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I have had my own business for over 15 years now- often at the end of the day I am alone in the office- Sometimes I like to hit the internet for some after work porn. Which may or may not lead into ...ya know- a little self love. The other day the UPS man said something to me to the effect of- What are you doing in there, watching porn and spanking it"- I kind of stopped dead in my tracks...Deer in the headlights look on my face....Was he kidding? Did he see me? Na...maybe- was he in the building? Was the door not locked ? So my question to you all-Have any of you ever been caught by someone you didn't expect to be caught by ?

Emily I agree with both bad boy and brown egg- Some of us can't see a outcall provider. You would be limiting your audience and I would question by going 100 % out call, would you be opening the door to safety issues.( I know you have already done out call and that it must have worked out ok or you would not be re considering it ) Its not to say with a in call situation you wouldn't have the same safety issues, but is that something you can control ? Is it safer to have a separate office? I have seen providers in separate offices and in their homes. Both have pros and cons. I know the last time a provider lead me to believe that the address I was going to was a residence and turned out to be a hotel, I almost didn't go in. I did go but it felt less peaceful, less like home. Cramped. Personally I like all the different ways each provider decorates their space- it speaks to me about who they are as a person and allows my mind to relax. As for changing your hours- have you had a consistent number of clients who want to come in at 6 am ? I personally have done appointments as early as 7:30 am. my thoughts for what they are worth..... Have a great weekend

I never expected praise for the question- nor did I ever say that I was a person who insisted on not using condoms. Lets break it down- : How many of you providers insist on condoms ? - I was hopeful that it would open a discussion about the need for condoms and use of them within the industry. Yeah- could it have been worded better- you bet! and as it was pointed out I had a opportunity to clarify and I didn't Does it tend to cause drama ? Well those answers could have gone both ways- with just a little bit more info about how providers / clients dealt with the situation. So no I am not clueless about sexual health- In fact very concerned about it.

Well thanks everyone- this question went horribly wrong- however any answer I give to defend myself or the question will surely be met with pitchforks. I am not even gonna try. I think what really bothered me the most was all the negative comments and the subtle hints that some providers may ban me because of a question. However there is some good information here as JRWolfe pointed out as well as some others. Sorry about the dumb post Thanks for liking my Avatar

Its not a stupid question- Its something everyone should be worried about, think about and insist on. There are people out there who don't use them, or try to not use them. I however am not one of them. Don't judge me before you know me- wow

He tends to come back in the evenings to pick up outgoing packages- the time varies- He is silent- opens the door and grabs the box. He may have started to walk through the building looking for someone to sign for something he had missed delivering in the am. That has happened before. Just the fact that its still rolling around my brain troubles me because in my head its real . If he did see something- he would have indeed got the hell out of there.

Welcome Reese - Let me know when you visit Colorado

thinking..... thinking..... Does my mom count ?

Tell me what kind are your favorite !?

If any of you providers buys a chair like that and offers that kind of fun- send me a PM, I'm in! Rub a dub dub!

What I love about this thread is how much people actually care about themselves, others and their families. I always cancel when I am sick- even the slightest. What if you get sicker while you are with them ? Will they put you all on the " I never want to see him again list " ? I don't think I have even seen a provider who has been ill- and if i did, I would leave gracefully

Most of those devices including your phone when using will store that data...using it to better the service however you can shut that off and erase it from your google history. Every word or sentence you have ever verbally asked your phone is logged. Big brother is watching

I am not a huge football fan- but I did watch this movie- Good Stuff. I also started watching Ballers on HBO some time ago which gives you hints to what draft day is about - I was really hoping this post was about draft beer....

What makes me happy? That is a hard question these days as the last few years have been filled with so much Unhappiness. When I really think about where I am most happy- its a combination of things, people and places. Taking a day off from work and playing with the ladies, I like meeting new friends. Taking some time to challenge myself hiking a trail in the Mtns. each time going further, and higher. Getting some good quality time with my kids. ( Who are not kids anymore ). When my body or my mind needs rest, a good movie is good for your soul and sleep. Actual sleep that does actually come, not the usual tossing and turning. Last of all exercise and music. Going to the gym and listening to some music. I don't play in bands anymore but dammit I still want to. My dog.... Shes gone now but her memory makes me happy

Welcome ! Welcome !

All the answers seem to be right on target and everyone seems to agree for the most part- However when taking you up on the shower after- A hairbrush- comb- something....I don't know how many times i have left with wet hair only to look like teen wolf less than 30 minutes later. ( Yes, this is tricky because you almost have to have those cheap throw away ones because of cooties !)

That is true- I stand corrected.

After careful review of the add...How many more spelling mistakes does it take for the "stay away" alarm ⏰ to go off? I like me an intelligent woman 🚺 Lol 😅 Look around TOB. You will find something better.

Good Job! Welcome

I see lots of people online making comments using personal messenger. Can anyone tell me what app they use to access TOB?

That's how I entered this Hobby. I might even now say its an addiction that has lead to some wonderful new friends and experiences with more to come. Heck, last month I saw two providers in one day- Each of them brought something completely different to the table. It was my day off- so why not.

Our Data being sold is one thing- I was more thinking private access to TOB. Ease of navigating without a PC, mostly on a phone. And no- I don't like to leave a electronic trail. I will check out Surf Easy

A combination of professional and snapshot photos. The professional shows a bit of the erotic side of the individual. A bit sultry, kinky and sexy all on display for the world to see. The snapshot shows the personality of the individual. The laugh, the smile, they way they pose...says allot. Please no more bathroom selfies... I am sure any of the guys on here would be more than happy to take a few snapshots of you with your phone!

I am a nerd of sorts and watch the Big Bang Theory often. I identify with the characters....However I can't understand any of the math they ever put on the whiteboards ?

The pictures are part of it. The reviews are another part. But the initial contact and reply can easily change it all. Just like when you see posts talk about " No one liner introductions" the same applies to your response. I have stopped dead in my tracks after a less than intelligent reply via text message or email...thinking " Really ?" I like a intelligent woman