Alexa Rayne

Actually, it was Madison Monroe who shared info on 225 & 6th Ave, I just quoted her...Thank You Madison! I did list other concerns that I am aware of....On Safety, You are welcome as we all need to look out for each other!

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I'll PM you in a few 😉

I too "prefer" a more leisurely encounter where we both enjoy ourselves! Trust me...the more time we can treat each other like royalty...the better!! I also wish every gent could visit anytime they wanted without the restrictions of time, money, work, SO, kids, etc. Unfortunately, this is not the case...there is a supply of downtown gents, who can only visit during their lunch hour, so 45 works in this situation, allowing them time to walk a few blocks to my incall...as most live in other areas and commute via public transportation...I am in a position to accommodate this very simple request, so I do. As far as clock watching...45 is no different than 30, 60, 90, or any other agreement for "time and companionship". Although, yes, I would say the gents are more "aware" of the time because they don't want to be late from lunch and have to explain why...or lose their job, and in turn lose their "play" money...lol. I think ANY time together can be awkward if that is how you make it feel or it can be the most comfortable and amazing time ever! That is up to us, the provider, to set that tone. For me...I appreciate the simple fact, that he chose me, to spend whatever amount of time his day allowed. In turn, I will make sure our time is not rushed, it may go by quickly, but that is out of my control...I'm powerful, but not that powerful. Lol. No, offering other layers in your business does not complicate it for everyone, unless you, the business owner, makes it complicated. Time...is no different than offering other layers to your business to accommodate the needs/wishes of your clients..duos, couples, social dates, etc. Why not just book for an hour and leave when ready? Because they don't have an hour to spend. So I'm not going to make them pay for time they are unable to receive..that would be ripping them off and becoming that "Low Hanging Fruit" we have been talking about...correct?

Wow...Seriously! Damn...Well thats one way to keep us out! Lol! I personally stay away from the 225 corridor but know ladies who love that area...I will pass the info on. It would be great to create a list of hotels we could share with each other, privately of course, with info like this...for instance Which hotels do you need a room key to utilize the elevator? I know a couple downtown but info like this could really help those that do not have a permanent incall. Is the main entrance the only entrance? I know of one in Cherry Creek/Glendale. Also, the staff watches you like a hawk. 😉

Control what you can control...the rest will pass...I am sure you are a gentleman who knows exactly how to respect a woman...just remember to enjoy the process of getting to know the beautiful ladies here, don't act desperate or let your excitement get the best of you because that is when simple gestures become very annoying, very quickly! Respect your lady of the day and the world will be yours!! Xoxo

I just spit out my water! Hahaha!!

Absolutely a great idea! Yes.

YESSSS...Very well written baby girl!! Great advice to all!! That was exactly what I thought you meant by "Low Hanging Fruit" as it is my definition as well. I too started on BP, as many others. One of my favorite TOBers...took a chance that I was legit, without reviews!! Thank goodness he did because I have to be honest...there definitely seems to be a lack of leadership, from some of our tenured ladies, which can be very frustrating for providers, who are either new to the industry, or like Tish and several others...new to TOB. A STORY--- I was introduced to Tish on a personal level and found out she was a very successful and tenured BP lady....yes, tenured...which means she also had something I could learn as well!! Due to her own need to remain UTR she stayed away from the review boards. She knew she had to change her business model in order to become more successful...Not without hesitation..Tish was open to learn about TOB, she began participating in the forums, and building credibility within this wonderful community...prior to creating an ad....BUT it is very difficult...why? Because some ladies feel joy by making others feel powerless, inferior, or unworthy...and it's bullshit!! Yes, its inevitable...BP ladies and gents are going to be flocking over to our little cozy, safe, perfect, and at times judgemental community... some of us are going to find ourselves in some real shit situations, whether they are costly mistakes, unexpected failures, or unscrupulous enemies...all because we would rather be selfish and not give a reference or provide guidance when needed. TOB LADIES...Leadership from our current and reputable ladies is going to be "key" in ridding the "Low Hanging Fruit" Melissa and others are talking about...We must accept and anticipate this bullshit in advance, so we don't have to freak out, react emotionally, and aggravate things further...Train your minds, consider the worst-case scenarios, and please try to regulate our unhelpful instinctual responses!! Please... let's stop worrying about the petty shit...start learning from others, pick up new skills along the way, and teach our new reputable BP ladies, who, like Tish...just need a chance... we all provide something unique to this business, and we can all smell the BS along the way...The more WE focus on genuine connections with our clients and look for ways to help each other--rather then just focusing on the negative-- the more likable and personable you become... Of course, this is not expected in our industry but who says we cant be that change...be more than great provider...be a respected leader amongst the ladies who look up to you!! This WILL make all the difference in the success and future of our business...and that "Low Hanging Fruit" will have to find another board to fuck/mess with because we are the "Ladies of TOB" Bitches!!

