DITTO - Coconut oil is the best and I use it for all of my Tantra Massages. I am lucky enough where I live to get fresh home-made coconut oil! There's nothing better!
Be careful with essential oils as others have commented. Do not use cinnamon, clove, or peppermint, they can burn or irritate the delicate tissues. You need to have some knowledge of essential oils before you start using them. Or play it safe with lavender. This is one of the few that is safe enough to use on babies. Or better yet, take a class from Kyla Young as she mentioned above.
