Due to a series of sourly serendipitous events such as: dating extremely religious girls, attending an all boys high school, having a generally shy disposition, etc I'm in my early 20s and a virgin. I'm considering paying one of Colorado's professionals to take my virginity. Do you think this would be a good idea? So far here is the list of pros and cons I've devised
Pros
-My first time would be guaranteed to be mind blowing since most of the girls on here have stellar skills due to their experience.
-It would likely help my confidence and prepare me better for when I get with a girl who I actually have feelings for
-I would stop feeling like a loser since society indoctrinates people into thinking they're fucking lepers if they're virgins in their 20s
-Maybe having sex will make me realize how fucking awesome sex is and give me more motivation to seek out female relationships which could greatly enhance my satisfaction with life
Cons
-I could catch and STD and have to worry about the Herp haunting me for the rest of my life. When you're 60 and divorced having herpes isn't a big deal since you're probably not getting laid anymore unless you pay for it with or without and STD Having an STD in your 20s though is a major problem though because it could severely limit your ability to get other young women to sleep with you
-I could end up completely disassociating physical intimacy from emotional intimacy. This could be a pro or a con depending on how you look at it.
-I could get arrested by LE and end up getting ass fucked in prison by a large black man named "Ray Ray." This is definitely the worst scenario imaginable; you wake up thinking you're going to get laid by a rad women and end up getting rammed from behind by a burly dude that night in prison. I also imagine having solicitation on my record could severely limit my future job prospects.
-I could end up regretting it for the rest of my life because my first time wasn't with "someone special."
It's a tough call. I need you wise ladies and lads of the hobby to give me some guidance and advice. Should I just say "Fuck it" and get it over with? Should I keep holding out? I feel like I'm losing a lot of prime years of sex by waiting but will I end up abhorring myself if I loss my virginity this way? If I decide to go through with this, who would be a good candidate for such an experience? I need you wise old sexual sages to help me out.