Being a downtown provider 45 minute sessions are very common, especially Mon-Fri. On some boards, we choose from a drop down menu and 45 min is not an option, normally. So I advertise the hhr and hr more for consistency but not law.

Oohhhh..if only you guys had a penny for each of my thoughts...every one of you could afford to become a worldwide hobbyist...Full Time!! I have used all my reputations for the day...I'm so sad...there are several great responses lately!!

Yes, I agree...it goes both ways...some of my best clients were referred to me from a provider. I love it...sharing is caring!!

^^Agree^^ Yes, thank you Mod for XXX'ing out the name...I was just in my own little world...typing along. I had my top 5 people, in my head on who was going to ask this question or make a comment...I was just waiting for the moment!! Hahaha

If both ladies have hung out on a personal level and the OP has seen a client at Audrey's incall...I HIGHLY doubt there was a set up in the making. I work with a couple of ladies and YES, we refer clients to each other....often! It is a GREAT business practice actually...We are able to build a solid rapport and trust amongst each other and our clients. When/If "Aunt Flo" is visiting, if we are traveling, or just happen not to be working that day...we refer our clients to each other....Why??? Because this IS a business and we feel it is better for our clients to be served versus not to be served AND for at least one of us ladies to make some dinero $$$...We each have a very different skill set, look, and personality...we appreciate our differences, focus on each other strengths, and are able to provide a variety to our clients without feeling like someone is always out to get us! Maybe, just maybe, Audrey noticed your great traits, maybe she fully trusted you, and felt you could compliment each other by working as a Duo and sharing clients when the other was feeling down. Win-win for all!! There is enough drama, negativity, and false perceptions that surrounds each and every one of us in this industry...Seems to me...You were lucky to have found an ally, a partner, and a friend in Audrey! AnaBeau...If I were you...I would try and save your friendship....pick up the phone and give her a call...maybe apologize for acting so emotional versus thinking/speaking consciously...just calmly explain your concerns. I do agree with you and I do understand your frustration...the smallest mistakes can be detrimental in this business, from not properly screening, to accidentally saying your real name in a duo session, to sending the incorrect phone number to a client...but at the end of the day...human mistakes happen! I really hope you and Audrey communicate and continue to build together because friendships should never be taken for granted! Our TOB community needs strength right now...it's hard enough out there!! Besos!!

I have never had this issue but trust me I have had several others...lol! After reading the different responses above...I agree...the change in the Newbies communication pattern is odd but not unheard of... and there could be several legit possibilities but at the end of the day...go with your gut and always stay within your comfort zone! 💋

Oh my gosh...I agree with you Samantha...I was so frickin excited when I learned about the "reference" feature! (I get excited easily over big and small things ) I don't use it as much as I should simply because I forget about it but...it would really help us all out, especially these days!

It is good to hear from you luv!! Xoxo

Looks like some are posting in the "women for men" section on BP, as of now anyways.

It was a tough week but I was blessed to have had the time I had, however short is was...He is in doggy heaven playing and enjoying life without pain! Thank you everyone for all the kind words and support! Xoxo

Oh my goodness! Wow! You are very strong Bit..thats alot for anyone to endure! It sounds like you are still living life to the fullest which is the best thing you can do! Thank you luv! Yes they do and Rocky is up there with the best of them! Awww...thank you so much! I love and need Hugs today...Cyber and Real Life! Xoxo

@Lucy Kitten and @Bit Banger I didn't mean to exclude you or anyone from my post above...my sympathies to all who have recently loss!!

My 5 year old Boxer mix, Rocky, took his last breath this morning at 4:30am! He started having seizures a couple of months ago and the vet diagnosed him with a heart condition. This week he just took a turn for the worse... We took him back to the vet Thursday night, labs were completed, and we were waiting for the results to come back. I am devastated right now! @sparkey600 and @amcbl1 I am so sorry for your recent loss as well..My heart goes out to you and your families! Xoxo

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Welcome to TOB! Lots of great women! You are sure to find that connection if you are doing your research.

I am so sorry for your loss...My heart goes out to you and your family! Sounds like you did everything you could do and she was very lucky to have you as her daddy! Xoxo