CallieVane

It’s not very general when it’s directed right at me but again bullies aren’t known for their rationing or for being very logical. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I would like everyone to notice that I was replying to the thread and was not being rude in anyway. I replied without giving names and with my opinion as I am allowed to. I’m not sure why minding my own business enraged you so but I forgive you. We all have bad days and outbursts. I hope yours gets better.

Um...okay? I don’t know what you’re talking about Hunter, but I feel as though this is some weird kind of bullying and shouldn’t be allowed on this thread. My response was to the thread, not you. Not sure what I did to piss you off but this isn’t very “southern belle” of you. I never would have picked you to be the bully.

I know a lot of ladies keep lists of people who do and don’t give references, I’ve even seen one on the ladies backchannel. I think honestly that’s the only way to remedy it or at least keep track of who gives references and who doesn’t. That and letting gents know when the lady they use doesn’t give references. ❤️

Unfortunately this happens all too often in this hobby. I’ve also come across girls who give references but won’t give references to certain ladies they don’t like or they share gentleman with. There’s a few well known ladies in the community who refuse to give references to all providers and pick and choose who they give them to. It’s insanely frustrating but just unfortunately something that comes along with the hobby.

I have always been interested in milking, though I don’t know many providers to recommend who offer it or have the set up to do so. I think if you might be willing to compromise on the table being a factor you could probably bring it up to a provider you’re close with as an option for your next session.

I allow it and treasure it when it does happen but I never force anyone to it. I would heed the other’s advice and read reviews. They will often elaborate on what you can expect with certain providers and you will be more equipped to go forward respectfully.

Really? I’ve been interested in this for a very long time.

I picked up a little trick working at the porn store during college that has saved me a headache many times. All American paper currency has raised ridges within the clothing of the presidents and often in their hair. A simple run of a finger nail across it can verify if it is real or not. For some reason it’s been the one things counterfeiters can’t seem to replicate. Discreetly run your fingernail across the clothing and hair. If it’s real you will be able to feel and sometimes even hear the ridges and then verify by pen and the strip running through it.

Yes!!!! Every time I see a gentleman with a shaved head I think of George Constanza saying “I want to dip my bald head in oil and rub it all over your body” and I’ve always wanted to try it. Plus I have a serious thing for Stanley Tucci and Mark Strong! Some men can rock a shaved head so well.

Throughout the entirety of college I worked in an adult movie store and I often worked 12 hour shifts. Needless to say when times were slow I could often be found in the bathroom stall in the women’s room...

I LOVE it! Both giving and receiving. It’s a surefire way of getting me revved up and roaring! I want to hear all of it. But have always been very vocal during the act so perhaps that why I just adore it so much!

If you were a type of food, whether sweet or savory, what would you be and why? I think I would be caramel. I’m sweet but can be salty. I also can be bendy and fluid when I get warmed up! 🤣

Thank you all so much! TOB and the community are so wonderful!

Oh my gosh, thank you so much everyone!

I have a mirror in front of my bed just for this very reason! I like it to flow naturally. Too much eye contact and I feel self conscious. Not enough and I can’t feel the passion.

This is my favorite as well. Non-latex, thin, don’t break and won’t break the bank! Plus they have almost no scent to them. That’s one thing I can’t get over with Trojans, that scent.

Hmmm, you might be on the larger size. Most providers keep a sizable and vast array of covers on hand at all times and I try to keep as many sizes, flavors, colors, and latex free options as well. I even keep a few (expensive) female condoms on hand. It helps having a huge selection to avoid those awkward encounters.

I am a HUGE fan of Tom Segura’s standups on Netflix. He has three, Completely Normal, Mostly Stories, and Disgraceful, and each one of them is better than the last. He’s raunchy as hell and not very politically correct but my god is he funny! He also hosts a weekly podcast on YouTube with his wife, called Your Mom’s House that makes for a great way to kill an hour or two.

I made a pretty delicious gumbo in the crockpot for dinner! Soup and warm cuddles have to be the best parts of chilly days like this!

I am so sorry this happened to you and I hope it doesn’t continue to happen. Denver is amazing and we have some of the most superb and talented women in this place we call home. But with that can come some unsavory characters. And the same can be said of some of the gentleman here as well. They’re are some truly amazing gentleman here (you know who you are! )and some less so. It is unfortunately just what comes with being a part of the hobby. Don’t let this one experience sour you, there’s plenty of great providers out there!

Welcome and please enjoy yourself!

I second everyone on this post and wish I had the upvotes to give you all. I understand those providers who would choose to admit themselves from providing personal information. But at the end of the day I don’t mind providing verification. It’s nice to know that every provider here is of age and consenting. I love our little community, anything that protects it is welcome to me.

As a lady, I definitely prefer an hour or longer the first time I meet a gentleman. It’s nice to be able to chat for a while and set the mood. I find playtime to be far more passionate and sensual when both parties are relaxed, warmed up, and not rushed. And the hour also allows for a fun and slippery clean up in the shower, should it be required.

My thoughts are you should get for what you donate for. If you request the hour and prepare the proper donations for it there is no reason why you should be rushed out within 15 minutes, unless you were acting abusive or improper. However I must agree that this topic has been thoroughly gone over many times and will continue to be gone over again. Stick to your guns, gentleman. There are plenty of providers who have absolutely no problem spending full amounts of time with you!