Whisperer also. I loved the forums, can't even tell you how much I learned from reading them, so much invaluable information. TOB is an awesome site, hope it continues. Best of luck to everyone!!!

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  23. Posted

    1 hour ago, SultryKitten said:

    You are right, you are not an internet whore, but stooping to their level does not make you any better than what he has said or done to you.

    You want respect for what you do? Then you show them by representing yourself professionally and rising above what he thinks you are. You know you are more so show that to the clients that do feel you are what you charge hourly, and let the word through them tell others that you have class, respect, and the desire to be what they are looking for. That is when you truly win.

    I battle this job everyday just like you do. My life and this business is far from perfect, but I know what I bring to the table, and someone bullying me is not going to sway nor deter what I continually strive to do for my clients. I remember that every time a client walks through my door, and leaves happy. 

    You want to do things a certain way, and you say we don't know the whole story...fine, but remember one little thing you haven't thought of: Karma! It has a funny way of coming back.

    Xoxo,

    Samantha Sheppard

    I don't understand why karma would be coming back on her. She's not the one playing gamesZwMVMbmQBug?t=1m50s, she politely asked them to cease. When they persisted she taught them a little lesson- there may be consequences for their actions, and it was just a small prank. I would have thought that some girls would applaud her actions. Instead of just ignoring these idiots she actually did something. I thought that was the title of this thread "I've had enough". It makes me think about the scene from the movie- Network, where the producer goes on ranting " I'm mad as hell and not going to take it anymore". His statement "I'm a human being, I have value" must resonate strongly in Ryan.   I have nothing but respect for her, and from her reviews I see her clients do also. I don't have to say stay strong Ryan, you already know your a winner.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               

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  24. Posted

    1 hour ago, RyanLikesIt said:

      I spend so much time alone and have zero social life SO I take these opportunities to think of creative ways to get these gentlemen back for their complete shit Behavior

     I had a gentleman that continuously sent me unsolicited dick pics even though I've never met him. (We ladies know this happens all the time we could fill libraries with unsolicited dick pics) however after I asked him to stop he sent me even more

    After ruining my appetite right after I had a delicious dinner delivered to my door I took his pics and his phone number and placed an ad on Craigslist men seeking men casual encounters section "men like my pics? please send me yours!! now HE will know how it feels to get  unwanted dick pics for the next several weeks!

    Another example I had an incredibly rude young man offer me anywhere between $30 and $50 for a session several times in a month  I declined first politley. Then adamantly. He said and I quote "Lower your prices BITCH" Guys like this don't expect me to keep their text messages but I always do. so the next time he messaged me I pretended I didn't know we'd spoken before; agreed to his session I told him he had to bring $50 cash and he had to show up in the next hour. I then directed him to the hotel next door that I share a parking lot with and when he showed up I gave him a random room number & watched him walk into the hotel . And very quickly watched him exit the hotel !

    Iwas laughing so freaking hard at the expression on his face the anger and the frustration and I told him via TEXT I BET YOU WON'T FORGET AGAIM THAT  IM THE BITCH WHO WONT LOWER HER PRICES

    Yes I know I could just block these guys because I'm sure somebody is going to feel the need to point that out to me sometimes blocking isn't as satisfying as the above-mentioned activities

    The problem I see with your approach darlin  is I'd rather be abused by you than have sex with most other girls.

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