SD1958

you're a mess!!! have not had sex in 3 years...miss the feel of a beautiful woman and the taste of DATY...count yourself lucky

I've been reaching out to a number of providers on p411 through PMs to introduce myself and let them know I would like to see them in the near future and I'm either ignored (no responce) or I'm told there a a couple of things i'm not compatible with them. I've checked my profile and I'm at a loss. I know I haven't been that active over the last few years but I do have a new okay. Still I seem to be getting ignored even when the provider is online.

I've learned a lot of from the inputs on this thread. lesson 1 don't use the PM function for chit chat. lesson 2 try not to take this personally "its a business" Lesson 3 just make an appointment if you click you click (maybe use the PM function for a thank you) but that might be too much chit chat. Being a romantic is nice but to be honest with myself this is likely not about romance, just have fun

I appreciate all the responses to this thread. By reaching out I meant I would send a PM to introduce myself and start a dialog with the lady I would like to see. I guess I'm old and want to see if we would click. I would suggest reading my profile but mostly its a way to establish a connection. I've never asked for a pre-screen in a PM, just using it as a way to introduce myself. I had a lady once who told me in no uncertain terms she was not into chit chat and that's fine. The no responses was what was troubling

I stopped hobbings two years ago and let my P411 account expire. I stopped due to financial reasons but things have improved since them. If I want to resume do I need to reestablish references? Is this a start from square one thing. Any advice would be welcome

I was thinking about the title of the movie “The scent of a woman” and it partially encapsulates that which brought me to the hobby so long ago. To me of all the beauty that is in this world there is nothing that compares to a beautiful woman (beauty in the eye of the beholder). The scent of a perfumed and aroused woman can drive the most pious man to give up all he holds true just to breathe in her scent as he explores her body. The scent as he kisses and licks his way up her thighs only lures him even more and the scent when she reaches a rousing climax stay with him long after she is no longer there. Yes the scent of a woman has brought me back again and again. But the other senses are of equal importance. The sight of a woman dressed, partially dress or naked and inviting makes all other sights pale in comparison, the sight of her beneath us, on top or behind her are all breath taking and the look on her face as she reach a climax is a wondrous sight. The taste of her warm hot mouth on mine, the taste of her body from head to toe and of course the taste of her excited juices are a nectar I can’t get enough of. The feel of her silky skin, her mouth all over my body and the moist tightness inside her are feeling we all long for and finally the sounds of her coos, moans and gasps make the entire experience of just being with a beautiful woman the best experience there will ever be. Thanks to some of the ladies on this board I had the opportunity to experience a lot of these sensations. Thank you very much even if they were all an act they have made me smile years after.

Night Shift. Not many people heard of this one but it starred Shelley Long, Henry Winkler and Michael Keaton. About two guys "managing" some ladies out of a morgue. they even mention Klute in the movie. Nothing too serious but I liked it. Of corse the dweeb falls for the call girl

Hi I just saw a fantastic provider and the session was all I could hope for. I used the information on her website that gave a specific amount for her time. well I was checking out the EB and saw that her rate on EB was lower...the same for P411...make no mistake I don't want my money back (she was that good) but is this common and if you see different amounts offered should you ask for clarification or does this fall under the category of not discussing prices?

yeah but the one screwing made the other worth it...lol...no complaints still smiling about that encounter

I guess I wasn't very clear...it happens when I try to convey something through the written word. (I suck at writing) anyway her rate was lower both on EB and P411 (without a discount) then on her website. Like I said I'm not trying to get any money back I just want to know if in the future with her or other providers I should bring but discrepancies in rates from different sites.

this may be too soon after my latest session...she has to be affectionate, passionate, treats me a like a long lost lover. she should hold me with tenderness but is also very erotic, oral and knows how to ride a man like he's a stallion. Also very vocal when she's having a good time.

I hope this is true for other providers since at a minimum I always place the donation in a thank you card and I take the time to make it heart felt and fun

I love giving gifts I don't do it all the time and I never do it to curry favor...after all the lady is already doing what I desire...I just enjoy the look of surprise and pleasure I get...am I a sap maybe but to me it feels good to bring an unexpected smile to a woman's face who I'm pretty sure will bring a big smile to my face and a spring in my step

Its not about race but about what gets your motor humming and I know my taste runs to white. I come from a multi-race family that ranges from African American to Latino to Asian to white and I love all my family members but when I want to get intimate I know what type of lady I will look for

