Barbi

Honestly ladies do not want to see men who say such comments sleeping with the fishes instead most would prefer that he live a long life in order so he can think about what he said for a very long time...LOL....Only joking of course.... However seeing this made me realize there have been times here where I was less than considerate of others here feelings with some of the things that I said because I was having a difficult time in my own life and instead of facing it, I projected my anger onto others and for that I do apologize to anyone here who I was less than compassionate about their situation and I hope that you will accept my apology for that...We all have our own issues we each have to deal with that no one else is aware of and that is why it is important instead of taking it out on someone else we think of what we say before we say it....And as that chapter in my life is over and I have come to grips with that fact, I just wanted to thank you all for putting up with my less than positive attitude on occasion and if you ever need to vent just know I am here and would be happy to return the favor that those here did for me....While we never truly express the importance of having good people in our lives, this place is a place filled with wonderful people and thank you all for taking the time to share a little piece of your life with the rest of us, as that is what makes this place so very special...I do hope all of you have a wonderful weekend and thanks again for being you....

Personally I do not think it matters from what side the perspective is from when it comes to issues like this and it is not something that needs to be discussed in a public forum....It seems to me that there are too many people here who are trying to set standards for something that is something that is personal and this is starting to remind me of government regulations...There are some areas in our lives that there is not a place for government and their regulations and this is one of those areas, so lets not try to bring that here or you might find that many people who feel the same stop coming around here, unless that is what you are trying to do with your inquiries....

It seems as it is possible there could be some fundamental changes happening here again, as it does seem like a few things have changed and it is possible that things could actually be returning to normal around here again....Just an observation which I have noticed coming about the last week and I think that I know what that is but really what do any of us truly know about those influences that occur in our lives, not much as I discovered recently....Honestly there is no reason to ask such questions when you come here like that, there is not one thing that can be put into words that make the hobby enjoyable to any one....It is a personal thing that can not be regulated or reproduced, it is very personal and it is only by realizing that will you ever understand what the hobby is about....Its personal and it is something that is different for every person....Just as no two people are the same, nor are the reasons that brings one back here the same either....Thats the one thing that I can say that I have learned being here as long as I have been and you will come to realize that in time....Not being rude or anything else but there are something that can only be discovered through experience and that is one of them.... And no offense dear you sound like a second grade teacher asking a question like that.....No offense intended but that is exactly what it sounds like....

^^^ Nice one Boink...Stab & Turn All At Once....Bravo, Bravo!!!!! +1 ^^^

Happy Birthday Gr8owl....Hope you have a blessed day filled with joy and happiness and lots of love of families and good friends....

I am sorry but I do not feel that someone posting a photograph of something that they find attractive here should be considered to be an attack on any of the women here....It certainly did not seem to me that he was doing it to hurt anyone elses feelings or to call anyone here out for any reason....It certainly is nothin like those who continually bring up age here, that is should be viewed as shaming because they do it in such a way that it is meant as a person attack on anyone who is over the age of 12 (sorry that was supposed to be 21) but of course no one takes offense to that.....When someone posts a photo of someone they find attractive here, it is not done to shame anyone it is simply saying he finds that particular photo to be attractive and from what i could see it was not done to shame any of the ladies here.....We should all stop allowing ourselves to feel inferior because of our bodies, the fact that we are all here shows that it does not matter what we look like, what our bodies look like or what race we are or even the color of our hair, as there is always going to be someone who finds each of us attractive in our own way and that is why the gentlemen keep coming back here....It is the diversity of this site that keeps all of us coming back here and we need to stop allowing something that someone else might say make us feel badly about ourselves instead just be proud of the fact you are who you are and there are many men here who have shown each of us how special they think we are....There are some here who have been using our insecurities in an effort to promote their ideals of female perfection but that is not the way all men feel....That is why it is important that we all remember this is a personal choice we make that should never be dictated by someone else who tries to inflict their ideals upon anyone else....Be proud of who you are and how you look as that is why you are are and why you continue to come back....No two people are going to find the same two things attractive or sexy for the same two reasons and while photos are nice the truth is they rarely look like that in real life which is something any of the gentleman here have been likely to discover when the fall for the fake pictures and should be a legitimate reason why they complain....This is not something that we need regulated for us, it is something that we should all be able to decide for ourselves without the interference of anyone else who is doing nothing more than trying to influence choices we are more than capable of making for ourselves....Diversity is why this site is here and why we are all here....Dont take offense to the beauty that someone else has, as there are many who find each of us just as beautiful and they are willing to show us the fact that they appreciate the beauty we each have inside...Well all live in a world where social correctness is being dictated by businesses who are trying to take away our rights to choose for ourselves what it is we find attractive or what it is we want to eat or what we want to drive....They are eliminating our rights to choose for ourselves those things we want without having them dictated to us.....We are all of legal age so we are more than capable of making personal choices for ourselves, we dont need anyone else to ever make us feel less because of the choices we choose to make.....

Indeed it is not....Nor does youth promise such things either.....and it certainly seems there is one thing that only comes with age and that is wisdom....the wisdom to see the world and those around you for what they truly are and in making such a discovery you find that it does not matter either....

