Posted December 28, 2013 Seduction is a power game. If I can get you to like me more than I like you, then I have won. If I can get you to want me more than I want you, then I have won. The problem with seduction in the hobby world is that this is a business transaction, and those who play seduction's game (I used to do all kinds of things to try and "get" the girls to like me) are generally playing right into the hands of the one with the real power, the provider. You want their pussy, you play by their rules. Period. The fact that money is actually involved makes it even more obvious. If I "buy" an escort's time, the entire transaction is governed by her, and there's just no changing that. I used to desperately want and need to be "special," and I would go to great lengths to make it so. I gave the best tip and generally went out of my way to make things "perfect" with all my girls, and yet that power arrangement never changed. The moment the envelope was on the table, there was no way I could do anything to alter that power relationship, and that really used to fuck me up. That doesn't mean I'm not still nice; hell, that's in my DNA, but I no longer function under the delusion that providers "like" me beyond the cash I provide or that they even "need" to like me. In fact, with my expectations in a different place now, I actually enjoy sessions more. YMMV, but it's a lesson to be learned. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
