gettin' up there-2233

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  1. Posted

    Ok, sorry for the sacrilege, but I have to share an MLK re-interpretation I heard a comedian do.  The comedian, whose name I do not recall, said that after MLK died it was discovered he had extra-marital affairs with at least a couple of women. The comedian said in light of this discovery, MLK's famous speech in front of the Lincoln Memorial had always been misinterpreted as "Free at last, free at last!" when he was really just bragging to the crowd: "Three at last, three at last!"😛   

    I thought this would be a good one for this board. 

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  2. Posted

    On February 28, 2017 at 5:45 PM, Badboy said:

    Interesting, the only two female respondees (who are the only ones who actually matter), both said that they did not like 50s.  That is a surprise to me, because I go to a lot of trouble to get nice new $50 bills for my visits, thinking that they were the perfect compromise between a giant pile of smaller bills and a few $100s that you can't seem to get stores to take anymore.  Live and learn.  I guess it is back to portraits of Benjamin (although bearing portraits of Ulysses was such a great metaphor for my travels to visit the sirens).

    Love the metaphor!  I may have to switch from Benjamins to Ulysseses. 

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    Maybe Mag is moving on from contributing to TOB but not saying goodbye to the hobby?  It's not clear to me what he thought was no longer fun and what he's saying goodbye to. Maybe he's still going to share $ and dick with the ladies?

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    I would have posted a NCNS review, as I did not long ago after a NCNS happened to me after a period of no satisfactory explanation and since the provider had near-NCNS's with me before with last minute cancellations.  

    The "maybe the guy is a creep" excuse doesn't fly, because if she knew the client was a creep she never should have scheduled the appointment and if she found out the guy was a creep after she made the appointment, she could have cancel before the guy is already on his way.  

    The NCNS by either the client or provider remains one of the rudest, inconsiderate occurrences and it is too bad providers can't easily call out such jerks.  We guys, who are spending lots of $ and time planning and anticipating a meeting, deserve to know if a provider has a pattern of NCNS.  

    I agree with Lucy that there are much worse reviews for a provider than a NCNS.  I have scheduled appointments with providers who have NCNS reviews but at least I know I'm taking that risk and I appreciate the info and warning, especially if it has occurred more than once.  My experience with these providers has generally been good.  Maybe I've been lucky or maybe the provider learned the importance of good communication because of the NCNS review she received.

     

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    Alrighty then.  How wonderful for you that you are so wonderful.

    WTF are you doing posting on a board geared towards adult service providers, then, if you don't intend to visit them, and intend only to criticize those who do? 

    You, sir or madam, are a troll.  Begone.

    +1. Well stated!  What a pain in the ass!  He/she who is so wonderful and always honest gets to live that wonderful life. I'm sure we are all envious of his/her plan for lifelong monogamy. Those of us who have made the decision to do otherwise will enjoy the hobby we've chosen and come to terms with this each in our own way.  If JoDoe is struggling with this, take it elsewhere. Now you've gotten some of our favorite escorts questioning their participation in our deception!  I'm just waiting to see the provider ad that states:  "Single men only!" 😝

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    I have asked a great many women who have not advertised their interest in Greek whether they were into it and I have never found one who was interested. In fact, I don't know why I even bother to ask.  It seems if they're into it, they advertise it. But maybe it's an issue that "size matters" and if you're "2 small" that's a good thing for the lady who is not much into it. So 2 Big, I think you're SOL hoping you'll uncover the latent Greek goddess. 😝

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    I remember when I was a newbie and P411 had an "activities enjoyed in private" list that really meant something, there was a term "around the world".  Not knowing what it meant, I looked it up on Urban Dictionary, which said it meant:  having oral, vaginal, and anal sex in the same session. So when I was doing doggie with a provider who had this listed in her P411 profile, I knocked on the back door and got a quick "Not there baby". It turned out that P411 had another definition for that term that didn't include back-door action. 

       Actually, the current list of P411 activities does include "Greek goddess", which is one of the few terms left that means something.  Otherwise, if I don't have an idea before the session, a little light anal finger play will get the provider to respond in delight or make it clear that's not her thing.   Or I've sometimes asked the provider if she's into ass play or Greek. No one's ever been bothered, as far as I can tell, with being asked this simple question. 

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  12. Posted

    Not much benefit? WTF are you doing here?

    The same benefits you get from discussing the topic on TOB (& similar boards) can be obtained in a frank conversation with a friend: reviews, referrals, best practices, etc. One of the advantages of discussing these with a friend is that he (or she) has a better understanding of your tastes than John Q poster and has your best interests at heart.

    Are there risks? Sure! Do you ever step off the curb?

