BigBaldBlk

I think the fact that you come on here seeking advice really tells/shows what type of provider you are ~P. I'm like others, if I hear a lady say we are close or up against the clock, what do I want to do? I better say, yes, I'd like to extend the time or as Destiny said, take care of myself.

I'm so glad you brought this up. Shhhh, it's a secret, but let me take a stab at this*: Black Women - have 2.5 tits. It's great playing with the nub Latin Women - their azz crack goes right up to their shoulder blade. Great for Greek Asian Women - have six belly buttons Italian/Greek/Arabic Women - all grunt like donkeys when performing K9 European Women - love when you sing ♪Love on the Rocks♪...and they all have six toes on each foot *No need for sarcastic font on/off for the above. Ask a stupid question, get a stupid response!

I didn't want to hijack another thread, but a few times every year (just like Groundhog Day), some of the same threads show up dressed differently. This time it's the use of (or over use) of the word FANTASTIC in reviews. Here is a little analogy. Let's say you were given tickets to Red Rocks for three consecutive nights and hear Led Zeppelin, Jay-Z and Kenny Rogers play. YOU personally enjoyed all three concerts and if someone were to ask you to rate them, you would say they all were FANTASTIC. If a guy who likes only Rap music were asked about all three concerts, he may say Jay-Z was FANTASTIC and LZ & KR were just alright. Same with a guy who likes Country music, saying Kenny Rogers was FANTASTIC and LZ & Jay-Z were just alright. Now, take 100 people from all walks of life who like all kind of music and they too were at Red Rocks. Since this group isn't necessarily fond of one type of music, couldn't they say that all three concerts were FANTASTIC? To me, I think this is how/why so many ladies have warranted FANTASTIC ratings. Yes, there are some who will white knight a lady and some have other ulterior motives. But collectively, if a lady has 80% or higher FANTASTIC ratings from a myriad of clients, one could/should expect the same. Thoughts?...Chip away!

I can't speak for the ladies, but I'm sure they view the blacklist forums as not the gospel, but just a tool in their arsenal. Just like you may see a lady who has questionable reviews, ladies may see the gent if the reason he is on the blacklist is not dangerous, jealous provider etc...jmo

If I reviewed the lady in question I will refer them back to the review. If not, I try and be as vague as possible. No matter what, it's always a YMMV with ladies so what I experience someone else may not...and vice-versa.

Welcome to TOB Layla!

When I first started out, I would say some ladies were perceived intimidating. Since I was a newbie, I'd say some ladies larger than life board personas made it somewhat intimidating. After I got more confident in myself on the board (and BCD), then my perceived worries went away. BTW, that must of been one helluva HJ sampler you provided. I'd call him a schmuck too for not wanting to taste the whole buffet!!

That's the way it is in my household to Nusa! Ditto

Very sage advice Kelly. To the OP, if they seek no reviews now, but have been around awhile (like Ms French and many others) you can almost be assured they are legit. You can also see if they have previous reviews as well. They probably won't list their menu like ladies who do allow reviews, but that's just a risk/reward gamble you have to ponder.

Not splitting hairs, but actually, Mona's handle is not Camel Toe Monroe, it's just an avatar message in which she (or any of us) can change at any time. My handle came about when a well-known provider asked me to review her before I registered with TOB. She said, well your big bald and black. I thought it was funny and voilà, my TOB handle name appeared!

Nusa and all, nice emoticons. I always love the ones in our chat room. Not ASCII, but fun nonetheless!

Good grades are always great to Sophia!

<<<<< Likes ladies with bad grades bra sizes...C's, D's, DD's, DDD's & F's ...

While ladies (and gents) will bareback and do other unsafe activites that could put us all at risk lilithia I am so glad I play in "the small pond". If ladies won't provide a simple request for another, it's not a threat at all that I won't see them, it's a promise!

These threads come up a few times a year. Not that Destiny needs a White (or Black ) Knight to defend her, but I've never heard her say she wouldn't give a reference. She does it differently, but I don't think she's ever declined giving a reference if a lady or gent has asked. Now, I would be very interested in a list of ladies who purposely declined giving references. I wouldn't even need to know what her reason are, but I would never see her again! I think we all would agree that safety is paramount in this venue, and if anyone or group upsets this apple cart, we all could suffer.

I'm often complimented because I treat providers/ladies like ladies. I know I'm not the only one as lewd, urfan, geecue2 & thaetvikin also come immediately to mind. I guess this is more rhetorical than anything, but what reason would a guy purposely choose to be anything other than nice to a provider???? I know there are smart asses out there, but even these gents (won't mention any names or numbers) are doing it more to spark conversation rather then believe their own message. So my question is why would you treat a provider anything other than being a lady?

Find out their preference and respond accordingly!

P, you reminded us of No Panties Day and now this? When is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eBtN1i3O4fY?

First Anderson Cooper and now you ! Welcome to TOB and have fun!

Every year I try to get IB6 UB9, but it gets rejected!

Mace forgot one, I didn't see Don Knot(t)s

Definitely, makes it easier to enjoy your time without the worry of getting popped. Well-reviewed ladies will keep their reputation in check. So more than likely, instead of trying to capture hobbyist in a sting, they will lay low for a bit (I know this first hand). When they are comfortable, they will resurface.

Who - I'll just say her name begins with a T When - Late 2009 Where - Her incall, which I have visited a few times since

Agree PrecioisO1ne, if it's about safety or a guy spinning his wheels, report him to one of these sites I think this is a two-part comment. First, one of the best features of TOB reviews is ladies can rebut a review. It's a slippery-slope b/c ladies can come off as bitchy or whiny if they receive less than a stellar review. But, it's still a nice feature. Secondly, not sure what you mean by doesn't like? If you mean by the lady is not the lady in the pic, than he has every right to leave and write a scathing review as to this is not the lady in the pic. If it's after services have been performed, than it could be his truth that the date didn't go well. Again, ladies have recourse and can rebut their reviews!