There are some people who are blessed with great genes who are timeless and there are others who are not so lucky....Age itself should never be a deciding issue but instead it should be the attractiveness of the person that caught your eye in the first place....Beauty and attractiveness of a person are not established by their age but comes from inside instead and is a quality that shines through at any age....Just saying....

Well maybe I am wrong but that does not seem like it is much of a true addiction like that article is attempt to say that it is....To me an addiction that which is suffered by corporations and the government as they devise more ways for me to continue to destroy the lives of the people in this country by regulation or criminal sanctions that keep everyone down from achieving the American dream of financial freedom which is they only true freedom left in the world, all the rest is nothing but an illusion intended to hold us all back from becoming what we always wanted to be in our lives....That is what we have all been sold by them our entire lives and as we get older they kill our hopes and dreams in order to holds us all back from enjoying the same things that they enjoy....The things that are only possible with financial freedom....So maybe it is time that we start reminding them all who it is that pays their salaries....It is the people of this country and our money pays them not the other way around....Maybe it is time that we all consider a revolt but of course I am not suggesting violence as that is just another way that they can exercise their control.....What I am suggesting with get their attention far more than anything else we could ever do....I am advocating that everyone decide to organize together and for just one day every man, woman and child in this country just take the day and stay home....Dont go to work...Dont break the law...Just stay home and remember what it is like to enjoy your family and friends....No driving, nothing to give them an excuse to mess with you...Just stay home and enjoy the day or evening....That is the best self care that anyone could ever do and it would make a point to those who are trying to rule the world with our money and control what that which we have earned...If we stood together and did that as a country it would cost big business and they government close to a billion dollars and that is the only thing that we can do in order so they understand we mean what we say....Its time that they be reminded they work for us, not the other way around!!! .

But the story says he had a weekly habit.....To me that denotes hobbying once a week...Or no????

Wow $20,000 over 6 years thats a hell of an addiction.....Thats around $3,500 a year.....Seems rather inexpensive for a weekly habit to me....

Found it interesting that the former Hollywood Madame herself used this situation was a way to get herself back in the spotlight again but discussing the views on legalization of the industry because of that situation...While it seems that history in her case has been rewritten about whether or not she actually handed over her black book of names because I seem to remember that there was a lot of names that did come out in that case but besides that she is completely ignoring what the real problem was with that situation which is the aspect that human trafficking was involved and from the tone of what was written it made it seem like Kraft was a regular there which makes plausible deniability to be a minor problem that has been pretty much overlooked by Fleiss...While the wealthy in this country seem to think they can get away with anything, that should not be the case when what they are doing involves those who do not wish to participate in such situations, which is what actually is what human trafficking entails....This also brings up another point with regards to legalization as discussed as it involves government regulation which everyone needs to remember was responsible for over looking the corporate fraud that created the housing bubble in this country in 2007, which caused the biggest economic losses suffered in the history of this country...So while the top 5% of the most wealthy in this country have had an increase in their income of about 10% over the last decade, but as a result of this stunting the US economy every man, woman and child in this country as suffered a $70,000 loss off the income levels they had 10 years ago....So given the fact that it is the very same group of people who are now trying to convince us of how great it would be for such things to be legal that should be enough reason to send up a huge red warning sign that something in this situation is amiss as clearly their last concern in this situation is doing what is best for anyone of us here but instead is nothing more than their greed as they impose their regulations in one of the few areas left in our life where we can actually control the choices we make without their interference and need for government regulations in the most intimate choices we make in our lives....While most are not aware of this being true if you review the information on those who are behind this sudden legalization craze you will be shocked to discover that is in fact that case as they try to gain control of every aspect of freedom we still have left in our lives....Just saying everyone needs to consider this fact when they are considering the possibility of legalization of any of the vices that they have made certain was illegal all these years or you might find that there is no freedoms we have left in this country and nothing is scared as it should be...

Indeed but the information about retirement communities is not been reported correctly as the largest group with STIs actually the youngest group of those who are being tracking for STI infection today....Now it seems the highest number of STIs in this country now are that of the young people in this country between the ages of 15-24 which now account for 50% of all new STIs, although they represent just 25% of the sexually experienced population...Young people aged 13–24 accounted for about 21% of all new HIV diagnoses in the United States in 2011 and an that figure has been on the rise since that time according to and CDC the national reporting agency and CAPP the best source of information in Colorado.... Additionally, there seems to be some conflicting information being provided to the public by some in the medical community about the medically effective measure to prevent the spread of STIs, to date there are there are only two vaccines that have been proven effective in preventing the spread of viral STIs, which includes HIV) in this country: hepatitis B and human papillomavirus (HPV)....To date there have been no other medications that are . being prescribed in this country that have been proven effective as a preventative measure in the spread of STIs, according to the top researchers in the fields of infectious disease control... While no one here would ever dream of exploring such things with anyone under the age of 21 this does show there is certainly an inherient risk involved when such things are explored with the younger and inexperience within a culture....While I am not an expert on such things it is not that hard to find out correct information for such things on national and international level by just researching the information available on the internet and reviewing the actual sources of conflicting information provided to by any medical professional....

