Yogi

It seems pretty straightforward that she screens with P411. If you request an appointment through that system, then no problem with a burner -- unless I am completely misreading this: Drop me a line by phone for fastest results and be aware that without an appt request from P411, I cannot schedule an inquiry from a disposable number, no exceptions allowed whatsoever. Thanks for reading!

None of us knows where each are coming from, so this is yet another reason to be kind to each other out there.

There is a recent, positive review on her (the review links to the BP ad) but the profile is the one to "Shelby Lynne." My guess is that she just left all the setting default (which is why she's listed as "20" y/o and 0' 0" inches tall & such.) https://theotherboard.com/users/94769 Interesting, but not sure a slam dunk.

One hour has been my default and I can only think of once or twice that I've regretted it. However, lately I'm leaning toward shorter (30 mins) sessions for a variety of reasons. But, I think there is something lost as mentioned earlier. Whether it is worth the trade of a lighter "financial commitment," slightly easier scheduling or not, I don't know, but expect I'll find out.

The key really is deniability and that starts with making certain that there is no way to link personal information with hobby information. People can say anything. But if there no connection between real you with hobby you: deny deny deny.

These sound like promising changes. Any thoughts on allowing the reviewer to post a link to how they located the provider? In the previous version of the board, that always was helpful in providing a bit more information while researching. Thanks -Y

It if it s specific individual and their posts that are bumming you out, you can "ignore" that user. If you put your cursor over the user's name, a window will appear and allow you to click "Ignore User." That will filter out their comments on the site. I've used it for a few folks who don't add to the discussion -- for me. It won't eliminate seeing replies to that user's messages, but does tamp down the noise a little. - Y

Hi, Jos -- Adding my two cents for Burner ( http://m.burnerapp.com ) I've used it for a couple of years and it is quite robust and they update the app with bug fixes often. The best improvement has been adding a monthly subscription. (Previously, you paid for minutes/text that expired after a certain period & the number burned. Lost a couple numbers I wanted to keep.) You can have multiple numbers at the same time, if that is a need. I'm not much of a voice user, so I can't comment on that, but the text feature is pretty solid. With testing, I think. Good luck. - Y

This is tough. While understanding that life does none of us many favors, clients aren't always just sitting on the couch, eating Cheetos and watching Judge Judy. (Well, not always....) I think an honest review with the facts only would be appropriate. Especially after more than a few of these last minute cancellations. As mentioned, it would ive a heads up to others that scheduling can be hit-or-miss with that provider. Let them decide. I have had a similar experience with a provider who does the same thing. It is a bit of a killer because after confirming an appointment, I will block out an appointment on my calendar that folks cannot book against. (Dr. DDS, Funeral...) Those are hard to pull back. "Oh, they're burying that guy NEXT week. My bad. Ha, ha, ha.....")

I cross paths with a provider in a business setting. Later booked an appointment & we happily decided that a policy of M.A.D. was the wisest course. "Mutually Assured Discretion"

Review? Are we sure the F was a provider?

^^^^ mind blown

dang. hit submit before adding my witty reply that it is also a good multi-tasking position. "Surf the web while you work..."

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All good answers, especially getting a elevator location from the provider ahead of time helps a lot. I'm sure this is overkill, but aside from the looking at your phone thing, I carry a folder with some paper work or a binder or manila envelope (don't include personal info) which often is what I'm dragging around when I'm actually on the road. I've never had anyone ask who I'm visiting -- that would be a bad sign -- but my fall back is to give a random male name and then "realize" that I"m at the wrong hotel. "Oh, this isn't the Hilton? D'oh!" Not sure how that would work and if it didn't then, just leave. What have you done except walk into their lobby?

Two things that come to mind, as someone who require discretion, would be items that can be used at work (be it an office or field) or in the bathroom. The ManCan is great in theory, but the contents may not be my can of paint....er, cup of tea. Two reasons beyond discretion are that I often think about my favorite companions in the shower -- wink, wink, nudge, nudge, say no more -- for obvious reasons. (I think there may have been a post or two on hygiene, too, a couple of years ago....?) As for the work thing, which might be harder to think of something, it is also a place where I think about appointments and 99% of them are during work hours. (Thankful for a semi-flexible schedule & no one looking over my shoulder...much.) Something that is a subtle reminder, inside joke or such would be good. Think what a favorite provider Bobblehead on the favorite gent's desk would do to productivity? Expensive, but super cool but so-so in the discretion area.

Nope, no negative suspicions at all. She was / is smart and sweet. Very nice, interesting. So, I just really liked here personality and our time visiting was great, but she went offline right after we met & didn't get a chance to meet again, so that's all.

Because I'm not sure if it is the provider I'd seen previously -- only once unfortunately -- and would like to again.

Hair conditioner, anti-aging product, and treatment for skin conditions. Kinda makes you wonder what else it could do? Make human clones?!? Beauty blogger Tracy Kiss has a skin condition called rosacea that she says she treats successfully with natural products milked from a mystery human semen cow http://www.dazeddigital.com/artsandculture/article/28404/1/wanna-stay-young-forever-start-putting-semen-on-your-face

I have several girl crushes...

You know, I read in Bull Insemination Monthly (I only read it for the articles) that it only really works directly from the source, but I imagine that would make things a wee too exciting at the salon.

Yes, I think this is a good expectation. If you're rocking Sherwood Forest down there, don't expect the Merry Men to get much love. I'm sort of ambivalent about the attention there (which I know if freakish, but the way Mocha talks about it maybe I'm not be visiting the right people...?) Nevertheless, I try to keep it fairly tidy.

I understand that No Reviews Nequested is part of being very under the radar, and some ladies don't want any sort of "publicity" but those on the DNR list likely were not in that group, yes? It is also helpful for research as it gives a bit of information why a provider may not have any reviews show up. Would returning that list be feasible or could there be a return in the review search that indicated "No Reviews by Request" if a lady is in that category? Thanks.

A little off topic, but once had my boss call / text me mid-session in a complete panic about a potential fuck up on a big project. Had to take the call spent five to ten minutes talking him off the ledge and stammering about how I could rush back to the office immediately. Now I make sure I mark my out of office time as dentist visits. But let me second Burner as a great app & mark the number as "for ebBay". Scarlett's suggestion to make contacts all masculine is spot on. Mix them in with the guys from the bowling league. Not an excuse for not being vigilant. It only takes being careless once to bring on the pain.

Direction and authentic encouragement is something I very much appreciate. Laplace is right about delivery. If it kind of flows and matches the mood, tempo, activity, then probably any phrasing would work. I have one exception. While some folks like this phrase, please don't call me "D-word." (Not sure if it falls into the Unmentionables Category, but rhymes with Paddy....) Anyway, I understand -- I think -- some of the dynamics around that, but it doesn't work for me at all. Once, had a provider use it & killed things. Now that I think of it, I don't know if dirty talk is often part of my visits. Nothing stands out, but I tend stay with the same provider or two who don't really partake. But, early in figuring out all this business, I was visiting around a bit. There was a provider, who's no longer around, asked me to talk dirty to her and I tried in hopes of helping the mood (things weren't clicking.) My efforts was something out of a bad SNL sketch. I think being raised to be pathologically polite wasn't helpful. So feeling a bit stressed, every phrase I tried came out as "If you don't mind, I'd like to [verb] my [noun] in you [adjective] [noun], thank you so much..."