Introduction, and a few thoughts on change

[Guest]

An ancient Chinese proverb, often attributed to Confucius, observes “As the water shapes itself to the vessel that contains it, so a wise man adapts himself to circumstances.“

My heart goes out to the many beautiful women of this community who no doubt are feeling a sense of uncertainty about how changing public policy, legislation, and these trying times may impact them. And certain fellow gentlemen may be understandably reticent to pursue certain extracurricular activities or reach out to a young lady with whom they may not have already shared private moments in light of the lack of details and general climate of change and transition. 

I crossed this particular Rubicon about five years ago, relying on many of the reviews and postings in this group, as well as p411, to screen and contact potential partners. But I confes that I have rarely posted in the various forums and only occasionally posted reviews on TER or TOB when the young lady requested it, generally preferring to err on the side of discretion and keep private times private. I have had the pleasure of getting to know some remarkable, genuine, and incredibly beautiful young women, and shared moments that are now memories I cherish. 

In light of these changing times, I feel compelled to do my part to become a more active member of the TOB community, to help watch one another’s back, and help out the beautiful women who give so much of themselves in the moments they share with gentlemen, in the hope they will always spend such time in the company of those who treat them with respect and appropriate consideration. 

I’m happy to accept PMs from other respectful gentlemen seeking a discreet recommendation from any of the young ladies I may have seen or reviewed on TER or TOB, or who may be listed in my p411 okays. And if I can be a resource in any other way, or simply share my perspectives and answer questions for others in the community, don’t hesitate to ask. 

I live in Denver, but travel fairly frequently in connection with my profession. The warm sunshine of this beautiful spring day here in Colorado is making me smile, and despite the recent challenges, I feel a sense of optimism about the future that we will all find a way to adapt, just as water shapes itself to the vessel that contains it. 

Here’s what I believe:  A gentleman always stands when a lady enters a room, always holds the door open, and always picks up the check. Most importantly, a gentleman always makes sure the lady comes first -- preferably repeatedly. 

I also want to add how much I appreciate all that the admins and mods on this board do to help ensure the rules and legalities are all being followed, and what they and all TOB members do to help instil a climate of mutual respect. 

 

Nice to meet all of you.