josulli

I'm 65.. I had a "thing" with a provider who turned out to be barely 21... As I dove further into the web.. I learned that she had been recruited by a 40 something experienced provider.. she started and all was great.. she kept what she made.. and then things changed.. she had to turn over 1/2 of everything she made.. plus pay a daily rate for the room she used at the condo controlled by the older provider.. plus pay for her advertising.. plus pay for transportation to and from the house..plus any tips or gifts she got were kept by the older woman.. so human traffiking? Idon't know..but it wasn't right.. bottom line, she was always broke.. had barely enough to eat.. she was a white kid from the suburbs.. just naive.. She left last week.. finally, and is now with family.. I miss her a lot.. but it was for the best.. she pushed my buttons.. she was way too young..

Leaving a marriage is a lot harder to do than that.. issues like splitting of property.. so a well planned retirement is destroyed.. THings like you might enjoy her family & Nieces & nephews.. walking away means leaving them too.. and nowhere is it written that you must be happy, thrilled or tickled pink to stay in a marriage.. Did you ever keep a pair of old shoes.. just because they still worked OK.?