    You don't have to remind me about risk-taking as I, like all of us here, engage in an illegal activity that would be additionally upsetting or humorous to friends and, as others have pointed out, might lead to my outing intentionally or otherwise. I would be happy to talk with another hobbiest in real life but I don't know any. I enjoy talking to providers about my and their experience in this very interesting and weird hobby world but I will not discuss this with even my lifelong friends. Assuming they're not hobbiests, there's no benefit trying to help them understand my "aberrant" behavior.  But sharing thoughts and experiences with so many hobbiests and providers on this board has been very much appreciated.  And if I ever hear a friend mention "UTF" or "CIM" I'll know he might be a brother 😊

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  13. Posted

    +1!  I think my friends would be shocked and upset, but at the same time jealous if they new what I was up to.  Only a few trusted providers know my real name, as I've hosted a few times when my wife was out of town.  I've never shared my hobby with any male though. I'm a risk taker but not if there is not a payoff to taking a risk, only a liability.  Seeing an escort has quite a nice payoff; talking about my hobby with another guy is a risk without much benefit. 

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  14. Posted

    Yes, I'm joining the "I miss Kai" crowd. She was terrically hot!  It has been a couple of years for me as well. Since she didn't answer her phone any longer I assume she moved out of town, probably back to Southern California where she was from. 

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    I was wondering if anyone knew of an FBSM provider that provides UTF on the flip.  For me this is the ultimate service.  Would like to find a regular.

    Toni Grant offers this. She only advertises on p411. It has been quite a while since I've seen her but her massage was first-rate too. 

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    You disagree. That's obvious. Now you look like a foaming-at-the-mouth jackass, who can't accept that someone doesn't think like him. Is it worth getting put on several "do not see" lists? (shake my head)

    I'm fine with someone disagreeing with me. Just surprised and having fun with the seriousness with which this topic has been treated, including myself for falling prey and getting too sucked in. Clearly not my preferred sucked in. Lighten up there, buddy, and avoid the name calling. 

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  19. Posted

    I actually do not find this creepy. I know if I post a photo on the web it's out there for all to see, print, jerk off to etc etc. I may not have control over who sees the photos, but I do have control over the photos I choose to post. If you want to save a photo of my ass, so be it...

    BTW I have had my photo on a trading card someone had made that I signed. I wasn't really bothered.

     

    Thank you, Abigail, for being such a shining light in an otherwise  surprisingly dark forest. It's so nice to hear that you don't feel anyone has stolen from you what you have offered up for free and have no fear that a picture of your tush will not one day come back to bite you on your, well, tush:)

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  20. Posted

    Like I said in my post that was "lacking real thought" we don't have control over the level of protection of the photos that we post. I am also certain that %100 of providers post pictures to lure in clients not provide wank fodder. There is also this thing you guys are overlooking called permission. Saying out loud that you collect pictures of women you have seen without their knowledge is creepy. You know the not creepy really simple answer is to ask for permission, it should be easy especially if you're collecting "trophies". If like you said most ladies would be flattered, why not just be certain and ask? Those who are actually into it might actually surprise you with photos that are just for you and you can respect the wishes of those who aren't.

    I am totally aware that the internet is mostly forever but it's the best means I have to do my job. I protected my photos on my site the best I could and there are still ways to snag the photos. I also don't really like to think about all the random strangers that have access and what they have done with my photos, it is creepy and I have no minimal over it. It happens and I know but it doesn't make it not creepy and it's something I would rather not know. Not everyone can be trusted and not everyone steals photos for a good cause. What happens when a pic collectors computer is compromised? A stolen laptop or snooping spouse? Some ladies may not be comfortable with that.

    Sorry that my discomfort and my opinion that is "lacking real thought" is disagreeable to you but thanks for the slight. The "consensus" of ladies may only be two but it was two of the three that actually posted in this thread. Our opinions weren't random either, both came from long standing providers who actively participate (or did at least), if you need to put others down to support your case did you really have one to begin with? My opinion doesn't matter less because you disagree with it.

    I do apologize for suggesting your first post in this thread was "lacking real thought", as that was presumptuous of me, since there was no way I could know how much thought went into your post. What I should have said, was your post didn't demonstrate much thought, given it consisted of 4 sentences, the first two of which was only a lament that you didn't have control of pictures you post on the Internet.  Your two sentences devoted to the question Fork asked as to whether his practice was creepy seemed to indicate that it was creepy not that I may save pics of providers I have seen, but that I unabashedly admitted to the practice. I suspect you meant that the practice was inherently creepy, otherwise my admitting that I did this would not likely be itself creepy.  In the end, this thread only serves to illustrate what is creepy to one may not be to another and that some of us supposedly open-minded folks are quick to criticize others for something as trivial as saving a body shot a provider willingly put on the internet.  