I’ve noticed a more hostile tone lately on the board or so it seemed. So I asked one of the ladies if she felt the regulars were being meaner of late. She emphatically said “yes”. I’ve noticed that for some they are no longer referring to the ladies as providers or ASP or even escorts. Some have taken to using the word hookers more and more. Now this may seem like no big deal. Some would say well that’s what they are why sugar coat it. Others may have the view of “a rose by any other name”. For me it seems like a rude term. If I call a doctor a quack or a lawyer an ambulance chaser people know what I’m talking about as far as the profession but it denotes a lack of respect or regard. When I think of a hooker I think of my youth when I would see ladies of the night walking the street and leaning over to my car asking if I wanted a date. It’s all about the act, of quickly getting off and moving to the next guy. I think of pimps, drug addiction and having no choice and I don’t feel clean. I’ve only felt this way with one lady I’ve met on this board and that was years ago. All the other have made the time about me. Most have treated me like a lover where we linger, chat and caress afterward. I may be naïve but I’ve always left with a smile and happy. I don’t think a “hooker “could make me feel that way. To me and it may just be me but the term hooker has a sleazy feel to it. I’ve also noted more threads about trust or lack of it. Bat-shit crazy hookers and on the other side of the coin how most of the clients are not someone the ladies would even consider dating. Some of us you might consider having a cup of coffee with but that is all. A lot of words to get to my question but what is the cause of the hostility? Are guys showing up smelly, unwashed and rude? Are providers treating you badly? Or in the end do you really have a low opinion of the people in this hobby on either side? Or is it just my imagination?

adult fun in Vegas...I'm shocked!!!! but really there are tons of great strip clubs I like Cheetahs as for GFE once again there are tons of great ladies just don't use the cards they pass out on the street use a reputable board such as TER to do some research. I will say the ladies there are higher priced but if you choose right the experience can be top notch. If you like I'll provide you with a couple of ladies I saw through PM and one agency that has the best reputation in Vegas...most others are rip offs that specialize in up selling

I'll play...this may sound like a strange choice but the word "shit" I hear people saying things like he's the shirt or my least favorite "fuck the shit out of me" or I fucked the shit out of her" it just brings to mind a very gross picture. Do we all remember what shit is? it's just plain nasty

Thank you this was very well put it was what I was trying to get across with my original post. I also want to thank the other ladies who have contributed. As for the guys I can only think of a couple who refer to the clients as "johns" and only one lady who has gone out of her way to denigrate her clients. It just seems since we are all enjoying each other in the most intimate way we could treat each other with some respect.

that's why my next post said it was just me...from the reaction, everyone is fine with how things are. Maybe I'm just to sensitive to words and should just get a thicker skin. yes I hobby to have fun...what else would be the reason? and the ladies I see make it fun. I sure am glad they are around :-)

I guess it's just me.... then seems the over whelming opinion is everything is all right....move along nothing to see here

I doubt that would do any good. If you are looking for life long hot sex getting married is not the answer. From what a lot of us have posted you can see many of us treasure the life we have with our SO. But as one provider wrote women need a reason for sex and with many of them that desire is replaced later in life by other interests. I always get a kick out of how sex is talked about with desire early on then with disgust later...lots of time by women in long term relationships. Like its a chore not something to look forward to. They still enjoy intimate dinners going out dancing, the movies, sharing other interest but sex seems to die out and with me I love my wife but she has let herself go, does nothing sexy or even shave her legs. She dresses matronly and does nothing to excite me sexually. ultimately marriage is not about sex we as a society try and force it that way. In Europe they have a different attitude. Lots of wives accept their husbands having a mistress or seeing providers.

First thanks for the sympathy I was afraid I would get flamed for my admission. To answer your question, No there would never be tacit approval. I know she is still interested in sex but she has told me it is more of a need to be satisfied but not to satisfy me. She feels the mere act of sexual intercourse should be enough for me. I've told her that as the years go by that men need more but she isn't willing to give in the oral sex category and she has made it clear she feels her current weight is what she will be for now on and I should except it. well as my long time friend "OK" but I'm just not attracted to that and yes I still work out and stay in shape. So I hobby. The ladies I see are well reviewed and have never shown any inkling of outing me. This seems to be the best way to have enjoyable sex and not hurt my SO

this is an issue that can cut both ways some guys SO has lost their desire for sex but for some of us we have lost our desire for our SO. Make no mistake we still love them want them to be happy and safe and enjoy doing other things with them but sexual attraction is no longer there. For me it took years of seeing a once very sexy woman who enjoyed not only being pleased but also pleasing me to someone who stopped caring about her appearance and being very selfish in bed to drive me away. Now as the years go by she has gained a lot of weight and her style of dressing is very matronly. I can't get excited about her. There are nights I reach out to touch her thinking I should make the effort but I just don't want to. I kiss her on the cheek, massage her shoulders but beyond that there just isn't any desire. It's sad but sexual attraction isn't ever lasting. I don't want an affair so the hobby seems like the way to get sexual gratification without emotional ties

I had taken a couple of years off from hobbying for a few reasons. My last experiences had been in Las Vegas and I thought they couldn't be topped. I was very wrong, recently I've had the chance to experience some of Colorado's finest ladies and I have to say Las Vegas has nothing on Denver's finest. The ladies I've seen have been beautiful, sensual, erotic and most of all warm and friendly. so much so you don't leave feeling anything but on top of the world. Just wanted to say thanks to these great providers and looking forward to spending more time with them. (Yes I have written a couple of reviews)

I've been desiring a role-play with a provider who can pull off the naughty schoolgirl role. the girls on club 69 look like they could play the role. anyone know an independent that specializes in this?