Dimmsdale

Okay, Let me start by saying I'm nearly 40. If you are a young provider like early twenties. A couple things to remember please. 1. As older men, most of us have been married or in a long relationship (not a couple years, like more than a decade) we can tell when you're acting, we appreciate it but please don't phone it in with the oo baby routine and think we're buying it. It comes off condescending and obnoxious. 2. If you want a man to come, most of the time telling him to makes it worse, we are then completely aware you aren't into it and want us to stop. Try something like telling him where to come WHEN he's ready. 3. A dick doesn't have one speed, sometimes slower works faster. 4. They don't all respond the same way, so gentle first and increase from there. Some guys like pain but don't simply assume that. 5. Learn from them, even if we seem like just dirty old men, and we are, a lot of us have something to offer. I've been with some dumbass women in my life but I have learned something from every one of them. Whether I was with them for an hour or years. 6. If you figure out what his fantasy is, whether he tells you or you just get it. Play into it, it will make the time more fun and get him there quicker. 7. Not every man wants a finger up their ass. So don't ass ume 8. Comfort and trust can be established within minutes if done correctly. Once that's there, getting him off is easy. 9. If you just charge 100.00, that's still an ass load of money for time. So, it doesn't hurt to put some effort into it. 10. You never know what you are really doing with him. An escort saved my life a long time ago by just being cool. She was gonna be my last meal so to speak. So, why not be cool? Cool is always better.

Right?! ... Thank you.

Okay first, if I'm annoying you stop reading and go somewhere else. Second, Katie is GONE, Lauren is GONE Me look for someone like that. And Holly, That's a great idea! OMG I never thought of trying that. I thought the higher prices were just "cuz" I have my reasons. But seriously I loved being called out as a cheap skate. That was bitchin. Thanks NEXT

I don't know if "hard core" is the right way to describe those people. Well, if nothing else I'm going to keep this thread going and when I try again I'll be posting. I'll be searching again today.

Okay, I need some advice. I've been friends with Katie (the love doll) for about 5 or six years. I've gone to see her regularly. Exactly what I needed, just slow sensual touching. I've taken her for granted because about a month ago... Poof gone. I've exhausted every effort to make sure she's at least okay. I'm guessing yes, probably retired or on a long vacation. But now, I've got no one to replace her. I heard Lauren was like that but she's gone too. There are a few but I don't want to pay FS prices. I'd see Katie for 80 a half. And it was a hhr of bliss. I've been to see a couple of the by girls from BP who are rip offs, which btw of you end up going upstairs to a place on Broadway and Hampden don't waste your money. Just a rub not sensual not even a okay massage. And the only luck I had was a girl who stunningly pretty has no clue what sensuality is and reminded me of my high school days when girls thought the harder and faster the better... Um no. It's not whack a mole. My latest encounter was awesome! Sarcastically he said, while holding his tongue. I cannot give details, just my own moral turpitude. But it was COMPLETELY FOOKED UP, Left me with my jaw wide open all day. I'm honestly about to give up. All I want is a badass, long, slow, relaxing, sensual HJ! That doesn't cost what legendary fs does. Seriously what happened? Used to be that's all you could find. Where the hell are the Genellas and Lauren's when you need them. Any suggestions? Please.

For me, it's all about seduction and foreplay. I like being taken to the absolute edge of arousal and staying there. I enjoy doing the same to whoever I am with, when that peak is even with both people the result is incredible. In general, I would answer that creating a great session is about making your client feel comfortable and not rushed. Making them feel wanted and sexy is important but doing it without patronizing them.

I think you may be right, but I saw her again and the connection is there for sure. I really got it bad. I may just have to tell her where I am at and what I feel and if she wants to proceed I guess we could just take things slow. Who knows? Maybe she'll just turn the whole thing down, not the first time my hearts been broken right? She really is something though

Reluctantly, I will give up some info... Nina nichols... best body, best breasts EVER!

Maybe you are right. I've been trying to enjoy it but at the same time keep everything at an arms length. Like I said, I know the chemistry is there but what to do with it I don't know. I am all about taboo relationships and have no problem with what she does honestly I never get jealous that's not the issue. I don't think I am ready to give anyone 100% of me and that's not fair to her IF she felt the same way. Need to give it some more thought, but I do agree with you. She does deserve to know even if she doesn't feel the same way. I'd hate to ruin a pretty cool relationship with that but I may have to chance it for her sake.

Screw that, I would date a provider. Of course I'm in love with one currently so maybe I'm bias.

+1 with urfan

I know I am okay with it, but from a man's point of view I would conceal it and if you fall in love with him then maybe make a lifestyle change or then debate telling the truth at that point. Sounds weird I know but you have to know the person first and all men are different. Some may go running, some may be fine with it, some may not be able to handle what you do. You owe nothing to a first date for sure, as a relationship builds so does trust and love and then is when you should make up your mind. In short, say nothing at first and make the decision as you go along.

Well, it certainly is maddening. Enjoyable, but maddening

Eh, say what you will. I am enjoying it.

I would think there would be a lot more romantics in here. I love all the advice and comments but I don't think I am going to mention it to the provider. On one side I think she has the right to know but on the other side, some things I like to keep for myself (not counting this post). Why is it wrong to have feelings for someone and enjoy my time with her? I think she's a very cool person, we seem to have good chemistry, and yes I have feelings for her. Does that mean I HAVE to say something to her? I don't think so. Maybe I do, maybe I don't. Not every relationship has to go the distance. The most romantic time I ever had was a single date that never went further than a good night kiss. In that night I fell deeply in love and have carried it with me as a good memory for some time. You can live in a moment you know. Doesn't always have to be quit the business or move in or marriage. It can just be.