    OMG, can you imagine if someone cracked the code to my laptop and my hobby email password and found body pics that could be associated with an ad of a provider?  To think of the jeopardy the provider would be in that someone, like LE, might be able to link the pic with an actual provider ad and obtain the provider's business name and phone number!  Oh wait, I forgot, such information is available to LE, as it is to all of us, every time we open up TOB, BP, etc.

    I found your suggestion funny that now all the providers I have seen will know the horrible truth about me:  that the guy they had fun with over and over again and who helped them sustain the lifestyle they enjoyed, that guy was, gasp, a picture saver!  The shivers that will surely descend down their spines!  I'm sure it would be like finding out they almost had a date with a serial killer! 

    And yes, "asking permission is cool", just gratuitous if no permission is needed, as in no harm done except perceived by the slightly paranoid out there.  But for fun, I just might pop the question to the next provider I see as we're in a post-coital snuggle:  "Hey, babe, you know those sexy pics of you in your ad that you had professionally done and that make us guys lose our senses and risk our marriages, careers, and financial well-being?  Would you mind if I hang on to that unidentifiable pic so I can remember how beautiful you were years from now when my hobby days are done?  And is it okay if I hang on to the P411"OK" you gave me even though you may soon retire?  And can I keep those notes I placed in your P411 file, you know, my notes that say: "Great ass!  And a BJ like no other!"?  

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  21. Posted

    I'm surprised that a couple of the ladies and guys found saving pics of ladies I may wish to remember to be creepy.  And I disagree with Lucy that "Published ads are not fair game".  Regarding the latter, the pics the providers post of themselves are out on the internet and may float around in the public domain forever.  The pics are quite harmless, as they rarely show a face, are not attached to a real identity, and are barely risqué compared to all the porn out there.  They surely don't represent a "spank bank" to me, as there is a lot more stimulating stuff on line if it's self-pleasuring I want.  They are, as gr8owl states, mere mementos of a lovely woman I had the pleasure of spending time with, similar to the pics I take when I travel of other lovely things in this world I have had the pleasure of seeing/experiencing and would like to better remember as the years pass than depending only on my memory.  Just like my travel photos or that wedding album somewhere, I haven't bothered to look at the pics I've saved because I'm still active and still fairly well remember all the special ladies I have met.  Maybe I'll never bother to look at my file, but I'm happy I have tasteful pics of my favorite ladies should I choose to look back whenever.  And when my horny buddies email me pics of hot babes that seem beyond the reach of us middle-aged guys, I'm happy to know I have a real collection of beauties that I've enjoyed getting to know, both physically and mentally.  I would think a woman I've spent time with would be flattered by the compliment I'm paying her by feeling the time I've spent with her was to me more than a fleeting encounter and worthy of savoring the memory.  It may be creepy that I'm unfaithful to my wife, it may be creepy that I've turned to paying money to spend time with women, but it's not creepy that many women have benefitted from their relationship with me, financially and maybe in other ways, and its not creepy that I've saved some of the pics the ladies have freely posted for all the world to see.

     

    And Fork, don't be intimidated by a "consensus" of 2 ladies who find the practice to be creepy and, of course, don't delete a damn thing because of two random opinions that lack much real thought. 

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  22. Posted

    As long as they are legal Fork.

    Personally in my real dating life. I take nude pictures of all the men I have had sex with . They are in a manila envelope, marked "don't open" in case I kick the bucket and family are going through my stuff.

    I have visions of me in a nursing home at 90 years old. Rolling my wheel chair around the halls, holding my envelope of pictures of hot men, and telling everyone. "I had them all!"

    From a provider stand point...I had a client that was taking me on a tour of his house. We enter the man cave, his garage. It was nicely done, I will say that. Then he shows me his cork board on the wall. He had printed my pictures out on scalloped photo paper and pinned them to the board. (insert sound from Psycho here). I suddenly felt like I was in a bad version of CSI. If he didn't have several P411 okays, I would have bolted for sure.

    Oh, I definitely want to be in your manila envelope!  Does that mean I'm going to have to get a professional photographer and plan on some photo shopping?  I don't want your nursing home friends to say:  "Ewww, you went to bed with him??  Lol!

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  23. Posted

    Yes, I do the same. All the ladies look their sexy best in those pics, which is just the way I want to remember the ladies I have had so much fun with.  Some guys save baseball cards, some guys save liquor bottles. I guess the only difference is they can showcase their collections at home, while mine exists on my hobby email. 😉

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