Oh Laci.....I want to watch....You are so much fun I bet it it would be a blast watching you with anyone, (over 21 yrs of course)....It is funny that the age thing keeps coming up again and again when the answer is to that issue is very simple and it really does not seem like it is rocket science.....As everyone here has their own preferences and tastes of the type of lady they desire to meet, the act that there is such a diverse selection of different ladies here of all ages....All different shapes and sizes and each of them are very talented, wonderful and beautiful in their own way so it is difficult to believe that you are unable to find one of them who meets with your obviously high standards, so with that said, maybe it is time that you consider the fact that possibly the ladies here are not the problem.....Just saying.... Anyway, I do hope everyone here is doing well and nice to see everyone survived the party weekend and managed to make it here bright and early this Monday morning....May you all have a blessed day....

Wow that is so cool....thanks for sharing I love all the cool Barbie stuff there is.....She leads a charmed life just like I have thanks to those who are part of this community.....Thank you to everyone, its great to be back home again....

Indeed I will have to see what I can find on that and share it with everyone here later.....

Would anyone here expect different from me???? Hi everyone I am back and wanted to wish everyone here a great spring....

Darn there was a party and I didnt check my messages so I missed it....Well congrats Boink and just wanted to say this place would not be the same without you so glad it didnt Y2k ya today and thanks for always being here for all of us, youre awesome....And so is everyone else, youre all a great group of people and I am honored to be a part of this little place in the cloud that we have been blessed to have....Thanks everyone and have a great day....

This is as bad as that Dru Magnolia or what ever her name was who posted the lovely message about clients a few years ago on Craigslist but at least that one was humorous instead of just being ugly about things....Different strokes for different folks i guess...Everyone has a bad day but there is really no reason to come on here and act like that toward everyone and then not even apologize when you come back is even worse....I am sorry you are having a bad time and while it is true things have changed here, they have changed everywhere and there is no reason to shot yourself in the foot over it....People come and go, its a fact of life here just like any other place where people come together....

The problem I foresee with this situation and an apology fee is the fact if it was in deed a bad situation offering any type of compensation could create a problem.....Dont want any money transferring hands for any reason if it is a potential sting....Maybe I am wrong thinking that way but it seems like it would just not end up being such a good thing.....Just saying

Sorry to hear about your inconvenience but it is good that the lady you were trying to see is okay and that you are too....Maybe try again another day when the trip is more comfortable and she is too with her situation....Just a thought....

And of course Mr. Gr8wl, you have hit that right on the head.....Sorry took this off track but seemed to be appropriate after a few of the other posts here....Good time for me to call it a night and wish everyone here well this evening....Have a wonderful evening everyone...

And another thing that speaks highly for government regulation in the industry.....For anyone who does not remember what happened with "The Mustang Ranch" after it was seized by the federal government, I suggest you research that before you consider legalization of anything else....The federal government failed to operate "The Mustang Ranch" at a profit and that was one of the biggest lies told to the American people of that decade....Honestly that is all that needs to be said about that.....

I think you mean see more clients, not less dear...And yes the rest if pretty much correct and those who are looking to convince us that is such a good thing, are nothing more than corporate middlemen who are looking to get rich as glorified pimps with some fancy government title for what they do.... Testing is essential for any professional and that is not limited by industry, it is just part of being a professional... While carrying liability insurance would be great, there is not any offered at this time and anyone who says otherwise is not being honest about what it is they are doing.... All the fancy legal forms of the past, didnt cut it and what is happening now is just trying to cover up the real situation as they try to convince us that its a good thing....I do not see the government meddling into anyones life as being a good thing....Look at what happened with the markets in 2007, all because of greed and the corruption within the government and it seems that it is setting up to do that same again but this time because of the farming bills being passed at this time...Just saying anyone who has doubts about what is being set up right now just hold off making a choices about legalization of anything else in this country . until we see what happens with the government insured loan programs, especially in the farming communities as that seems to be the next area that is currently being set up that will send this country into yet another recession due to more government corruption and corporate greed.....

Seriously do you actually expect any of us to believe that the legalization of anything has lead to Anonymity???? That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard in my life...A comment like that would only come from someone who has positioned themselves in the market to profit off of government regulation, not anyone who would ever be a legitimate provider or client here...There has never been a situation where government regulation has ever led to more Anonymity in anyway shape or form....Between this post and that of the established provider setting someone up, it seems alike the propaganda scare tactics of those who have a stake in profiting from government regulation, not those who are currently legitimate providers and clients.... It certainly seems there is a real push on with the propaganda right now from those who are seeking to profit by obtaining the support of those of us here...Watch out everyone this is starting to seem like the same type of propaganda push that was being fed to the Germans in the 1930s and we all have read how well that turned out for them...We have all been around the block enough times to know that government regulation of anything does not make it better, instead it makes for a higher cost to the consumers in the end and that has been historically shown to be true in all vices, including the recent ones....