Wanted to say to the TOB team and start a topic I haven't seen really written about. I'm a long time lurker of TOB just really have not had anything to contribute to the community or hobbyist until recently. First and foremost, I wanted to thank so many of you for contributing some great advice, helping me get through the hobby and keep my "bad choices" and "TOFTT" experiences to a minimum. You all, including the girls... have helped me through some very tough times. With that being said, yes.... I am married. Not really afraid to admit that part. Things are what they are, and although I have a healthy sex life with my wife... I have to come to realize that I really enjoy variety. No other way to say it, which is really what brings me into the hobby. I think this is really a common battle ground with a lot of men. I have come to really appreciate my ATF providers as they know some keys to how to conduct business with men that are in relationships.... i.e... private incall locations, ability to shower, men's bodywash available, deodorant available, drinks available, etc... bottomline... NO frilly smells! This really brings my question, to everyone in the group and the hobby, but more so directed to the girls... Girls, you have to assume that at least 80% (might be a high estimate) of the guys you are seeing are in some sort of relationship, why in the fricken world would ever drench yourself in perfume, have girly lotions to rub the guy down in, list goes on and on...etc...??? I completely get the fact that you all want to smell good for us... (really appreciate that part)...but there really can be a tactful line drawn to what is TOO much! lol.... I hate really having to worry about coming home smelling like another woman, nothing makes the situation more awkward than meeting a provider and all of sudden getting hit by this wall of perfume, then immediately thinking in my head... holy shit, how am I going to make this go away?! Need to go to the gym, work out...sweat, smell like a man again, go roll in dirt.... throw diesel on myself... who the fk knows, just need to do something to get this damn smell off me before I get home to my wife and have a ton of explaining to do before my ass gets thrown to the wolves! If anything, I hope there may be some good stories that come out of this post... but at a very minimum, girls... take some notes as I'm extremely surprised I haven't seen this talked about before on here! This is really a BIG deal to Most if not ALL guys! And again... thank you to the board!
