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That is good to hear. Next time I am looking for something a bit specific I think I may try the same thing and see what happens.

Does something like this actually work to just post what it is that you want and then have providers respond? It is my experience that it takes a bit of effort to arrange an appointment and this would just be like picking up the phone and ordering room service. I am not imagining that many, if any, providers respond to a post like this but I may be wrong and maybe I have just been going about it all wrong. Please let us know if this works. Maybe if it does work the EB could just become more of a job board. LOL I get that the hobby is different than real life in some ways but not in all ways and I am thinking providers still want to be the pursued. After all they are hot women providing us with the experiences we desire, it would seem unnatural not to have them the one being pursued. I am not saying that posting something like this is a good thing or a bad thing. I am just wondering if it actually works.

Thank you for your thoughts. You have eased my paranoia.

I noticed an ad on EB today from a provider I had seen three years ago and would like to see again. In fact, I have been keeping an eye out for her since I began participating in the hobby again but it looked like she had retired or relocated. I was pleasantly surprised to see her ad and ready to contact her and set something up and then I hesitated. I understand that it is not uncommon for a provider to leave the business and then return and this would be the likely scenario. However, while potentially less likely it occurred to me that it would also be very possible for Uncle Leo to just recycle information from a previous well established provider who left the business posing as that returning provider and some of us might flock to that like pigs to the slaughter. Am I paranoid? What would you do? Has anybody ever heard of Uncle Leo doing anything like this in the past? Thanks

Thanks for the information.

Hello, I found a recent review of a lady who only has one review. In my additional research I found that the reviewer completed this review last month and five previous reviews between 2011 and 2014. This recent review was the first review in 1 year. I went to the member list and could not find the reviewer in the list or using search. Since this review was last month I would expect this to be an active member. My question is this: Is it possible for a member to not be on the member list and still be an active member able to post reviews. In other words, can members select an option to not show up on the member list? Thanks

Several years ago I met with a COS provider who said to me during the transition from UTF to FS ?You can grab me anywhere you would like and can do anything you want?. At the time I had been married for many years and in the hobby for several years and my internal reaction was ?Huh? What? Really? OKAY!? Given the UTF and TUMA I had just experienced I was clear that anything I wanted was not even going to come close to whatever limit there was to the statement I just heard, so I proceeded as instructed and it was great. I did not do anything weird or unusual, it was just no rules and anything I wanted that made it great. Not thinking about rules, not asking if this would be okay or that would, it was just doing it. A bit primal the way it was designed to be. Memorable because it was no doubt the first time a women had ever told me that. Marriage and relationship sex also has rules, provider sex has rules. Sex without rules is a rare find. Since then I spent several years with visits to Mexico for work and enjoyed the Monger activities. While I was never told something like I just described in regards to no rules, it was rare to ever be told that there were any rules so I took that as implying ?no rules? and found that with only a couple exceptions I never encountered rules. Plus with it being the world of the $300 eight hour overnight session with an ?implied? no rules, that was pretty great. So this next part of my post is just a ?perfect world? fantasy because I get all the reasons why it can?t happen. However, it would be great (in a perfect world) if there were something like the Anything You Want acronym so that you knew up front. Yes, I get that a provider would be insane to advertise something like this because it could be an absolute invitation for phychos and abusers. I also get how the YMMV needs to be in play before hearing what I heard from that provider years ago and having the experiences I have had since. I guess with having recently returned to the hobby after several years away I am just experiencing the reality that you don?t pick up where you left off. Now each session is a first session, a bit of a fishing expedition.

You have much more game than I do to have such an expectation, kudos. That idea has never ever been a consideration for me. I don’t go to a restaurant wanting to serve the waitress lunch, I go to have lunch and the waitress is at work doing her job. I have the objective of being pleasant, polite, leaving a nice tip and maybe making her day at work a bit better by being the type of customer she would like to see during her day at work. It is my lunch break not the waitresses. She gets to have lunch on her time when she is not at work. Besides how creepy would it be if I told her to have a seat and asked her what she would like to have for lunch. I would no longer be the type of customer she would like to see during her day at work.

Hello Heidi, Thanks for joining TOB and posting your reply to clear up the confusion. You are correct [snip] I understand why you would post pictures that are a likeness on BP. I can tell from your actual picture that you were not trying to hide anything, you are very attractive. Thanks again for your post.

Thanks for the details. Things do look different in the moment. I prefer WYSWYG, so I will move on to the genuine established providers. Thanks again

I have seen her backpage ads, read her 3 reviews and noticed she now has a P411 profile. http://denver.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/all-yu-need-and-mre-23/11209563 The reviews indicates pictures are accurate, but darker complexion http://tobreviews.com/index.cfm?show_all_reviews=yes&asp=4530 Everything seems to pass the tests and then I found this with an image search http://www.sugarnips.com/galleries2/chrissyblooms/ I searched the forum for both spellings of her name Hiedi and Heidi and did not see a discussion, so I thought I would ask for thoughts. Mine is that it went from looking real to TGTBT.