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Who’s whining? I was just asking (and quite politely, I might add) if she does prebooking. An ad isn’t a Supreme Court order, for goodness’ sake - exceptions can be made if they’re reasonable, and I’ve had providers do just that. If that didn’t work for her, she should have said “sorry, that’s not how I work - maybe give me a call if you have a free day” or something equally polite to that effect. No harm, no foul. Instead she asked for a deposit without first telling me whether we could actually get together, and then was rude when I asked - again, politely - whether we could set a time and date before I sent said deposit. If we’re making this about business practices…be rude to YOUR new potential customers and see what happens.

So, trying to set a date with a lady I've been following for some time. She states that she only takes same day appointments, which doesn't work for me - I have an actual job (otherwise known as "source of her donation") and I can't just not show up while I wait for her to tell me if today's a good day or not. So I very politely tell her that doesn't work for me as I can't just make my schedule up as I go along, so I ask politely again if she would be OK with setting a time for next week. She says that's fine as long as I leave a deposit, which I then tell her I'd be OK with as long as we can set a time that works for both of us next week. How unreasonable, eh? Next message is: send deposit on cash app now. No confirmation of date or time she'd be available. Fifteen minutes later: "blocked". FYI, to repeat: this is an established provider. She's not on TOB, but she has a long track record and a ton of reviews. One thing I've learned in this hobby is that the best way to preview a bad date is bad communication or flaky behavior leading up to it. If she sucks this bad at client relations, the date's going to suck, and not in a good way. I suppose this brings me to my question: I've been doing this for a few years now, and it seems that this sort of nonsense is getting more frequent. I get that these ladies are scammed and stood up all the time, and that's crappy, but at the same time, I've never done that, and what's wrong with giving your client, who's a busy guy (like about 99% of the other guys who can actually hobby) the basic courtesy of setting a date that works for both of you before sending money? Is anyone else seeing this? And thus endeth my rant.

Off topic, Bella, but if you get back to Colorado, let us know!

BTW if you haven't seen Katie Fairy, you're definitely missing out.

Ah, I never thought to check PD. Thanks for the sleuthing!

Thanks, I did see those, but they're for for a different Ava (clearly two different women of different ages). I also tried her phone number and email address. I'm a touch hesitant because she wants ID screening. I'm not necessarily opposed to that as long as I know it's an established provider, but in this case, she lists reviews that I can't seem to find, and that plus the ID screening requirement makes me a bit nervous. Any ideas besides waiting around for reviews (no damn fun)?

Ava Oak Colorado Companion Hi, all - looking for some reviews for this lady (which she has per her site) but not finding anything. Any ideas? https://www.meetavaoak.com/